My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Hardy1770, Woman, 53 |
Location | Saint Louis, Missouri, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 55, White/Latino/Mixed |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'7" (170 cm) |
Status | Currently Separated |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
After a long marriage, I am a separated mother of two. My kids. Are my little monsters;-) They keep me grounded and give meaning to everything.
I am a laid back low maintenance person. I am open, honest, and respectful. Love to laugh; I am told I am witty; and I smile often and easily. I can be self deprecating b/c I don't take myself to seriously. But I do take seriously commitments I make to others, I am loyal to those I care about. I prefer those with similar values of loyalty and commitment. So if you don't follow through on what you say please keep looking.
I don't mind if you are a little feisty in expressing different opinions and ideals. It keeps things interesting and I can hold my own. I am pretty comfortable in my own skin and appreciate the same qualities in others. I have been told I carry myself with a sense of confidence, grace, and pride. But, I celebrate quirks, complexities, and differences in my self and others.
I am a southern girl from a big southern family. I have a southern drawl that comes out when I am comfortable. Being southern I love men who are chivalrous; charming, respectful of others, and does not mind pursuing me. I think the art of courting has been lost. It may begin with a strong physical attraction but then what comes next fellas. I feel you on the sexual connection but If your a good kind hearted person it won't take that long.
I live in skinny jeans and a tee-shirt my look can be pretty bohemian at times. My natural curly cork screw hair is usually the first thing people compliment me on. But if it is a guy then it is my skinny jeans:-). But when it is time to dress up I can look pretty sophisticated and cute.
I enjoy international travel, ethnic cuisine, broad range of music and artist from Classic Country; World Music; Neo-Soul, Classic R&B, Blues, Reggae; Rock and I probably have left a few out. I am a information junkie from current affairs to the useless and mundane. I am a life long learner any environment you put me in I am curious about. I love Netflix documentaries.
The perfect date involves a quiet ambiance and a glass or two or three of Malbec. I am a conversationalist, I don't meander on about the weather. I like to learn about the people I am with. Their beliefs, values, dreams and being who I am I won't forget them.
I am looking for
I am looking for a laid back man with a wonderful sense of wit and humor. If he can make me belly laugh I am smitten. A man who does not take himself too seriously. He can hold a conversation with anyone from a five year old to a PhD. He is chivalrous, kind-hearted, curious and thoughtful. A man who is loyal, honest with himself, and keeps his word to others. He believes in responsibility for those with a voice and those without one. He is well-rounded, well traveled, adventurous, and spontaneous. He finds women with a stubborn streak attractive:-) P. S. I only play peek-a-boo with those who are between the ages of 0-1 yr old. So if you don't have a picture up, I probably won't respond.