My ethnicity is | Black/White/East Indian/Native American... |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | ChocBar4U, Man, 57 |
Location | Saint Louis, Missouri, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 18 - 42, Asian/Black/Pacific Islander... |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/East Indian/Native American... |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Tall, Dark, Handsome, Easygoing, Laidback, Honest, Patient, Understanding, Sincere, Calm, Passionate, Romantic, Faithfull, Kindhearted, Hardworking, Intelligent, Loving, Athletic, Caring, Sociable, Loyal. I enjoy many things & am a man of many talents (Basketball, Softball, Workingout, Bicycling, Bowling, Martial Arts, Dancing, Cooking, Writing Poetry, Drawing, Listening to all types of music, Shopping for clothes, shoes, colognes, & watches, Spending time w/ family)Independant, mature. I know what I desire in a woman & a relationship. I am a man who takes a relationship, faithfullness, loyalty, respect, honesty, commitment, & the marriage vows very seriously.
#1. All U "Find Out Later" females need to get a life & yeahhh U know who U are!!! How the hell are U going to have pics of kids on ur profiles, but U can't answer a simple "yes or no" question about whether U have them or not?? Really shows your intelligence & sends a "Red Flag" that you're not mature or serious(Yeahhh, I know I struck some nerves, but Oh' Well, If U took as much time filling out a profile as U do bashing men & using ur creativity for ur nickname on ur profile. Saying that U want a "Real Man"??? Be a "Real Woman" 1st!!!
#2. When did the site become a place for female pimps & hustlas?? With ur bodies all tatted up & ur gold grills(Looking more like "Mr Otis" from the Martin show) & U have the nerve to have a pic of urself with all ur paper?? Pleaseee!!! U really feel like something?? Degrading urself as a woman like that?? Then want to get upset, because of the critters U attract, thinking U "ballin' & flossin')
#3. IF U THINK SOOO LIL' OF URSELF AS A WOMAN & PORTRAY URSELF AS A PIECE OF MEAT, THEN U CANNOT OPEN UR MOUTH, GET UPSET OR OFFENDED & SAY A WORD ABOUT THE ATTENTION U ATTRACT FROM VARIOUS CRITTERS.!!!"PRIDE IN URSELF, BEGETS RESPECT FROM OTHERS"!!!
I am looking for
I am searching for a woman who is "REAL" not superficial or fake. Someone who has not only an outer beauty, but an inner beauty as well. She is understanding, honest, very open, passionate, strong but sensitive, she has a confidence about herself & pride. She is comfortable w/ her sensuality & sexuality as a woman & knows how to express it. She knows how to love unconditionally. She is faithfull, loyal, sincere, genuine. She is able to turn negatives into positives. A woman who is like the most precious diamond waiting for her man to polish her & let her shine!!! A woman who is not materialistic... NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE, BUT PLEASEEE!!! IF U R CAUCASIAN OR WHITE I AM NOT INTERESTED, SO PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME FLIRTS OR ANYTHING. I AM NOT PREJUDICE IT IS JUST MY PERSONAL PREFERENCE!!. THERE R MANY BLACKQUEENS WHO R GOOD & HOLDING IT DOWN FOR THEMSELVES WHO DESERVE TO BE LOVED, APPRECIATED & RESPECTED. I LOVE MY CHOCOLATE WOMAN WHO R FULL OF PASSION, ROMANCE, DESIRE, SENSUALITY, & BEAUTY. THEY R BLACK DIAMONDS CREATED BY GOD!!! IF U DO NOT HAVE A PHOTO, PLEASE DO NOT WASTE URS & MY TIME TRYING TO CONTACT ME, BECAUSE I WILL NOT RESPOND!!! DO NOT FLIRT ME EITHER, IF U HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY, WE R ALL GROWN, SAY IT!!! ALSO, IF U DO NOT HAVE A PHOTO ON UR PROFILE PLEASE DO NOT & I REPEAT DO NOT (FOR THE MENTALLY CHALLENGED)WASTE UR TIME & MINE VIEWING MY PROFILE OR SENDING ME FLIRTS!!! THANK U... OK, AFTER LOOKING AT & READING THE ABUDANCE OF PROFILES ON HERE THAT HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO SUBSTANCE TO THEM AT ALL, I FEEL I HAVE TO BREAK IT DOWN FOR THOSE WHO SEEM TO BE A LIL' MENTALLY SLOW?? OR WHO R STILL RIDING THAT LIL' YELLOW BUS!!!#1. IF U R WHITE, CAUCASIAN, CASPER THE FRIENDLY GHOST LOOKING THEN PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME, FLIRT WITH ME OR EVEN BOTHER LOOKING AT MY PAGE!!! I LOVE MY BLACK, CHOCOLATE, NEAUBIAN, EBONY SKINNED WOMEN!!!...#2. IF U HAVE NO SUBSTANCE TO UR PROFILE MEANING U HAVE NOTHING BUT "FIND OUT LATER" ON UR PROFILE & NO PICS, THEN KEEP IT MOVING & DON'T WASTE MINE & URS TIME.#3. IF U R JUST HERE FOR A FREE RIDE, MATERIALISTIC THINGS, MONEY ETC... THEN KEEP IT MOVING, BECAUSE I DON'T NEED U!! I WORKED HARD TO ESTABLISH WHAT GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH & I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR GOLDDIGGERS!!! I'M KEEPING IT REAL, BECAUSE SOME OF U FEMALES R STRAIGHT UP SCANDILOUS!!!& LASTLY I AM NOT HERE TO PROVE NOTHING TO NOONE EXCEPT THE MAN UP ABOVE!!!, SO ALL U FEMALES WITH THIS ATTITUDE OF PROVING THAT WE LOVE U ETC... KEEP IT MOVING. I AM A PAYING MEMBER, 95% OF U FEMALES R NOT, SO I HAVE NOTHING TO PROVE TO ANY OF U!!! PROVE SOMETHING TO URSELF & BE A REAL WOMAN, MAYBE THEN U WILL SUCCEED IN FINDING A REAL MAN!!! YEAH, I KNOW THE TRUTH HURTS SOMETIMES & YOU ALL LOOKED AT MY PROFILE & PICS & THOUGHT I WAS JUST THIS LIL' GUY WHO MUST BE SWEET?? I AM FOR A QUALITY, REAL WOMAN!!! NOT THE SUPERFICIAL, FAKE 1'S...
Ok, They say to always update ur profile & keep it fresh?? Well, I have been browsing the quality of profiles on this site & as I have said earlier in my profile there is no depth or substance to 95% of the profiles on here. With that being said, I thought I would make it very (extremely clear) Who can keep on moving & who has no chance & is just wasting there time by doing this update. It is not to offend anyone!!! But if it does then it just goes to show that U R definitely not for me!!!
#1. If U have "Diva" anywhere in ur profile U can keep it moving!!! I don't want 1 & don't need 1 & if U contact me on my profile all U will get is a bunch of Snickers!!!
#2. If U have "Find Out Later" allover ur profile & no pic at all, but U call urself "Sexy", "Cute", & whatever other name U want to call urself pass go & keep it moving!!!
#3. THIS IS PROBABLY THE MOST IMPORTANT, SO PLEASE READ IT CAREFULLY!!! IT IS FOR ALL FEMALES!! IF U HAVE ANYWHERE ON UR PROFILE THAT U R SEARCHING FOR THE PERFECT MAN OR U GIVE A DESCRIPTION OF A UNREALISTIC MAN, THEN UR SEARCH IS HOPELESS & U R WASTING UR TIME BY CONTACTING ME!!!. I AM IN NO WAY A PERFECT MAN, ONLY GOD ABOVE IS PERFECT IN EVERYWAY!!!. I AM JUST A MAN WHO HAS FAULTS, BUT TRIES TO LIVE MY LIFE FOR GOD!! I HAVE BEEN RAISED BY MY MOTHER A STRONG, DETERMINED, MOTIVATED, CHRISTIAN BLACKWOMAN TO BE THE MAN THAT I AM TODAY!! THERE IS NO ME WITHOUT HER!!!& I LOVE, RESPECT, & APPRECIATE HER FOR EVERYTHING THAT SHE DID IN RAISING ME & MY SIBLINGS & THE SACRIFICES THAT SHE ENDURED & I APPRECIATE THE WOMAN THAT SHE IS.!!! Now with that being said. I am tired of looking at females profiles who have absolutely no pride or respect for themselves as woman!!! I am tired of seeing females on here with pics showing there body parts (or what they want to call "there assets") to attract a man, but then U have the nerve to say in ur profile that U don't want a man who just wants sex or webcam sex??? C'mon, ur only fooling urself & playing a game with urself!!!. I'm tired of these fake profiles & yes U know some of U females R very scandulous & play all kinds of mind games, so it's not just men!!! U say U like to travel & be pampered & wine & dined & everything & U try to look like U have class, but ur profile says U have 0 education & no damn job??? What's really going on?? I say all of this because I just recently read a profile & I won't mention any names or put them out there like that, but they had in their profile & I quote "WHAT U HAVE BETWEEN UR LEGS DOES NOT MAKE U A MAN"!!! Now this is very true, but U females need to take a dose of ur own medicine & realize that JUST BECAUSE U MAY HAVE A BODY OF A WOMAN, DOES NOT MAKE U A WOMAN!!! U CAN HAVE THE BODY & THE MIND & BRAIN OF CHILD!!! I AS A MAN DESIRE, WANT, & NEED A REAL WOMAN WHO HAS THE MIND, BODY, & SOUL OF WOMAN!!! THAT'S KEEPING IT REAL!!!& OHHH YEAH LAST BUT DEFINITELY NOT LEAST, ALL U FEMALES ON HERE LIEING ABOUT UR AGE( & U KNOW WHO U R!!!)NEED TO GET REAL. SOME OF U IN UR 50'S & 60'S CLAIMING TO BE IN UR 20'S & 30'S & THEN OTHER'S CLAIMING THEY R IN THERE 20'S & 30'S KNOWING THEY KICKING 50 ALL UP IN THE ASS!!! U FEMALES THAT R ON HERE TRYING TO RUN GAME, TRYING TO HUSTLE, TRYING TO RUN A SCAM NEED TO GO SOMEWHERE ELSE & KEEP IT MOVING, BECAUSE IF U DON'T HAVE ENOUGH RESPECT FOR URSELF AS A WOMAN, THEN I SURE AS HELL WON'T EITHER WHEN UR WASTING MY TIME. THERE R NO FREE RIDES HERE!!! IF U PLAY THOSE KINDS OF GAMES WITH URSELF & ANYONE ELSE, THEN IT JUST SHOWS HOW WEAK OF A FEMALE U TRULY R & I DON'T NEED U OR DESIRE U, I WANT & DESIRE A "STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, PASSIONATE, SEXY, SENSUAL, LOVING, PATIENT, UNDERSTANDING, & MOST IMPORTANTLY "GOD FEARING" REAL WOMAN!!!& THAT IS KEEPING IT BLUNT, TO THE POINT, UPFRONT, STRAIGHT UP, & ALL THE WAY REAL!!!...
Well, I cannot say that it has not been an experience on this site. I have chatted & sent messages to a few very intelligent, strong, motivated, beautiful blackwoman & queens. A few were "Black Diamonds", because it was sooo rare to see the qualities that they possessed as women. (& yes, U had to do alottt of panhandling to find them, especially with all the dirt & sand that is on this website, but there R some beautiful diamonds out there.)U could have nothing but appreciation, respect, & love for them, because they define & represent "A Real Woman"!!!. It really was sad to read & see the amount of black females profiles who really don't have a clue who they are or what they want or deserve!!! (DO I NEED TO REPEAT THAT??), so many of U want a "whiteman" for alll the wrong reasons, U got burned by a brotha or 2 or 3, 4, or 5, U were abused physically, mentally, or emotionally etc... But some of U want to claim that they are sexier??, they treat U better?? They're more romantic??, know how to love etc... Now, I am not going to dispute that, because some can. U get tired of being slapped in the face, unappreciated, & disrespected by the blackman, but what are U doing & saying on ur profiles??& ur the same females who get a attitude & talk about a good blackman if U see him parading around with a whitewoman on his arm that "YOU" think does'nt look as good as U or can't offer what U can??. U R only adding to the problem with blackmen in this society!!. U ATTRACT WHATEVER VIBES U PUT OUT!!!. Taking cheap shots at the blackman not only makes U look bad, unintelligent, immature & seem like U not only don't know or recognize your heritage, but also that U don't appreciate it!!!. If U really thought about how much we have had to fight for from the white community, how many yrs. They tried to keep us down & then U do the same by following their lead?? They R sitting back savoring & laughing at everything, because we as a black community are right where they want us to be!!!."IF U CAN'T APPRECIATE, RESPECT, & LOVE YOUR OWN ALONG WITH URSELF & STAY TRUE TO U, THEN THERE IS NOWAY U CAN DO IT FOR ANYBODY ELSE!!!. U search for a "RELATION-SHIP". In other words a "Relation" that is as sturdy & strong as a "Ship", no matter what storms or rocky weather comes it still remains sailing. It is built on a solid foundation & is built sooo strong that it would take a huge iceberg to sink it!!! That's a "RELATION-SHIP"...
I Thank all those beautiful females who took the time to view & read my profile & even send flirts or messages. It was an honor & blessing. I have made a few beautiful friends along the way. For all U females that missed out, don't be mad or offended, just "Come Correct"!!!, but realize & understand this: "NOT ALL BLACKMEN ARE THE SAME & THEY ARE NOT CREATED ALIKE"!!! There is sooo much more to me than meets the eye or what my profile showed. Yes, I am a blackman, strong & deep minded. When U appreciate, respect, & love urself & those that sacrificed to raise U, feed U, give U shelter, nurture U, & most importantly give U "Unconditional Love"(Mom's, Grandma's, Aunts, Sisters, etc...) All females, all strong & beautiful in their own ways, so for me as a man & a blackman, I can do nothing but appreciate, respect, honor, cherish, salute, & love WOMAN!!!. 1 of the most beautiful, intelligent,& powerful creatures that God created on this earth. It's just sad to see how many females don't realize the power they possess as women!!!
WORDS OF WISDOM: NO WOMAN!!!& I REPEAT NO WOMAN!!! SHOULD EVER CONFORM TO WHAT THEY THINK A MAN LIKES OR WANTS!!! WHAT IS A MAN?? FLESH & BONE!! DID HE PART THE RED SEA??, DID HE EVER WALK ON TOP OF WATER W/O SINKING??, DID HE EVER FEED MULTITUDES W/ LOAVES OF BREAD & FISH?? MOST IMPORTANTLY, DID HE CREATE A EARTH THAT U LIVE IN & EXIST IN?? DID HE DIE & RISE FROM THE DEAD?? NO MAN!!!, I REPEAT NO MAN!!! SHOULD EVER BE YOUR KING!!! (UR PRINCE YES, BUT NOT KING). THE ONLY MAN U SHOULD BE BREAKING UR NECK TO SATISFY & MAKE SMILE & THE ONLY MAN WHO TRULY DESERVES THAT TITLE IS GOD ABOVE, THE 1 & ONLY TRUE & REAL KING!!!, SO ALL U FEMALES GOING AROUND CRYING & TALKING ABOUT HOW MUCH U LOVEEE A MAN & HOW U CAN'T LIVE W/O HIM NEED TO LOOK IN & READ UR BIBLES & FIND OUT & LEARN WHAT GOD DID AS A MAN!!!& THEN LOOK UR SO CALLED MAN RIGHT IN HIS EYES & ASK HIM & URSELF "WHAT HAS HE DONE FOR U LATELY"?? MAN DOES NOT MAKE U THE WOMAN THAT U ARE!!! MAN OR NO MAN U ARE WHO U ARE!!!"A WOMAN"!!! GOD BLESS :REMEMBER THAT NO MAN ON EARTH IS A KING, BUT U AS A WOMAN CAN ALWAYS & FOREVER BE A QUEEN!! LOVE URSELF, RESPECT URSELF, APPRECIATE URSELF, & HAVE PRIDE & HOLD UR HEAD HIGH!!!...
P. S. For all of U that want to have a attitude, be offended, or just flat out hate me?? The truth hurts??& if this affects U that deeply then obviously the message was meant for U & talking directly about U!!! So, don't hate, just appreciate that a man took the time to keep it real with U & not play games or BS U(like sooo many of U put in ur profiles), but if U still have something up ur nose, then Ohhh Well, it is what it is & I usually would not do this, but some of U females it's the only english that U know & the only thing that gets ur attention, because U have been allowing men to do it to U for sooo long, so 2 fingaz' straightup in the air to U!!!