Is sex worth laboring for?

I am busy minding my business having my glass wine and beside me, a group of loud hard-to-ignore, obviously inebriated women heatedly discussing their sex lives. Apparently, they are all married and their sex lives are not only boring but downright disastrous. And the weird bit about it is, they blame... full story

Beauty or breeding racism?

Colorism has plagued this nation since God knows when. There is a common belief that light skin is beautiful, means more opportunities, better jobs, more respect, acknowledgment and better treatment from society.

Some Black women bleach themselves so they can ‘beautiful’. Having looked... full story

Would women who idolize Obama have given him a chance then?

Warning: The article below may be offensive to some readers. This is not the objective. It is in no way meant to defame or inflame any parties, groups or persons.

Here’s a little to learn from Michelle Obama

Most of us have fallen for our first family, the Obamas … such a universal... full story

Emotional instability = Great sex?

Jack Donaghy: I need your help, We were having sex at The Palace, she told me she loved me. Liz Lemon: You did it, again? Jack Donaghy: Well it was quick and in the meat locker, that’s ok, right? Liz Lemon: What is it with you men, you’re like you are junkies or something. Why... full story

Best reason to avoid first date sex

Some say it’s immoral to have sex on the first date; others say it drives away ‘relationship material’. Well, I don’t plan on going down that road. Instead, I will give you one more reason to avoid first date sex – SEX is that reason.

Apparently, holding out on the magic -... full story

Is this how to raise mixed race children?

Nicole Sprinkle is a White woman married to a Colombian. They have a daughter, Nina and she writes about raising a biracial child in an article “A Child of Two Worlds”. Would you adopt her style?

In her article, Nicole writes about her experiences and concerns of raising a biracial... full story

It’s not just a female thing. Men have menopause too!

Male menopause? They say it’s real!

For years, menopause has been dubbed a “woman’s condition” but it seems men also experience a decline in testosterone hormone levels as they match into their 40s. This causes ‘andropause’ which affects approximately 5 million dudes in the U.S.... full story

Fetishes: What’s fun, what’s freaky?

In 1997, singer Michael Hutchence, the Australian rock star and front man of INXS was found dead in a Hotel room in Sydney. His naked body was found hanging from the door of his hotel room. Presumed cause of death? Some freaky sexual episode of auto erotic asphyxiation, in which choking to the point... full story

The passive victims of domestic violence

You don’t necessarily have to be on the receiving end to qualify as a victim.

Mercy, 34, grew up witnessing domestic violence. Her parents were very physical. When her dad left when she was around 7, it didn’t take long before mommy met abusive partner No.2.

Mercy’s step father... full story

The easiest way to kill your marriage

When spouses lose focus, a marriage can be as fatal as a distracted driver on the road prone to accidents.

To some extent, we can compare a relationship between spouses to the way drivers conduct themselves on the roads. Some drivers believe in themselves too much to type out text messages... full story

Does interracial sex really save humanity?

Sometime ago … over a year ago, I wrote an article on mixed-race individuals: ‘Will interracial sex save humanity?’ And there was some long DNA lecture in it. I also posed a question in a similar post: ‘Are... full story

Civil rite denied!

Expected? Shocking? The decision handed down on Tuesday by the California Supreme Court on upholding the same-sex marriage ban takes away rights of homosexual citizens in this country. Don’t they pay taxes? Don’t they follow laws of the land? Aren’t they outstanding citizens? So... full story

Friends with benefits or stress?

Is it possible for a woman to have a ‘friend with benefits’ and carry it out in the same manner a man would?

As liberated women of the 21st century, we feel we should be able to engage in the same no-strings-attached sexual relationships men always have … that we can pull off... full story

Are we such a color aroused lot?

According to Ronald E. Hall, co-author of the book “Racism in the 21st Century”, overt discrimination based on one’s race is declining. It is now more about colorism and the basis of prejudice is in one’s actual skin pigmentation.

The book argues that lighter-skinned minorities... full story

Online dating: A few extra pounds

Deciding how to list your body type on online dating sites can sometimes be a problem. Take an example of a woman who is about 5’3”, who is an hourglass size 10. How should she list herself? She is neither slim nor obese and definitely not athletic. So I guess what such a person is left with is... full story