My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Mrruffin, Man, 43 |
Location | Greenville, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Woman, aged 24 - 40, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 6'0" or above |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
4/30/12 - Been told I was fat so I paid to have something about it. Hope yall like my new shape. Oh and I'm well enough now so I'm hitting the gym to lose more.
Few facts for your liking: I was born and raised in NC, a lil town called Williamston. I'ma die hard Tar Heel. From the clothes I wear to the scenery of my room. I love the Panthers and the Canes hockey team and the Bobcats. I'm 6ft 225, straight white teeth, great smile. I'm pretty built like a tight end but I wasn't born this way lol. I like the gym and trying to eat better. My favorite artist is Al Green. I've been to 5 of his concerts in my life. I have pretty good stories from each. I have all of his music ; gospel and r and b. David Ruffin is the next one. Oh man I love this man's music and his voice will make you move. He's truly the hardest, gentler singer to EVER come around. But I love oldies period!! That's 70, 80, 90's r and b, classic/southern gospel, some rap but not a lot this new hip hop crap. I love my southern food and I put it down in the kitchen when I can. My fried chicken is the ish!
Some other facts..
- I'm very old fashioned and I can't stand change. Those that believe in such are the very reason why the world is backwards. The same reason why sh*it has no value anymore, Christmas just feels like another day and the entire feeling of giving up hope.
- My time is precious and I've seen a lot of users and lames and I am not perfectly sound but please if you enter my life then treat me more than just some 1's and 0's.
- I'm paid and I don't mean a little 2 or 3 thousand dollars.
- I got my own ride and no bills.
- I don't have a house but why when I am not settled in my mind and heart.
- I love meeting people and building bonds no matter what language or what shade of color. Humanitarian here!!
- I've been military for 12 yrs so I've lived in Washington state, Alaska and have deployed (2005)and contracted in Iraq(2011).
- I have one son who's the light of my life. Really don't want anymore but who knows.
- Like most black people I can't swim, afraid of heights and not much of a risk taker lol. Although I've been on many helicopter rides in Iraq, forced to jump into the deep of a pool twice and been on a few amusement park rides.
- No lie when I say I've been with dated plenty of races and been in a country's environment where I was the on brown face for miles!! I love that feeling of being the minority, interracial dating and diversity!!
- Life is simple and I see it in my son to capture and enjoy the little shit. It's not about how happy we may seem to people but how happy you actually are. I hate pretenders and many fake "tryna be" happy women on this site alone.
- There is no man like myself so I like to stay wild, crazy, silly, fun loving and able to turn it down when need be. A little genius but still talk like backwoods billies. Respectful but will cuss the most deserving female out when need be. Unafraid of all but humble to God and mom.
Just because I'm here and bored, here's some literature from your hero.
~With No Regrets~
A lifetime's a long time to consider what I've yet to see
The day when lovers would love and let love be
Happily, securely, trustingly unlocked like doors with a key
The bountiful abundance of love shared inside eternity
Out from the ruins, re-erected statues that build curiosity
There was a heart looking for something based on simplicity
Between the lines and the words were music trapped by melody
It never changed; it only was given an enchantment of harmony
Documented in scripts what's occurred and revised by history
A formatted masterpiece written, composed in its entirety
The flow, the breaks, or the mood could never match or meet
Where there's a yearn when she walks, thinks, or even speaks
Little birdies, in their nest, are filled with disgruntled jealousy
To perfect a note to satisfy her might, the joys of her beauty
Justified is the center block, the rights of a woman, proven to be
That many were swept away and cast far from her angry sea
A maiden, a mistress, a myth, a marvel, a mold, a mystery
The makings of a man is a whole woman's responsibility
To bear fruit and let her harvest shine, a light for all to see
Why I'm overtaken with honor to have this lady for me
--- My worth ---
I believe that women should be treated with such and that means being tender, attentive, listening, sweet, sometimes demanding to keep them coming back.
Opening doors, surprising you with little sentiments, telling the world, showing a bit of jealous, making sure you are looking good and treated decently. I think it's an honor to love and do right by one but she in return should be accepting of it.
It's my job to keep you satisfied and that's a "no maybe" thing for me. I love to kiss, hug, cuddle, snuggle, hold hands. You won't ever have to tell me twice where to kiss you or what makes you hot. I try to deter from being argumentative and fussing. I guess sometimes it happens. But with a cool head I can come back with your favorite ice cream and a fake rose from Fred Meyers just to apologize.
I'm deeply grounded in my Older R & B and Soul and that's our guide to loving women right. Something simple as a love ballad ignites my feelings to want to treat a woman right and I think it can make you re-think where you messed up, mend hearts and yes bring on sex. But it affects my nature to never want to curse or hit or even raise my voice. Women wonder where are the good men. Well men and women alike are entrapped in this social hip hop culture that practices individualism and separation from our chemical balance. To become more so robots than human beings, dissipated by our economical woes. Keep it simple, learn how to love and it works itself out. Like Babyface said.. And our feelings just aren't feelings anymore, they're just words that come from whispers from people we don't know.
I am looking for
Um this part is pretty gay cuz one could go on and on about what they want and still never find it. So when she finds me then ill know!!