My ethnicity is | Black/White/Latino/Mixed... |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Blaxican81, Woman, 42 |
Location | Richmond, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 25 - 35, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Latino/Mixed... |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Hi, I'm Melanie. I'm an 80's baby. I'm 5"6, curvy and recently lost 55 lbs since Christmas of 2010. I was born & raised in the San Francisco Bay Area. I'm mainly half Black and half Mexican with a little bit of this-n-that.
I'm healthy, disease-free, drug-free and full of vigor and zest. I am not promiscuous. I love to laugh and I absolutely love comedy. I'm a little shy at first but warm up once I get to know you. I'm independent, honest, loving, smart, caring, patient, funny, and fun to hang out with. Although I really have an eye for Black guys and Latin guys, do understand that I love and appreciate people of all races. I am not racist and won't tolerate racism, no way Jose! My whole family is a melting pot and I have some deep family roots too.
Currently I'm pursuing photography and I absolutely love it! Capturing the world from my perspective is amazing! I also love traveling a lot and New York City is my most traveled city. I'm in love with NYC. I could live there!
I also enjoy biking, working out, kayaking, canoeing, camping, hiking, jogging, snuggling, stargazing, white river rafting, watching movies at home and going to the movies, exploring, poetry. I enjoy listening to music (Mainly hip-hop, rap, classic rock, Oldies and Latin music), but I enjoy and appreciate all genres of music.
I drink socially and even drinking is rare for me. I have no kids but definitely want some in the future. I know I'd be an amazing mother, especially with my love for kids, and kids just love me. There's nothing I wouldn't do for kids. But I wouldn't overspoil them. They are the keys to our future. I would like 3 or 4 children and I'm so looking forward to motherhood.
I hope to really find that special someone out there, and believe me, I know he's out there somewhere. Only time will tell... And I hope it'll be soon.:-)
I am looking for
I'm looking for an amazing guy who shares a lot of the same qualities that I do. Someone who is not a jerk. Someone who is smart, affectionate, not selfish or self-centered. Someone who is a REAL man and is mature. A great sense of humor is definitely a turn-on and he must be outgoing and think logically. Must not be lazy. I want to snuggle with him in a blanket on a cold winter's day or a rainy day and watch a good movie, go exploring the great outdoors, take walks on the beach hand in hand. He must like animals because I'm a huge animal lover.
I'm interested in someone to hold, hug, love and feel comfortable with. Someone that I can tell all my feelings to. I'm not interested in a guy who does drugs or drinks too much. I don't mind if he gets drunk every once in a blue moon. I've seen firsthand what that does to people and the consequences are pretty sad. I want him to be there for me and our kids, be there for his future grandchildren and enjoy his life to the fullest.
I want to be with someone who wants to fall in love. I've never really fallen in love before and want to experience that. I want to be with someone I know I'll marry and have kids with and spend the rest of my life with, someone to grow old with. I'm not getting any younger so why not?
I want to be able to sit under the stars with him and tell him how much I love him. I'm the kind of woman who would give my man a backrub and foot massage after a long day of work.
And age doesn't really matter to me either although ideally I'd prefer someone close to my age. As long as you're mature for your age and there's definitely some chemistry going between us, then I think you will be the one!