My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Realdeal99, Woman, 41 |
Location | Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 42, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term |
Body type | Average build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Trying to describe myself is a difficult feat, but I will try...
I am a honest, trust worthy, and very hardworking person. I can be quite shy and introverted, but around the right people in the right environment, I can be bit more open. Music is my favorite thing in the world, and classic R&B/Hip Hop and Neo Soul are my favorite genres along with old school House and Reggae. I enjoy cooking, and I am a very good chef. With that being said,I would like to meet a man who is a great cook also. Let's cook a meal together! That would be a great date. (You can do the dishes, though!) I work very hard, so I do enjoy quiet nights at home with candles and horror movies. I love great conversation and laughs over dinner at a nice restaurant, festivals, evening walks in the park, botanical gardens, etc.
I am a simple woman. I don't want much. I just want to have a connection with someone. Chemistry is important! I want a great friendship that will grow into a lifelong romance. I do not want to rush into anything, but I am willing to invest my time and effort into building something with the right person. I am interested in a man who is loyal, educated, has a career, is aware of current events and social issues, affectionate, supportive, and can hold a conversation. Please note: I am only interested in men under the age of 40 who have no children, have never been married, and don't smoke! I hate cigarettes.
Some of my interests include:
music, poetry, writing, romance, cooking, philosophy, psychology, history, science, pathology, cancer research, public health issues, social uplift, social responsibility, spiritual growth, family, stability, fashion, rest and relaxation, being a career woman, my independence, maintaining a happy, peaceful existence, living, laughing, learning...
I am looking for
Good conversation, friendship, romance, honesty, intelligence, great sense of humor, loving, compassionate, someone who will not feel threatened by my independence, someone who will treat me like a queen, without being a total pushover (yes, I'm a strong woman, but I want a strong man!
Companionship, someone to laugh and crack jokes with while having a good debate over a good meal, someone whom I can consult with when I need a male point of view
"The Light" by Common describes my ideal relationship. It's my all time favorite love song."A Long Walk" by Jill Scott describes my perfect date.