My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Duwalako, Woman, 47 |
Location | Lusaka, Lusaka, Zambia |
Looking for a | Man, aged 32 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
To be honest I find this part of the questionaire the hardest.. (trying to market myself aint easy I see)not that am not a great person to be around with, but think I think discovering my awesome personality for yourself and the things that sum me up as amazing would be great than me trying to highlight them to you... Anyway I will try, am family oriented (very close to my dad as all first born daughters are..)loyal as a friend, love cooking(more as a show off)those who have lived the 2 seconds to tell the tale say am awfully, horrendously "good" at it:)
On a rainy day I love to curl up on the couch, watch tv or read a good book, while snacking away... I am very creative, unfortunatly I only get extra creative enough to write short stories and poems especially when am feeling blue uuuh(too bad looks like when you come into my life my writing days will be over as I wont be blue anymore..:(I like architecture, art, gardening and interior design) I love children and their innocent way of analysing things.. At times I have chosen to adopt it and found myself fully amused n totally smiling away all day... Its amazing. Other than that on a professional level am intelligent, a go getter, deadline oriented, opinonated young lady who is not afraid to take risks... If the challenge seems worth the task(hahaha and I hate working with lazy, slow thinkers who have no initiative or drive). I love animals, but sadly that does not include me sleeping out in the wild under the "beautiful twinkling skies" my dear..)I realised this 2 years ago when a friend n I went to a game reserve back home in Africa. Guess what after having spotted only a few of the animals on my list of must see wildlife it seemed only fair to spend the night there n chance the luck of seeing the Hippos n elephants coming to the waterhole the next morning... By sheer luck (no this must be misfortune)found that all the sturdy brick chalets were fully booked, as such the only remaining accomodation were some modernised tent chalets 500+ yards from the waterhole. The forest guide told us we had decided well to come n sleep at the tents cause on some nights the elephants came right up to the tents to foliage on the trees right beside the tents n a couple of expartriates had managed to take a video or close up pics if we wanted... And the hippos come over too as evidenced by all the "BIG" puddle like prints all inbetween the tent premises... I asked n while the elephants visit do you guides stay watch his like "No madam, the only place you find forest guides on guard is at that main chalet area not here and for your own safety just make sure you do not bring any foodstuffs into the tents as the elephants are attracted to smells n could come into the tent to investigate any interesting foodlike scents to their liking... That did it... CAMPING was out the window for me... I hastily cruised out of the dense forested reserve to get out before they shut the gates n my only window back to safety, civilisation - AND my trusted bed in the city... (lol)n dont you dare say am a spoil spot... I never said with the right incentive I would not give it another try...
Anyway, lets have some music... I listen to all kinds as long as I love the beat n rhythm.
Am a helpless romantic into old movies, working out, eating good food (or anything asian), I love shopping but not to the extreme, am able to make any outfit work am able to fit in any picture, I can be all sweaty n dirty in the garden, then all deamour n casual as the pta mom, extremely sexy n feminine in stilletos and red rouge and all conservative and wellbred for my Sunday worship... Btw I am very straight forward n will say it as it is when am not pleased about something and after that life goes on (life is too short for grudges n I do not have the space in my heart to accomodate such).. Am not into invisible people (no pic no contact), neither am I here for short fun moment relationships or other and so if you do not fit my ideals please dont waste my time with flirts etc. I need a focused man who knows what he want at this time in life.. A Serious relationship.
That said I believe beauty is only skin deep and true beauty lies within a persons heart. A relationship takes more than the chemistry to work. It requires alot of personal investment in honesty and openess such is my ideal of life and my principle.
I am looking for
I honestly just want someone to grow old with... I would love if they were christian or at least are able to acknowledge the idea of a higher power out there. Am not going to choke religion down your throat but I just thought it would be a plus if we had that in common somehow... Otherthan that I want someone who knows what he is supposed to do for his lady as the man in her life. Someone focused, responsible and with a sense of direction in his life... Now that I am divorced, am currently raising m adorable 7 year old girl as a single mother with the help of my parents. She is a very well behaved, sensible little girl(people often say she reasons, talks and acts like a little young adult... Hmm she loves dogs, dressing up(she is able to mix n match her clothes its amazing the attires she comes up with afta school), she plays drums and her favourite subjects are mathematics and science. I want to have another child with my future partner and so the person I meet must be open to the idea after we settle down (no need trying to change my mind after)so if you not into kids and family.. Please dont waste my time, as such I would want the man in my life to eventually be able to embrace her into his life too if he does see me as a potential mate...