My ethnicity is | Asian/Black/White/East Indian... |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | SheLight, Woman, 52 |
Location | Washington, District of Columbia, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 50, Any Ethnicity |
My ethnicity is | Asian/Black/White/East Indian... |
Height | 5'6" (168 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Penpal/Long-term/Dating |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Hate smoking |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
I am a spiritually open minded woman. You can call me a feminine tomboy whose thought process is shockingly masculine.
I'm passionate about gadgets and shoes. You see the contradiction here? That's me. I'm a contradiction to everything that it is perceived to represent a "black woman". For example, I know the difference between a R1 and a R6. A cruiser, a sports cruiser, a trike, a spyder, a T-Rex and sports bike. The best mini vacation I have had in a while was to Deals gap riding the dragon and to Adventure world riding a black diamond trail on a four wheeler. Mud isn't just for facials is my moto. Yet I love city, and all of the culture it provides. I know what C. O. D. MW and Black Ops means in gamer terms. Although I would never own a gun, the shooting range is fun, especially in Four inch heels. You see, a contradiction.
My hobbies, my pursuits and my desires are not what you would expect yet you would have to peel my layers to find out. Which means an investment in conversation is necessary with me.
I'm always authentic and I seem to attract this trait in others. I've been blessed with an abundance of love in this life and I give as much as I receive.
I'm insanely curious, which means I'm rarely bored because I am continually researching and reading until I move to the next topic of interest. I'm almost always plugged in because technology is a passion of mine. I'm lucky enough to do what I enjoy for a living.
I'm a creative, intuitive, visual person with the luck to be able to dig into the old left brain to handle business.
I truly enjoy my own company so if you are looking for a thirsty chick, I'm not the one. I've never been married, much to the amazement of a few. Its not actually on the old bucket list but if and when it happens, I plan to be really good at it, ;-).
I know myself well and I love this character, which means I'm not looking for something outside of myself to be happy. I feel a life partner is icing on the cake that is my life, not the whole damn cake. Contrary to how it sounds, I am a lady. Ok, most of the time.
I'm not your typical southern belle but you wouldn't know it unless you hold a conversation with me. Appearances are deceiving.
I'm open minded and fair. Balance is important to me in all things.
There isn't much I don't do except drama. I believe passion and peace can co-exist.
I have always been able to attract whatever I want to achieve all by my lonesome, so I don't need material things to define what you mean to me.
With that being said, living on purpose is my measure of success.
I am looking for
"He shall come for she". I'm still old fashioned in my approach to dating.
When asked what I look for in a guy, its typically I know him when I see him or better I know him when I feel him. Energetically I can figure out pretty quickly when in someone's presence if they are for me. They smell like mine, lol.
In all relationships I like someone who has high energy. In romance, I do like open minded alpha males who can show sensitivity yet they know how to run the show.
Someone who knows his purpose and is living it. Spiritually aware, awake and tuned into his universal self. Knows how to to be serious yet is balanced and playful the majority of the time. Knows how to converse and debate with respect. Listens to his soul more then his ego. Doesn't take himself too seriously.
If he loves Xbox that is a plus!