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He is the Love of my life,I almost gave up trying to find that special man. So many men would flirt with me but never would read my profile-he did and we emailed each other daily and then it moved to emailing and talking daily. We have talked about our future together and want to the same long term relationship.

brownbaby37, Age 43, California

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Man Looks at the Outward Appearance...
Nickname:  Butter_fly
Location:  United States, California, San Francisco
Age:  99
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 28 - 44
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Friends, Pen Pal
Eye color:  Brown
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  Other
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent, White / European descent, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other
Religion:  Christian - Other
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Never
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  No
Want children:  Yes
Languages:  English, Other
My Personality
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion
My sense of humor is: 
Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue
I attend religious services: 
Once a week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
... But the Lord looks at the heart - 1 Samuel 16:7

Women Are Born, Ladies Are Carefully Crafted :) I'm Feminine and not a "Feminist" :)

Chemistry is Overrated... But Good Qualities Prevail :)

"You are blessed when you're content with just who you are, nothing more, nothing less.. That's the moment you find yourself the PROUD OWNER OF EVERYTHING THAT CANNOT BE BOUGHT" -unknown

Opportunities are missed by most people because they either look like work or a waste of time. But women are like apples, the best ones are at the top of the tree.-Thomas Edison and an unknown author

I'm old-fashioned about many things, and non-conformist in other ways. I am easygoing though a girly-girl, but I do have an edge. I'm also quirky and nerdy but you can't tell by looking.

I am one of the kindest people you will ever meet, and will also challenge you the most. I'm a good girl, not a nice girl; there is a difference.

I can be extremely uplifting, encouraging, emotionally supportive and positive to be around.

Note: I actually live outside the city of San Francisco in another city in the East Bay.

I love reading, listening to all kind of music, dancing (especially salsa), people watching, and waxing poetic on life.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, but lose his own soul? A prudent man is one who can make the hard but wise exchange and leave the world behind.

A man who believes in and is dedicated to something greater than him. Specifically, must be a true Christian, not simply in name only but in word and in deed, one whose life reflects this.

However, since perfection is an impossibility, a man like Theodore Roosevelt described, "... Who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause..."

Must be mentally stable, single(not married or separated), and be a U. S. Citizen or have a green card.

Must be interested in marriage and having children one day.

A man who is caring and good, and also is intelligent.

He must be able to effectively produce, provide, protect and problem solve :)

It doesn't really matter to me how short or tall you are, that is not the measure of a man. It matters little to me what kind of job you have, that does not define quality in a man. What is important is that you are legally, morally, ethically and gainfully employed or have some way of earning a decent living, and can look at yourself in the mirror before and after work and be OK.

I need a man to be a man... Like Erykah Badu said,"You be boy and I'll be girl." You need to do the guy thing, call me when you want to go out, pick where we are going, etc.
Looking for ethnicity: 
White / European descent, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi