Are you looking for a steamy, no-strings-attached date? There are many places you can do this. You can either check out the bar scene or do it the convenient way – the internet.
The internet has made things easy for most of us. And if used well, it can improve your love life and sex life – not only through the streaming of porn, but also getting random hookups. In addition to finding potential mates, more people are now looking for casual encounters online.
Besides the reason of being too busy to check out the bar scene, some people feel that approaching someone in a bar with the purpose of a one-night stand is almost always a losing prospect. Some feel you have to use all seduction techniques known in the book and deal with the consequences of your one-night-only attitude when the other party expects a relationship the next morning.
Does this mean the internet is a godsend if you are looking for something purely physical? Between the bar scene and online, which is the better place to find the right person for your sexual rendezvous. Does it make it any easier to come right out and say that you’re looking for sex and nothing but sex when it’s an online setting? What about safety issues?
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Comment by homesteader on 24 June 2009:
The internet worked for us .
The drinking establishment thing , ego trip in youth . Spent more time playing Billiards than looking for Ladies .
Being Sober sitting at home was a God given Miracle for Me .
Persons under the influence of Too many hours of Leasure time sitting on a stool , would knot seem Reliable .
You get what you pay for in Life .
Some only came to play / others with a Purpose in mind came to Stay .
God Bless AfroRomance and what it has accomplished for Us
Comment by fkoi on 25 June 2009:
I’m not sure the Internet is the ideal place to find a purely physical relationship. I mean people here sometimes hide their identity, characteristics, sometimes even their sex. Besides, a laptop is no replacement for someone on top of my lap.
I think the most important element missing is chemistry. It is a little hard to determine if their is chemistry without a face-to-face meeting.
I’m thinking that the Internet can be a good way to get to know some basics about someone before meeting but if you are prowling just “to get you a little bit” bars might be a better bet. I’ll bet I get prettier at closing time! LOL
Comment by rarestgold on 27 June 2009:
It may not be a proper place but, that’s how it’s used. I have been approached online by more men looking for just sex (but they don’t often say thats all they want right away). For those who are forward about what they want (just sex) I actually appreciate it - that way we don’t waste each others time. I don’t judge, just not my thing. I know folks don’t want to hear it but, we’re all grown and if that’s what works for you, then hey - but, be careful and wear a rubber okay.
Comment by IKARE711 on 30 June 2009:
rarestgold - I have had the same experience - and feel the same as you do.
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Comment by mds1914 on 28 August 2009:
No matter what the venue of the encounters, there are always going to be the same disparities.
1) Hunters vs lambs
2) The beautiful vs the not so beautiful
3) The wealthy vs the poor
We as human beings cannot help but perpetuate these groups no matter where we are.
Looks are, for the most of us, going to be the attracting factor; after which we may start delving into the deeper side of the people we meet. If this were not the case, 90% of these sites would not design their sites as meat markets with pictures on the profile dominating the profiles. I see all these women’s profiles proclaiming to be on the look for a “real man”, intelligent man, a family oriented man etc. If this is what you are truly looking for, you would not be having to depend on this site. It is because you are part of this new generation wanting, fast, quick solutions, that you are on this site. By the way, I consider myself in the same boat. My excuse is that as geophysicist going to work at 5:30 am, working until 4:30 - 5:30, I don’t have the time or patience to look for the “right woman”, and the not so pretty ones/crazy ones that approach are not good enough; so here I am…
So to act as if internet dating is not exactly as we want it, is to lie to one’s self. Remember these sites are businesses, if we didn’t buy their product, they would no longer be in business…
Just a thought