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Strategic colorblindness–Is it racist?
White Americans apparently don’t like to talk about race. They either go silent or act ‘colorblind’ on the topic so as not to appear prejudiced. According to new research, by Tufts University and Harvard Business School this tendency could do more harm than good.
Researcher Evan Apfelbaum,... full story
Honey, time to shed those pounds off
Most women can’t stand their men’s constant nagging about the extra pounds they have gained. Sometimes it makes them eat more instead of shedding the pounds. Some woman’s hubby used to nag her about her weight but whenever she finally dropped her weight, the dude bought her cookies.... full story
Relationship issues: To tell or not to tell
Is it ok to spill your relationship issues to your best friends?
When it comes to relationships, most people – women especially – find it hard to balance between respecting their partners and confiding in friends. I am a woman and trust me…that line is very thin!
Most women... full story
Are you willing to give love a second chance?
Once bitten twice shy they say. With the supposed demise of romance, more people are shying away from love.
When someone dumps you for someone else - especially after having gone extra miles for them - it wont be easy to gamble with your heart and feelings again. Some people go into depression... full story
Seniors and racial bias: Is it medical?
Ever wondered why suddenly your aging parents don’t want you dating interracially? Well, it may not be their fault. When the conversation turns to ethnic groups to which they don’t belong, the sweet old aunt may not seem so sweet coz of the flights of shocking prejudice. Most of us usually assume... full story
Are you being manipulated in the name of love?
So you like doing stuff for your partner, believing its out of love. Are you sure someone isn’t subtly pulling your strings?
You might argue you are doing stuff for your partner simply because you are caring and affectionate, but your friends don’t see it that way. And as soon as you step... full story
Constructive criticism–what do men really think?
Does your dude think your feedback is nagging?
“My father, who kept industrial-grade acetone in the house to perfect the kitchen counters, was constantly after me about cleaning the pig sty that was my bedroom floor. ‘Man, I can’t wait to get out of here and get a girlfriend’,... full story
Woman suffers stroke after sex
“Sex COULD kill you. Do you know what the human body goes through when you have sex? Pupils dilate, arteries constrict, core temperature rises, heart races, blood pressure skyrockets, respiration becomes rapid and shallow, the brain fires bursts of electrical impulses from nowhere to nowhere, and... full story
Are some interracial dating crossovers more acceptable?
When it comes to interracial dating, people will always raise eyebrows. But some interracial dating combinations seem to be everywhere; for example White men – Asian women, Black-White dating to name a few.
Most Asian women admit crossing over allows them a different kind of freedom. It... full story
Virgins: Curse or Blessing?
Case 1: “Ever since I told the guy I met the other day that I am a virgin, he never picks my calls,” went my 31-year-old pal Christie.
Case 2: “Why does the guy I’m seeing like me more since I told him I was a virgin?” That one I got from some dating advice blog. The dude... full story
Raising kids and interracial dating
Is it o.k. to condition your children’s dating preferences?
A family friend of mine who is black and married to a black dude keeps telling her 8 year old daughter that she should get married to a white dude. Much as I am PRO-interracial dating, I don’t believe its right to condition... full story
Infidelity in women
He was one of the good guys … the kind that cleans the house and all the things women expect their husbands to do. Turns out he was one of those married guys who lie about an affair with a woman who produced his campaign videos and only came clean after being cornered by the media.
Well,... full story
Is interracial dating “beyond race” or “anti-racist” dating?
Most people in interracial relationships fall in the category of seeing themselves as ‘beyond race’. Such people claim not ‘see’ color when they look at people. (Some special gift this one ) And remarks that follow - “I don’t even think of you as [White, Black, Mixed, Asian or... full story
Online dating sites and commitment
All kinds of online dating sites keep coming up … catering to every fetish and desire imaginable. Men and women alike keep spending most of their times typing away, engrossed in some conversation with someone on the other end. Do you think that online dating sites make it more difficult... full story
Is same-sex marriage and interracial marriage the same?
In 1948, the court legalized interracial marriage in California and recently, California Chief Justice Ronald George asserted that the ruling is analogous to the May 15 ruling granting same-sex couples the right to marry. He also predicted that same-sex marriage will be more swiftly accepted by the... full story
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Tickle her to bed
Are men who make fun of themselves seen as sexy? ‘Hell yeah!’ says a study by University of New Mexico where a group of women listened to... full story
University appologize for past racial discriminatory policies
The first step is accepting a mistake was done … and Bob Jones University has taken it by apologizing for its past racist policies, not forgetting... full story
End her bedroom acting career thusly
A lot of men just barely miss the mark.
Dr Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First.
Most women don’t want to thrash their men’s... full story
Is oral sex more intimate?
It can be extremely pleasurable for men and women especially … you know, the clit stimulation … need I say more? It is one of the moist most exceedingly... full story
Chronic pyjama wearing good for relationships?
Familiarity in relationships: Is it good (signifying intimacy) or bad (complacency)
Some new poll claims romance lasts exactly two years, six... full story
If I knew then…
What love and sex advice would you give your younger self?
Wasted youth … retrospective clarity on mistakes of our past! All these exist for... full story
Pregnancy risks in Asian-White couples
The risk of having pregnancy complications such as gestational diabetes, low birth weight or Cesarean delivery, differs among various ethnic... full story
Breath life into your dying love
Want to resuscitate your dying love affair? Try these simple tips
Once upon a time, there was love, and then came the dream wedding. But now... full story
Strategic colorblindness–Is it racist?
White Americans apparently don’t like to talk about race. They either go silent or act ‘colorblind’ on the topic so as not to appear prejudiced.... full story
Honey, time to shed those pounds off
Most women can’t stand their men’s constant nagging about the extra pounds they have gained. Sometimes it makes them eat more instead of... full story
Relationship issues: To tell or not to tell
Is it ok to spill your relationship issues to your best friends?
When it comes to relationships, most people – women especially –... full story
Are some people incapable of love?
Some people find it hard to develop emotional bonds, no matter how much they try. Even when they are in a relationship with some very awesome person,... full story
Are you willing to give love a second chance?
Once bitten twice shy they say. With the supposed demise of romance, more people are shying away from love.
When someone dumps you for someone... full story
Seniors and racial bias: Is it medical?
Ever wondered why suddenly your aging parents don’t want you dating interracially? Well, it may not be their fault. When the conversation turns to... full story
Are you being manipulated in the name of love?
So you like doing stuff for your partner, believing its out of love. Are you sure someone isn’t subtly pulling your strings?
You might argue... full story





