My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Native American/Other |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
Nickname | Lisztjoy, Woman, 53 |
Location | Chicago, Illinois, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 40 - 58, Black/Mixed/Other (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White/Mixed/Native American/Other |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Never drink |
How would you describe yourself?
Love to experience other cities, cultures and people. Have passport, will travel. Huge Cubs, Blackhawks, and Bears fan. Having returned to Chicago, by way of Texas. Intelligence is far more pervasive than looks any day. Value a good, engaging conversation that feels as though we've known one another for years. Reading keeps the mind sharp. Positive, out-going, caring, affectionate, laid back, easy going, girl next door. Will drink a beer over wine, indulge in tofu instead of beef, enjoy being in the kitchen cooking and baking. If food is a way to your heart then come on over! Appreciate honesty and communication, all day every day. Do not let my location dissuade you as this is currently where I reside yet see the world as my home. Not interested in any smokers or those whose current status is separated.
If outside validation is your only source of nourishment, you will hunger for the rest of your life. I do what I do for people because I wish to have a person like me in my life... if nothing else, remember the person you think of as “yourself” exists only for you, and even you don’t really know who that is. Every person you meet, have a relationship with or make eye contact with on the street, creates a version of “you” in their heads. You’re not the same person to your parents, your siblings, than to your coworkers, your neighbors or your friends. There are a thousand different versions of yourself out there, in people’s minds. A “you” exists in each version, and yet your “you”, “yourself”, isn’t really a “someone” at all.
Looking to find someone who appreciates just how rare I am.
I am looking for
One inteligent, suave, confident, sports loving, cultured, like-minded gentleman. If you smoke an occasional cigar, cool - other smokers please keep it moving. If you are presently involved, which includes being separated, you too can leave the page as I am simply not interested. Having a passport and a lust for travel is a must. Getting lost in conversation over any topic. Being straightforward in your communication and honest in your intentions. Looking for a man who means what he says and says what he means. Intelligence is the biggest turn on for me, so go on wow me with your words!
Read the Four Agreements:
1. Be impeccable with your word (if you say you’re going to call, do it)
2. Don’t take anything personally (no explanation needed)
3. Don’t make assumptions (this holds true for me too!)
4. Always do your best (no matter how; no matter what)
I am realizing most of you are not interested in anything more than a couple text messages or perhaps a phone call or two. A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he MUST see her. A man who is just playing around or confused about his own feelings will find a number of excuses why he didn’t show up.
Finally, if my energy alone doesn’t get you aroused, then I am not the one for you. If my spirit doesn’t uplift you, then put the connection down. If my genius doesn’t help you think deeper, then don’t mind me. If my passion doesn’t move you, then move past me. If I don’t help you evolve, then don’t get involved with me. If my love doesn’t open your heart, then don’t fall for me.