Ever woken up next to someone and all you could let out was an “oops�? Well I am sure most of us have heard lots of jaw-dropping bad bedroom behavior tales over the years. Imagine waking up to someone telling you they have herpes after you have slept with them. 
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Much as we are in the 21st century, there are some people who are pretty uncivilized when it comes to sex hence the need to slap some sex etiquette into them. But do we really need this?
Some may argue that the bedroom is one place where you shouldn’t mind your Ps and Qs. However sex requires principles of conduct too… just like having tea with some high and mighty Queen. You may argue that principles may spoil the enjoyment; but no one says that rules in chess spoil the enjoyment – they simply help you play well with others.
In the same way, sex etiquette is there to ensure both parties get screwed without necessarily getting screwed over.
One lady could never get her boyfriend to react to her insults until she sang “It’s a small world in your pants�!!!!! Now how does one get herself out of this one? Such comments about the size of you know what or shrinking boobies make the other person feel like they are incapacitated in some way. No one likes being criticized about sex. So if a move he or she is pulling on you doesn’t rock your boat, choose your words carefully.
However, much there is need for etiquette in the bedroom, a little Neanderthal behavior is often welcome. Like they say, rules are made to be broken. If a gentleman was gentle at all times and a lady a lady, then we would never hear of oral sex, now would we? Kinky stuff like light bondage or some dirty talk requires one to loosen up a little to the rude and naughty side.
The idea that monogamy = end of throw-me-against-the-wall sex, or some quickie in the pub restroom is an old and tired myth. Much as we want to employ good manners in the bedroom, let’s not be too uptight and stifle a supposed-to-be vigorous sex life.
What are your views on sex etiquette? Does it make or break one’s sex life?
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Comment by vt33 on 5 November 2007:
Bedroom ettiquette..lol. Chelsey is funny!
However funny this is, it is a call for it. I can’t speak for most but , I will speak from personal. A small world in his pants, that isn’t quite the genere I would say to a guy, yet if he is a “little soldier” and he knows it he shouldn’t be advertising he is the GENERAL.
Is it wrong to say ,”you can’t f**k”? Everyone hates to put in 100% and get nothing. Men and women are afraid to speak their minds. Hey my motto, if you feel it say it. If you are serious about this person, you may want to get the bedroom meetings up to par, speak your mind, get out a book, a magazine, for godsakes a dvd.
Everyone is self conscious about their body, and the parts we have, unlike the YouTube blog, I am speaking in serious realtionships. If you dig a person, imperfections dont’ really matter, but, both parties shouldn’t be afraid to say,” I didn’t have a good time, I didn’t get my jollies”. The light bulb should come on, maybe we need to try this or that. That is good bedroom etiquette, speaking your mind, not sliding out the bed, thinking, he or she can’t f**k.
Bedroom Etiquette, speak your mind, don’t slide out of bed and think otherwise, and let your mate think, they are the bomb. Don’t fake it, for godsakes, that just ruins the relationship. If it wasn’t good, you pop in a dvd, both of you watch it and see what gets it going. Most important of all, if you enjoyed it, leave your ladylove a single rose across her chest(thorn free of course). Ladies if the man showed he is the King of the Pack, pamper him to death, so you can get some more of that sexy, later on that day or better yet that night. That is good “bedroom etiquette”. I’m Out!
Comment by cocokisses on 5 November 2007:
What goes on in my bedroom is between me and my mate. “Nuff said!
Comment by fala on 5 November 2007:
Good etiquette and common courtesy are important everywhere.
Comment by Sakary on 6 November 2007:
The case is clear: Everything social (including sex) in this world requires communication, preferably civilized! Sort of a thing fala said in the previous comment …
Comment by fala on 6 November 2007:
I agree Sakary!
Comment by needrealdeal on 13 November 2007:
etiquette as far as bieng truthful BEFORE 2 people enter a bed room,YES! Communication is always key.If your foolish enough to get yourself in a bad situation well….You know what they say about making your bed.other than that,keep it between you 2 and the sheets.
Comment by DesertRose09 on 27 March 2008:
what goes on in my bed is my biz, i dont want to know about someone elses behind closed doors mess. on the other hand i do want to know if my partner has a disease of some sort so that i can take proper precautions to make sure that i dont get it and spread it around