My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed/Native American |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | GeekyNerdLOL, Woman, 49 |
Location | Blaine, Minnesota, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 45, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Mixed/Native American |
Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
I always wonder why birds stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere on the earth. Then I ask myself the same question.~Harun Yahya
Life has not been what I expected but that doesn't mean I won't keep a positive outlook on things. There will be no fairytale endings unless you believe that you can make one. I know I can because fairy tales are simply a dismissal of the things we fear in order to show us the prince or princess we can become. Happy endings come from friendship, love and hard work. I have an inner strength that surprises even me. I want to become the person that others will tell their grandchildren about meeting. I am smart and ambitious and I am driven to make sure my life and business move in a forward path and positive direction. I love watching movies and travel. I enjoy nature, exploring new places and trying new things.
Odd facts about me include:
1) I don't like diamonds. Yes, you read that correctly. Diamonds are responsible for the killing, maiming and rape of millions of people in Africa. I can do without a glittery rock that causes that much suffering. Plus I don't see the point in spending $1, 000 on diamond earrings when I can buy ones that look just like a diamond for $50. (LOL)Does that mean I don't like nice things? No, I just like nice things that are practical. The best gift I can receive is the gift of getting something done and checked off my list. The feeling of relief from getting something I need is worth a lot more to me than a shiny piece of million year old coal. I think I get that from my dad(weird right?).
2) I like to build/repair things myself. If I can, I prefer to do it myself instead if hiring it out. That means fixing my own car, painting my house, installing my own toilet (LOL) etc. I know my limits of talent and time so I know that I have to hire people for some things but if it saves some money/time I'll just do it myself. I wouldn't mind help from the right man thou ;0)
3) I used to work in landscape construction and I REALLY miss it. So any retaining walls and paver patios you have seen around MN I may have built it with my own hands.
4) I am a pack rat. Not because I am messy but I am sentimental and save things that are important to me. No, my house doesn't look like an episode of "Hoarders" LOL
5) Everyone says they love to travel but I truly do with every fiber of my being. I believe that there is more to our lives then our small little corner. Getting to meet people from different cultures and countries is priceless to me."Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts." Mark Twain
I am looking for a loving man who is sincere and compassionate. No need to be intimidated... Let's talk!
I am looking for
I am looking for a date with you. Holding hands as we walk through the park in autumn... When we're 90 years old... Are you looking to "date" me? LOL. I am new to online dating but as I was making up my mind about whether to take the plunge and become a member I did notice a few things: First, love and friendship do not have a race or ethnicity. I don't have a problem getting to know or dating someone inside or outside my race. I hope you are truly just as open too. Second, I am tall (5' 11") but you don't have to be. I have never been hung up on the idea that a man has to be taller than me. I realize that I would exclude half the male population if I had that rule so if my height bothers you then I can tell you right off the bat I am not the person you are looking for. And yes I wear heals so you will REALLY have to get over the height thing. LOL. Third, if you are not going to take it seriously enough to put up a picture of yourself then I can't take you seriously. Filling out the questionnaire and putting up a photo is the bare minimum that the website is asking you to do. If you can't put the effort into an online profile I don't see how you can put much effort into getting to know someone, so again, I am not the woman for you. Forth, please don't lie about your occupation, your interests etc. Those things don't matter to me but deceiving me about it does! Fifth, I am VERY SEPARATED! I haven't put "divorced" yet because I am just waiting for the final paperwork and a court date! I just want to be extremely upfront and honest about my status. As you can tell by my "list" I am very real. I don't play games and don't have time for drama. I can tell there are a lot of nice guys out there that feel the same and haven't met the right "one" yet either. I am looking for that person who wants to take a drive on a Sunday to nowhere, likes to cuddle around a campfire and that I can give my heart to. I know I will meet someone great. I hope it's you!;)