My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | ImSoSpecial, Woman, 33 |
Location | Nairobi, Nairobi Area, Kenya |
Looking for a | Man, aged 29 - 39, Asian/White/Pacific Islander... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I like fun outdoor activities, great food, movies, music and writing. I am looking for a man to share my time with in form of a long-term arrangement (very traditional). Someone recently asked me to add a bit more on my profile so here goes.....
I am quite tenacious so when I want something I work hard to achieve it. I graduated in the top quarter of my undergraduate class in December 2014 and I hope to start my MA in Development Communication by the time I am 27. I have been working in audio-visual media production for the last two years (since my university internship) so I'm pretty amazing with DSLR cameras and video editing. In March this year, I resigned from my job and since then, I've joined an amazing team of people working with adolescent girls in vulnerable communities by providing much needed reproductive health information.
On Friendship: There are two things I can't stand in my life: lies and judgemental people. I believe that lies build wobbly foundations in relationships which culminate into wasted years. I also believe that judging others breeds bad karma so I prefer to mind my own business and make friends who mind their own business as well. (This may explain why I keep few friends).
On children: I love them. Can't wait to have my own. No pressure to any interested eligible bachelors. I would love to wait until both of us are ready.
On sports: I like hiking,the gym, bicycle riding, obstacle courses, walking and jogging. And yes, I prefer someone that likes regular sporting activities as well. It would be sad if I ended up with someone that convinced me to become a couch potato.
On Food: I love to cook and I'm currently fortunate to have a Swiss friend teaching me how to bake in her kitchen. She's amazing with pastries. Anyway, because my kitchen is currently unable to handle too many cuisine experiments, I haven't been too active in my own kitchen. For the last six months or so I have only been whipping up Kenyan food and that's it. I also prefer homemade food to restaurant food but I don't mind getting out for at least one meal each week.
On Movies & Music: I love anything from Marvel (Ironman, Thor, Avengers, XMen ) etc. I am also the type of person that re-watches movies so I can observe various shots/effects/transitions. I also watch Behind The Scenes because I want to produce impactful documentaries at some point in my life. I love a wide variety of music: Sade, Bossa Nova, Pop, Jazz, Afrobeat and some Christian music. I have phases when I dance a lot and phases when I don't dance at all...But about 7 people say I dance very well.
On writing: This is my ultimate joy. I love expressing myself on paper. Writing opens up a new world for me, which is why I pursued media studies as my undergraduate course. I would love to write for development features, even if that means leaving my country to learn from new cultures and places. I would also be willing to move countries if I meet the right guy here, provided I could visit my country once a year. I am pretty attached to Nairobi and Machakos (my pint sized home town).
I am looking for
I am looking for friendship and true love, which I think is what most people are looking for here as well. However, I would like a long term relationship because I am ready for something more. The casual sex thing isn't for me so if that's what you're looking for I probably won't be the right fit for you. I have come to learn that love isn't a feeling; it's a choice. So I am looking for someone who will value me because he chooses to, not because he feels he has to. Further, I am looking for someone fun who would like to travel for a while as we get to know each other. I could use a sabbatical.
The other qualities I am looking for include: kindness/ genuine concern, hard working, non-temperamental, collected, stable (mentally, emotionally, etc), mature and ready to settle.
I have to mention at this point that age is a deal breaker for me: If you're over 40, I am not interested.
Another deal breaker is children: If you already have kids I am not interested.
I hope to meet the guy described in this section soon. M.