Why do women visit the washrooms in pairs? Men often wonder. And why do they take so long in there?
It may not be the best place to take a retreat but women and washrooms are likely to remain inseparable for a long time to come. Some crucial life changing decisions have been made in these little rooms, boyfriends dumped, ex boyfriends called in a moment of weakness caused by having one too many.
Retouching make up and fixing hair is one of the reasons women visit the washrooms but certainly not the major one. Besides powdering one’s nose, the washroom is the ultimate emergency consultation room with the girls. It is perfect when you need some say-it-as-it-is advice from the girls.
Men usually wonder why a woman would excuse herself, only to be followed by the others soon after. That little trip is for the sole purpose of dissecting you – especially if you just started going out and the object of your desire is 50:50 about the whole thingy. This mini conference could be what shapes your future – whether you are totally in or you’ll be dropped like some hot s***.
Other times, this trip is necessary when the girls start getting admiring glances from a man while in the company of girls. And from the look of things, there is a possibility that before the evening is over, phone numbers will be exchanged. This calls for an emergency tete-a-tete with the girls she is hanging out with. The girls will troop to washroom to discuss whether the guy in question is datable material.
Sometimes, washrooms play the role of a therapy room especially when one of the girls is having some man problems or she just got dumped. And since people don’t get over these things in a flash, they will all retreat to this ‘therapy room’ with their grieving girlfriend to give her time to sob and vent out her frustration, reminding her that the man in question wasn’t ‘all that anyway’ and why getting dumped was the best thing that happened to her. Once the therapy session is over, they will return to the dance floor and dance their hearts out.
Other not-so-therapeutic activities have taken place here – catfights are common so it won’t be surprising to walk in on women pulling each others hair while F words fly by. Friendships have been terminated plus it’s a perfect place to freely backbite their unpopular friend whom they have left at the table.
Clearly, women and washrooms share a very special relationship. It is a private sanctuary where women can unwind, change outfits, fix running mascara after crying river Jordan. But whatever they do in there, don’t you think they always look better getting out of the washroom than they did when going in?
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Comment by fala on 28 December 2007:
Uh, Just Wondering, I think you were just slightly off topic there.
Comment by Jade74 on 28 December 2007:
Was that another blog?
Comment by vt33 on 29 December 2007:
I think so, but I will put this one real easy.
Carry, hand wipes, and Purell that keeps the toliet trouble to a minimum.
Keep it clean and mean!
Comment by fala on 29 December 2007:
How about this one:
If you sprinkle when you tinkle,
Please be neat and wipe the seat!
Comment by Aimnoire on 30 December 2007:
Yeah you go just wondering.
I totally agree on you there, little off topic, but you made your point,
Comment by HereIamBaby on 31 December 2007:
Too many germs for me to stick around chit chating!
Happy New Year…
Southern Smiles and world peace,
Sharon
Comment by cocokisses on 1 January 2008:
Wow…someone really wanted to air her opinion on Black Men/White women…WHEW!
I am not going in the restroom to chit chat. I take care of my business, fix my makeup and get out of there. I don’t double date. I think that’s something younger women do
Happy New Year!
Comment by auroraxxx on 4 January 2008:
women are like Black Hawk helicopters….they always travel in pairs on a mission hehehehe
Comment by fala on 7 January 2008:
How about this one:
Be a hottie, wipe the pottie!
Comment by NeedsmyQuees on 8 January 2008:
OK, I lower the seat all the time. Does this earn me anything good?
Comment by NeedsmyQueen on 8 January 2008:
Yep, it gains me a mis spelled name.. lol
Comment by briknlace on 13 January 2008:
ah women and washrooms-i go to do my thing n powder my nose…….but theres always chit chatting why lie,you can learn a thing or two in the washrooms lol:besides females in the washrooms are so friendly towards each other;someone talks to you and you cant snob them which leads to interesting views mostly about men or the club or the chic on the dance floor with funny dance moves etc.
as for just wondering out of topic but thats the same way we black women think about white men……..we can trade or switch continents anytime;)
Comment by fala on 13 January 2008:
LOL@switching continents briknlace! Never heard it put that way - but that’s a good one.
Comment by islandgirl31 on 13 January 2008:
does that mean that every guy that passes by wearing your boyfriends cologne is going to trigger an immediate sexual response? cus i was wondering -is it the man in a woman’s life that excites her and triggers a sexual response or is it a cologne that does the trick?? thats a really important question here cus if its the cologne then a woman would be like a dog in heat so to speak that whenever she sniffs a particular scent or smell it triggers a sexual response.
Comment by islandgirl31 on 13 January 2008:
lhahaha dont know how that previouscomment of mine ended up answering this particular story. sorry!! this wasnt meant for that area