My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'2" (157 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Asiam7, Woman, 39 |
Location | Fredericksburg, Virginia, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 29 - 50, White/Latino/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'2" (157 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a warm, confident, classy, caring, affectionate, down-to-earth, laid-back, and fun-loving quaintrelle woman who laughs easily and loves spending quality time in good company and with family.
I enjoy nature, good* music, good* movies/shows (although I am not much into tv, I am loving Scandal right now), documentaries, theater, food, literature, writing (I think I write more than I talk Lol), art, travel, different cultures, adventure (bungee, etc.), and exploring/ learning new things. I love the outdoors and I don't mind getting my hair wet (the wild and curly me I love... I had to add that since this was a question I was asked on here... Ummm yeah, no comment) :-)
I took this from someone elses page and completely agree (I hope he doesn't mind, ha): 'although I have some nice things, I do not crave material possessions; I would rather be happy and have experiences.'
I am more of a quality over quantity type of woman.
I was also asked about my dating experiences with white men on here. Up until recently, unfortunately, I have not dated outside my race before and never thought about giving it a chance, although I've had opportunities. As a child, I have always been inherently physically attracted to white men. My family still joke about my best friend in kindergarten through 3rd grade, Jeremy, and how we use to ride bikes all day and play football in my backyard, with red-stained lips from devouring cherry popsicles, Lol. He had blue eyes... And he was my first kiss. Years passed and after my parents moved, I forgot about my childhood friend.. And eventually my instinctive attraction and curiosity. I became use to social norms and adapted to them. I learned from seeing few examples of 'black' American women in interracial relationships and from the media/ social conditioning. Now I am stronger within myself, wiser and follow my desires. So that being said, while still open to all kinds of men, I am opening myself to new possibilities. There is no 'trial and error' here, I'm just opening myself and seeing where it takes me.
Whatever happens happens, right?
I'm more than a woman who can give you a "good time," but one who can also contribute to great life experiences. There's more you can learn about me in time. Hope to have a chance to get to know you. If you're interested in getting to know me or have any questions, just send me a message/flirt... But until then... Good luck in your search, take care...
(Oh, and the headline means "I am speechless" in German. A man in NY stopped me in my tracks with these words as he slowly walked toward me to introduce himself in a crowded hotel lobby full of people stuck due to the East Coast hurricane (yes, I was one of them, lol) ... And I've been in love with the language ever since... No, I'm not fluent, but would like to be eventually, and in more than one language if possible)
I am looking for
In all honesty, I am interested in being in an authentic/ quality relationship with a good friend and companion to explore and discover life with. Someone who can just 'be' with me/ we can be ourselves with each other.
I enjoy a man with a great sense of humor, who is respectful, honest, real, supportive, sincere, and enjoys affection that engages his senses.
I am not really interested in "the life of the party" bar hopping/ "Bachelor forever" type of guy or the "playa" type. There's no judgment here, everyone has a preference and on their own personal journey, but I am a woman of integrity, with morals and values, if that makes any sense, and open to a man of integrity/ with honorable intentions (if you find this old fashioned, I hate to break it to ya... You're wasting your time - smile). Yes, an outgoing and fun man can be with me, but I also find the "quiet storm" type very intriguing and extremely attractive :) I'd like to meet a man I can have fun with and enjoy life with as well.
Feeling chemistry/connection/ physical attraction between each other, along with having spiritual connection and mutual understanding and open, honest communication is important to me.
I am open to getting to know a man from another country/culture and background. The only limits we encounter are the limits we place on ourselves. If you think about it, there are really no borders that we humans have not created in the world, so I am open to a long distance relationship with the right man. I'm sure we'll have a lot to learn from each other and to discover.
Looking forward to chatting/ meeting you...