New Year’s dating resolutions

Posted by Ria

happynewyear.jpgSo how has spending 2007 on the online dating scene been like for you? What were your highs and lows? Any roller coaster flings, crushing rejections, rejected winks and unwanted advances that irritate you but secretly caress your ego?

There maybe so much you could change about 2007 … if only you could turn back time. Sometimes one wishes life also had a ‘Ctrl Z’ function like a computer keyboard so that you just undo all those messes you created. A lil ‘Ctrl Z’ magic is what we all wish for. Too bad life aint like that. However, you can learn from you dating mistakes and putting the lessons into practice in 2008 in order to make your dating rollercoaster have more ups and downs.

So how do you decide what your resolutions are? The good thing is to be honest about yourself and acknowledge the dating blunders you made. Just like many would like to kick some smoking habit, you might want to boost your sanity by breaking your habit of confusing lust for love and falling for everyone you fancy.

Much as some of our resolutions are unique to each one of us, most of our terrible dating habits are very common. For example, going back to the ex just to get some. Resolution : Ditch the ex! Stop comparing your dates to the ex. The ex is the ex. They are gone. Adios … Aurevoir … Sayonara!

So let’s do it together this year. Help each other like afroromance bloggers. What do you think is the best dating resolution to make? Have a great 2008.

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  1. Happy New Year AR Chatters!
    I resolve to be nicer to each and every one of you in 2008!

  2. Happy New Year to all.
    LOL….Fala being nice?

  3. One of my dating resolutions for 2008 is to wait for the man to contact me and then wait till the next 24 hours to answer his reply…

    I am very agggresive and dominate so this isn’t going to be the easiest resolution.

    But, I will get her done! LOL

    Southern smiles and world peace,
    Sharon

  4. Something funny about that Jade?

  5. Oh Fala you are always a nice and kind to all.That I know from the chat room..Keep being nice and kind.You are a wonderful person.

  6. I resolve to say hello to Jade every chance I get! She is a wonderful person and brings honesty and integrity everywhere she goes!!

  7. Awwwww thanks Jade. You’re a sweetheart too. I’d say what a wonderful person I think you are, but Mossimo beat me to it.
    Damn him!!!!

  8. Damn that mossimo! Always beating me

  9. I am going to find a most wild casual fun on casualpal.com, I joined last week, seems it is worth to have a try!

  10. Is sasa working for another website? :O

  11. My resolution is taken every new day… I keep being myself…

  12. Am still holding my resolutions!
    I like it!

    Smiles and world peace,
    Sharon

  13. I need help to make some new ones

  14. I,m a jamaican man with jovial ideas

  15. Aww……thanks Fala and Mossimo…

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