My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Nickname | Phoenix8, Woman, 46 |
Location | Cary, North Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 39, Asian/White/East Indian... |
My ethnicity is | Black/White/Native American |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal |
Body type | Slim build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
How would you describe yourself?
Fun fun fun... That would be me, laid back, out going and down to earth is the kind of gal I be. People say I can be a comedian, but on the serious side I am a compasionate and understanding person who is easy to talk too. Guess that means I make a heck of a good friend. I love anything vintage especially clothes. My kindness can often be tried which is why I have a radar for advantage seekers. Though I am very forgiving I do have wisdom enough to know when to cut ties. I am one who likes to disect and get to root of things. Communication, I am one who is big on specifics when it comes to communication. I am not religious yet I am spiritual, an out of the box deep thinker seeking lifes mysteries. I have learned to live to live a balanced life(physical and spiritual). Although I am not a mainstream type of woman, I do like to enjoy the good things life has to offer. Food, I love exotic vegetarian dishes. But, I don't descriminate against those who eat meat; by no means am I a fanatical animal lover. Give me the right ambiance, music and a great vegetarian dinner and I am one happy camper.
My Interest:Theater, dancing and out door activities such as camping, canoing, bike riding. I'm one to seek out and try new things; Adventure and spontaneity... Oh yes, have to change up the norm and keep the excitement rolling. I also enjoy shopping but I am all about finding good quality items on sale (like vintage clothing). I must say that the kid in me loves amusement parks. Going to the beach or the lake is alway a pleasure... Oh and I like bowling and tennis. Can't forget concerts... I love good music especially live performances. I believe in and live by meditation for enlightment from God and guidance for living a more fulfilled life (got to have your chakras balance :-). I am currently learning to fiddle fadle lol, ok play the violin which I have always wanted to play since I was young so I figure why not start now. And since I have so much creative energy I thought I would try my hand at candid photography too. To sum things up, I am a creative and eclectic person.
Goals: To finish school and to become a fashion stylish. Also making plans to have my own online vintage clothing store
Music: My interest covers Jazz(John Coltran, Terence Blanchard, Nina Simone, Esperanza Spalding to name a few. Neo-soul/Acid Jazz (Clara Hill, Dwele, Nicola Kramer, Fertile Ground, Zero 7, Zap Mama, Liquid Spirits, 4Hero, Jazzanova, Platinum Pied Pipers, Jazz Liberators, Georgia Anne Muldrow, Erykah Badu, Joe Dukie, Stacy Epps, Jill Scot, Musiq, Goapele and others)70s and 80s sounds J Davy Kennam, Euro Pop(La Roux, Jusice)and music by hip hop artist such as Q-Tip, Tribe Called Quest, Common, Black Star, Bahamadia, Mos Def, Phonte and The Roots. My all time favorite artist is the Wonder himself, Stevie. I look for music that moves the soul and reminds me of all the love, beauty and joy that life holds as well as lyrics that speak of truths, those subdued truths that are easily hiden. All that exist... Those things beyond what we see... Soulful feelings compressed within, through music do we find an an expressive outlet from this temporary limitation in which we reside.. Words.. The human voice and sounds made transfiguring empathic stimulators... Comfirming meditated thoughts... Consoling the spirit :-) edit
Movies: The New World, Vanity Fair, The Affair of the Necklace, Mommy Dearest, Ann of Green Gables, Curse of the Golden Bowl, Imitation of Life, Pride & Prejudice, The Illusionist, The Forsythe Saga, Emma, The Count of Monte Cristo, Karmasutra (A Love Story), The Learning Tree, National Lampoon European Vacation, Crazy Moon, Madagascar, To Sir with Love, Under the Cherry Moon, It's A Wonderful Life, Legend, Krull, The Last Unicorn, The Secret of the NIHM, The Wiz, Goonies, Never Ending Story, Busting Loose, Bye Bye Birdie, Mo Better Blues, Malcom X, Crooklyn, Woman in Red, Arthur, Twelve Weeks, Fast Forward, The King and I, Curse of the Golden Flower, Coolie High, School Daze, See No Evil Hear No Evil. Something Wicked This Way Comes, Fire Starter, The Breakfast Club, 16Candles, 7Minutes in Heaven, Carmen, Fearless, The Fountain, Pan's Labyrinth, X-Men, Spider Man, 7Pounds, Twilight, Color Purple, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Brown Sugar, Memoirs of A Geisha, Beauty Shop, WhiteChics, Barbar Shop 2, Tyler Perry's movies/plays, Matrix Trilogy, Chronicles of Riddick, The Pursuit of Happiness, Breaking, Beat Street, Star Trek, Wolverine, and to many others to name but you get the gist of the type of movies I like.
TV: I love Girlfriends, curse the people who cancelled the show LOL. Harlem Heights, The Game, Every Body Hates Chris, The Jefferson, Good Times, What's Happening (I do have all seasons by the way on DVD )Cosby Show, King of Queens, Sanford and Son, Iron Chef, Different World, So you Think You Can Dance (yes I love this show; I use to dance in my early days), documentaries, America's Next Top Model, Smallville, One Tree Hill... Don't really watch that much TV outside of these shows. Outside of them it's hit or miss (if something is worth watching on) or nothing at all.
Books: Various spiritual literature, Incidents in the Life of a "Slave Girl","Some People Some Other Place","Pride and Prejudice","The Secret Life of Bees".
There is more to know about me but of coure only time and conversation allows one to be been known :-)
I am looking for
People with some of the same interest I describe about myself but who are also different. Having our own peronsonalities and interest is what makes us unique as people; we can all learn and apply something to our lives from some one else
Overall I would say I like to surround myself with those who are postive... No energy drainers please lol. People who have a sense a humor and have morals/ values. Maturity is a must; someone with substance and can hold a conversation about anything. Someone who is goal driven, adventurous, spiritual, spontaneous, loves to discover new things whether it's in the form of recreation, educational, music or the arts. I look for people to possess with in them the qualities of thoughfulness, honestu, love and kindness, respect and consideration of others. With all that said, I think conversations will be pleasant and interesting... There is tons to learn about each other.