My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | ThickVAchick, Woman, 53 |
Location | Alexandria, Virginia, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 38 - 58, White/Pacific Islander/Latino... |
My ethnicity is | Black |
Height | 5'10" (178 cm) |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Few extra pounds |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Do not smoke, but OK if you do |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
1. Tell you how incredibly awesome I am.
I totally ROCK! I'm the best thing since sliced bread! I practically walk on water!!!
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2. Rattle off a few positive personality traits that will reaffirm how awesome I am.
Hard working, ambitious, independent, dedicated to family and friends, funny, lovable, supportive, honest (sometimes too honest), flexible, and up for whatever.
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3. Post a couple of pics showing me in my best light... Living an awesome life.
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4. List random activities and interests that show what a well-rounded awesome life I lead.
Travel, music, cooking, comedy shows, wine tastings, reading, shopping, concerts, live sporting events, bowling, theater, movies, and jewelry making
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5. Decide that all of this takes entirely too much effort and tell you that if you really want to know me, just send me a message and start a REAL conversation.
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I think my work here is done.:-)
I am looking for
I'm looking for a man who truly understands what it means to "court" a woman. I know it sounds old-fashioned, but that's me... An old-fashioned country girl, with a bit of big city flair.:-) The man for me will appreciate a strong, determined woman, while also understanding that he still needs to embrace...shelter...and encourage my feminine nature. He should be able to stand out in a crowd without the need to be the center of attention. He will temper honesty with compassion and have a kind, giving heart...but is no one's pushover. (well, maybe mine... Just a little! LOL)
I appreciate a man who takes care of himself. He doesn't have to be Hercules or head out to run marathons every Saturday morning.:-) But he should appreciate a healthy, home cooked meal and be willing to go for a brisk walk every now and then. He knows that good hygiene and personal grooming are not optional...but a requirement. He will be thankful and will say "yes, dear" when I insist that he goes to see a doctor about that suspicious mole on his back...because he knows that I want to keep him around for a good long time.
This man understands the contentment that can come from true commitment, and doesn't need a harem to make him feel like a king.