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Does the black community feel alienated by Woods’ preference for white women?
Apparently the mixed race golfer’s preference for white women has ignited discussions within the black community in the US. It has been alleged that his latest sex scandal has sparked off debate among Black Americans on interracial dating. Much as this has been ignored in the media coverage of his... full story
There goes another year
December is here again!!! Oh sh**. Haven’t met any of the resolutions I made. I am sure I aint the only one in this boat. Well, sh** happens and next year I’ll probably be singing the same song.
Anywho, I know you all have them parties lined up. And with parties come those potential... full story
Are you in an interracial dating site to date your own?
Why are you a member of this interracial dating site? Well, as most of us would assume, it’s because you want to date interracially. I mean, it’s an interracial dating site, right?
OkCupid – an online dating site – analyzed messaging habits of almost a million of its members.... full story
Real reasons why men call it quits
“Why the F*** did he dump me? I was always there for him.”
Well below are some reasons to consider. These don’t apply to every breakup or every woman though. If these don’t apply to you, you could always blame it all on him
1. Apparently, women don’t give men the... full story
Racial diversity in schools and interracial dating
Most schools, just like the infamous Bob Jones University never used to admit certain races just to discourage interracial dating in their institutions. Today, they do. But do diverse schools mean more interracial relationships?
Most of us would like to believe that racial diversity... full story
Gold-diggers or downright realistic?
“I don’t know about chat-up lines but a man once bought me a car. He got a whole lot of thanks for that.”
“I would rather cry in a Crystler than laugh on a bicycle.”
These are the words of two women who have no shame and make no apology for having sexual relations or marrying... full story
They must be talking about me…
We all have what I will call mild paranoia … worrying about what other people think about us. For some of us we suspect everyone must be talking about us behind our backs. “I am in an interracial relationship. What will they think?” “I am gay. What will they think?” “I am in a micro mini... full story
Not performing at work? Try great sex!
Sex does this … sex does that… What can’t sex do? Studies seem to connect almost every part of our lives to sex. A new study claims that people with healthy sex lives have an upper hand at work. What is your opinion? Do you honestly believe that cranky person in the office isn’t getting... full story
Is sex worth laboring for?
I am busy minding my business having my glass wine and beside me, a group of loud hard-to-ignore, obviously inebriated women heatedly discussing their sex lives. Apparently, they are all married and their sex lives are not only boring but downright disastrous. And the weird bit about it is, they blame... full story
Beauty or breeding racism?
Colorism has plagued this nation since God knows when. There is a common belief that light skin is beautiful, means more opportunities, better jobs, more respect, acknowledgement and better treatment from society.
Some Black women bleach themselves so they can ‘beautiful’. Having looked... full story
Would women who idolize Obama have given him a chance then?
Warning: The article below may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. It is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons.
Here’s a little to learn from Michelle Obama
Most of us have fallen for our first family, the Obamas … such a universal... full story
Emotional instability = Great sex?
Jack Donaghy: I need your help, We were having sex at The Palace, she told me she loved me. Liz Lemon: You did it, again? Jack Donaghy: Well it was quick and in the meat locker, that’s ok, right? Liz Lemon: What is it with you men, you’re like you are junkies or something. Why... full story
Best reason to avoid first date sex
Some say it’s immoral to have sex on the first date; others say it drives away ‘relationship material’. Well, I don’t plan on going down that road. Instead, I will give you one more reason to avoid first date sex – SEX is that reason.
Apparently, holding out on the magic -... full story
Is this how to raise mixed race children?
Nicole Sprinkle is a White woman married to a Colombian. They have a daughter, Nina and she writes about raising a biracial child in an article “A Child of Two Worlds”. Would you adopt her style?
In her article, Nicole writes about her experiences and concerns of raising a biracial... full story
It’s not just a female thing. Men have menopause too!
Male menopause? They say it’s real!
For years, menopause has been dubbed a “woman’s condition” but it seems men also experience a decline in testosterone hormone levels as they match into their 40s. This causes ‘andropause’ which affects approximately 5 million dudes in the U.S.... full story
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Interracial relationships: When you see race and your partner don’t
I was going through this blog that blogs about stuff (some) white people do; and the topic that day was: ‘fail to see their interracial relationships... full story
Women may not know when aroused?
When it comes to syncing the mind and body in matters of sexual arousal - according to a research review published online in the journal Archives of... full story
Man posing as model swindles and has phone sex with wealthy men
To those wealthy men seeking super hot chicks online, better watch out. The chick you are sending all those gifts to lure her could be a he.
Essence bashed for having an interracial dater on their cover
The February cover of Essence Magazine reads: Black Men, Love & Relationships Issue; the cover model: NFL’s Reggie Bush. However, people... full story
Online dating site sheds some festive fat
How would you do if you woke up to find you are no longer a member of your favorite dating site - reason: you had too much of the holiday treaties and... full story
Lost Lust
What happens when she wants it more than he does and he simply can’t keep up?
Most women believe this to be the deal: Men think about sex... full story
When your prince/princess turns into a frog
You have been on various dates with this man you love. Its reached the time to take things to the next level. Then you notice some freakish bunch of... full story
Stuck at the crush stage?
Why people should stop thinking about idealized partners and appreciate the real ones who are available.
I remember my first celebrity crush... full story
Does the black community feel alienated by Woods’ preference for white women?
Apparently the mixed race golfer’s preference for white women has ignited discussions within the black community in the US. It has been alleged that... full story
There goes another year
December is here again!!! Oh sh**. Haven’t met any of the resolutions I made. I am sure I aint the only one in this boat. Well, sh** happens and... full story
Saviors or Manipulators?
Are men who appoint themselves as saviors just manipulators who take advantage of women with relationship problems?
They say a woman is most... full story
Are you in an interracial dating site to date your own?
Why are you a member of this interracial dating site? Well, as most of us would assume, it’s because you want to date interracially. I mean,... full story
Interracial dating and M&Ms
When I saw the title of this video “Girls are Like M&Ms” I had to watch it and get the guy’s analogy.
Well it’s... full story
Real reasons why men call it quits
“Why the F*** did he dump me? I was always there for him.”
Well below are some reasons to consider. These don’t apply to every... full story
Racial diversity in schools and interracial dating
Most schools, just like the infamous Bob Jones University never used to admit certain races just to discourage interracial dating in their institutions.... full story





