My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'0" (152 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | GreenSong, Woman, 61 |
Location | Emeryville, California, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 55, Black/Mixed (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'0" (152 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Greetings. I'm Laurie. I'm interested in black men within driving distance. Got it? Thanks! That said . . . I'm very petite, with a tiny, fit, toned, well-proportioned body. I'm bright, exquisitely affectionate, generous, rigorously honest, trusting, and open, tenacious, not at all conservative, and almost impossible to offend. I am a freelance book editor and a vegan vegetarian who inspires people by example to natural, healthful conscious living. People want what I have -- vibrant health, a youthful body, and a natural glow from the inside out. I need unconditional love, you can count on me returning it (that's a tall order - how many people even know what that means?). I need romance in my life, and a level of sweetness that emanates from within... It can't be conjured or faked, and it doesn't erode over time, because it's who we are. I'm looking for someone real. If you don't do real, or love, or tender... Then keep it moving, please. These are nonnegotiable and nothing else is remotely interesting. Certainly not a come-on about how sexy I am (yawn) ... But if you are real and tender and open to love and magic, then what are you waiting for already? I am told that the little girl in me is particularly delightful. The woman in me is spicy, irreverent, and unquestionably devoted to my man. I'm also ripe to be opened way up sexually... Are you up for the challenge?
(that said, I'm SO not looking for just sex. You'll miss the best part of me if you just want me for sex, and I won't enjoy it anyway ... Sex without heart connection is a total intimacy bypass ... Not interesting in the least.)
Please note: my life is full, and I probably will not reply unless I feel a strong connection. You are appreciated though! Things that make me smile:
- open-hearted people and conversations.
- men who lead with their hearts and have access to their tears when something touches them deeply.
- sweet, vulnerable intimacy... The willingness to be seen and known.
- tender words, adept seduction, a man who knows how to mirror and match my energy (even if his style is far cooler).
- love notes and sexy emails that don't stop just because we now live under the same roof.
- being naked in the sunshine as much as possible.
- floating on a warm body of water on a sunny day (heaven!)
- the smell of a cool, damp forest.
- "words of affirmation" are my love language... So verbal expressions of care, reassurance, appreciation, and recognition of my unique gifts and talents mean the world to me... And keep me juicy and joyful!
- kissing! On attraction:
I know what I'm attracted to (it's not a "look" or a "type" per se, but rather an ineffable energetic signature... How to explain chemistry??), and I'm no longer willing to put myself or another wonderful, loving, good-looking man through the exercise of "hoping" that the attraction will grow... That's not how it works for me, and I've been around the block enough to be very clear about that now. My time and energy are precious, and yours are as well, so let's both feel free to pull the "just friends" card if that becomes clear to one of us... Deal? That said, I am compassionate, gentle, respectful, and open-minded. I love meeting people and look forward to (selectively) making new connections, wherever they may lead. New friends are a bonus for all the effort this online dating thing entails. I'm really good at:
- inspiring people to eat healthfully and live consciously.
- communication, especially writing.
- having a pure and compassionate heart. Creating peace, empathy and understanding where others would bring drama and judgment. (i rarely if ever bring anger, resentment, make-wrong, blame, shame, guilt-tripping, expectations, or obligation energy to my relationships.)
- bringing order and beauty to spaces, concepts, projects.
- seeing the best in people and loving unconditionally.
- tenderness. Pleasing my man sexually.
- transparency (being precisely who I represent myself to be) and integrity (being my word) ... The extreme opposite of game-playing. Movies: anything with depth that opens my heart and makes me laugh and cry at the same time. Tuesdays with morrie andi am sam come to mind. Television: haven't owned one in years. Books:
- the birth of the chaordic age
- loving what is
- finding god through sex
- the way of the superior man (read it!)
- orson scott card's alvin maker series (greensong reference)
Music
- steve morse (dregs)
- barry flanagan (hapa)
- jaco pastorius (weather report)
- if my hips need to move it could be some hot trini soca, chaka khan, confunkshun, or salt n pepa (sexy noises *hint*).
- sweet hawaiian vocals, rafael's piano, frampton, scorpions, paul davis, london beat, todd rundgren, styx, bill champlin, janis ian, ... Food: white nectarines, rolinea, mangoes, jakfruit, lychee, durian, cherimoya, atemoya, guanabana, longan, mangosteen, ... Omggg!! Six things I could never do without:
Okay, never do without is a little strong, but I certainly wouldn't want to live without...
- the freedom to make my own schedule and work wherever there's an internet connection
- sunshine on my bare skin
- kissing! Physical affection, giving and receiving erotic attention...
- sweet, juicy, tropical fruit!
- silence
(did I mention kissing?)
I am looking for
First I want to say that I honor you as perfect in your imperfection, and of course you won't be everything I describe -- I'm just dreaming here, and I'm open to having my reality rocked... So surprise me! Okay, here goes... A quality, respectful, classy, sexxy man who takes pride in maintaining a fit and healthy body... You are very masculine, as affectionate as I am, grounded and centered, confident yet humble, generous, tender, openhearted, sensual, implicitly honest, with a bright mind, a sharp wit, and a tendency toward verbal banter. You know how to be present (cell phone off), listen deeply, and communicate authentically. You are naughty but nice, a master of seduction, play, and erotic adventure, and devoted to nurturing and cultivating a great relationship. You're sexually confident, but you know that no two women are the same and you don't know it all... Certainly not about me and my pleasure circuits. You're emotionally healthy, emotionally available, and emotionally intelligent. You exhibit genuine care for the needs of others. You're discerning but not guarded... Willing to be seen, known, loved. If we hit it off here online and something special is brewing, you will focus on me/us... I'm not interested in being in your rotation. You're complete with your past relationships, and and you don't have a cadre of fwbs waiting in the wings. You won't play the field and keep your options open until you decide I'm the one... Once we start this thing, it's on until we know otherwise. You are passionate about cultivating vibrant health and living lightly on mother earth, and you care deeply about humanity, the planet, and its creatures (or you're open to growing in these areas... Take my hand...)
You love nature, sunshine, the adventure of a farmers market, and the sensual thrill of devouring succulent, exotic fruit. You are not jealous -- like me, you may have one or more former partners/lovers who are still an important part of your life. We wouldn't have it any other way, and we consider them more brothers and sisters for the tribe. You appreciate a woman with a sharp mind and are not threatened by my strong work focus (because you know exactly how to entice me into my sensual space...;) you take pride in co-creating a beautiful home. And if you're seriously nocturnal, brilliant with computers, and handy around the house... All the better! Truth and transparency are cornerstones of a deep partnership. This doesn't mean I would drive you crazy talking... But we would harbor no secrets and trust each other implicitly. (i do really well with truth, no matter how difficult the topic.) you tell me what you like and need, and I'll do the same. You will never have to guess what I like or desire, or what I'm upset about. If we're in communication--which is the only way I'd have it--our challenges will dissolve back into love. You inspire me. You are up to something that's making a difference in the world. (or if you're not, let's inspire each other and do it together!) for a taste of what I'm talking about, check out the ted talk called "ron finley: a guerilla gardener in south central la" - this video rocks my world!! Important: you are either vegetarian or open to learning how a natural, whole-food diet enhances energy, health, athletic performance (and definitely virility!*) I respect everyone's path, and true love is definitely worth the effort it takes to work through differences... But if our vibe is *that* sweet, you would be open to a gentle but serious upgrade of lifestyle before we would go deep. (and yes, I am way worth it!)