Ever woken up next to someone and all you could let out was an “oops�? Well I am sure most of us have heard lots of jaw-dropping bad bedroom behavior tales over the years. Imagine waking up to someone telling you they have herpes after you have slept with them. 
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Much as we are in the 21st century, there are some people who are pretty uncivilized when it comes to sex hence the need to slap some sex etiquette into them. But do we really need this?
Some may argue that the bedroom is one place where you shouldn’t mind your Ps and Qs. However sex requires principles of conduct too… just like having tea with some high and mighty Queen. You may argue that principles may spoil the enjoyment; but no one says that rules in chess spoil the enjoyment – they simply help you play well with others.
In the same way, sex etiquette is there to ensure both parties get screwed without necessarily getting screwed over.
One lady could never get her boyfriend to react to her insults until she sang “It’s a small world in your pants�!!!!! Now how does one get herself out of this one? Such comments about the size of you know what or shrinking boobies make the other person feel like they are incapacitated in some way. No one likes being criticized about sex. So if a move he or she is pulling on you doesn’t rock your boat, choose your words carefully.
However, much there is need for etiquette in the bedroom, a little Neanderthal behavior is often welcome. Like they say, rules are made to be broken. If a gentleman was gentle at all times and a lady a lady, then we would never hear of oral sex, now would we? Kinky stuff like light bondage or some dirty talk requires one to loosen up a little to the rude and naughty side.
The idea that monogamy = end of throw-me-against-the-wall sex, or some quickie in the pub restroom is an old and tired myth. Much as we want to employ good manners in the bedroom, let’s not be too uptight and stifle a supposed-to-be vigorous sex life.
What are your views on sex etiquette? Does it make or break one’s sex life?
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Comment by cocokisses on 5 November 2007:
What goes on in my bedroom is between me and my mate. “Nuff said!
Comment by fala on 5 November 2007:
Good etiquette and common courtesy are important everywhere.
Comment by Sakary on 6 November 2007:
The case is clear: Everything social (including sex) in this world requires communication, preferably civilized! Sort of a thing fala said in the previous comment …
Comment by fala on 6 November 2007:
I agree Sakary!
Comment by needrealdeal on 13 November 2007:
etiquette as far as bieng truthful BEFORE 2 people enter a bed room,YES! Communication is always key.If your foolish enough to get yourself in a bad situation well….You know what they say about making your bed.other than that,keep it between you 2 and the sheets.
Comment by DesertRose09 on 27 March 2008:
what goes on in my bed is my biz, i dont want to know about someone elses behind closed doors mess. on the other hand i do want to know if my partner has a disease of some sort so that i can take proper precautions to make sure that i dont get it and spread it around
Comment by VA_SongBird on 21 February 2009:
Most of the situations mentioned are avoidable. Get tested and know your status. Let good values and common sense govern your behavior.
Comment by BrownB09 on 11 April 2009:
Exactly,its always good to protect yourself so that you won’t have to worry about what if’s! The whole herpes thing is crazy because I heard that people are getting it at an alarming rate.Id be mad as hell if somebody told me something like that after we’ve been intimate!
Comment by homesteader on 23 April 2009:
When you choose only one and wash your hands properly of all others who like a Larger Variety in their lives / You shall never spread anything around .
Commitment , Loyalty and Honor / Three words so soon Forgotten , If I said it , I meant it . It sure nuff wood take a Larger Man than me to satisfy more than one Ladie .
My wife made the same Commitment , Loyalty and Honor to me and she thinks it Fits Just like it Should . We neither one of Us were born Yesterday .
God Blessed Me when I met Her , GIVE A FEW DROPS OF BLOOD - Modern Medicine has came a long way since Puberty .