My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | LUVmyNOLA, Woman, 59 |
Location | Baton Rouge, Louisiana, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 55, Black/Mixed/Other |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Life for me is an adventure. I don't know what's going to happen next, but I can't wait to find out! I won't break when times get tough, because I know that every difficult situation leads to something fabulous ... I have the stories to prove it! ;O)! I don't have a job ... I have a calling (scared you for a second, didn't I? Lol). I spent 9 years in New Orleans rebuilding homes affected by Hurricane Katrina and recently moved to Baton Rouge to set up 3 hubs for volunteers to come and help rebuild after the 2016 flood. If you haven't heard about that flood, you're not alone, but trust me, the damage in 22 parishes is devastating. I am fiercely passionate about my work and would never, ever accept a job that didn't make a difference...
Having said all of that, be prepared for a great deal of quick wit and verbal shenanigans! ;o) Laughter is my favorite sound whether I am the cause or the reaction. One last thing you should know...And please, for the love of god, do not view this as a challenge!... Although I am far from a prude and possess well above-average human desires, my personal choice at this time is to reserve deeply intimate physical contact for the man who looks at me with actual love in his eyes... And I do know what that looks like. Note: and yes... I do date human men.;o) (if you didn't get that, it means I date people, not colors).
I am looking for
Communication. Honest, open and stimulating conversation that can transcend texting (lol, but I'm serious about this!;o) humor. Without those three things, we're doomed before we even begin. I have never been one to end relationships on an ugly, hateful note, so I'd prefer someone who is capable of the same. I can understand one relationship ending badly by no fault of your own, but if all of your relationships have ended in drama and bitterness, then I am definitely not your type (nor are you mine)! I am looking for a balance of emotional/intellectual depth and the ability to laugh at the small stuff rather than sweating it. Bonus points if you have ever spent at least an entire year of your adult life without being in a relationship. Why?... Because if you are able to find peace and fulfillment on your own, then I'll know that if/when you choose me, it will be because you want me... Not because you need somebody (which translates into anybody).#mynameisnotanybody lol.