Most of us (men and women alike) obsess about a man’s size. And I am not talking about his height or shoe size … his package. Well if you are always wondering why his member is small, here is why: mommy’s exposure to chemicals.
New research says that if a pregnant mother is carrying a boy, chances are; exposure to chemicals will cause the boy to be born with a smaller penis. The New York Post reports that these are chemicals called “endocrine disrupters” which are found in fire retardants, cosmetics, food wrappers and baby powder. These chemicals interfere with hormones in male vertebrae animals. Which means if your man has a small junk, it probably got stunted while he was still in the womb.
“This research shows that the basic male tool kit is under threat,” says Gwynne Lyons, a former government adviser on the health effects of chemicals.
In recent years, wildlife and people have been exposed to more than 100,000 new chemicals and according to the European Commission 99 percent of them are not satisfactorily regulated.
Now you know … if you are stressed about your “size”, consolation is that the length or girth of your penis has nothing to do with your masculinity. Plus you have one more thing to blame on mommy. 
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Comment by diva on 29 December 2008:
the percentage you tag races blacks and asians men have size unless you been with them down talk.
Comment by diva on 29 December 2008:
that is don’t
Comment by diva on 29 December 2008:
don’t talk and down size races .know want your talking about.
Comment by starthai on 29 December 2008:
Interesting post Ria!
Comment by generic1977 on 29 December 2008:
doctor said i cant lift heavy objects , thats y i need a friend to help me go to the bathroom, lol
Comment by 77_piscesmen on 29 December 2008:
1:0 for non European men
Comment by Pettexo38 on 29 December 2008:
TO me size does’nt matter if you love your man,perhaps we should try the fingers ,they can do good work.LOL
Comment by Tbabie on 29 December 2008:
Size definitely doesnt matter!If you really like the person,creativity is the key!
Comment by dolly48 on 29 December 2008:
dont believe the hype!
Dont believe in this “disrupters” crap
size depends on dna! end of story
Comment by Bereal4me on 29 December 2008:
Well, interesting article. I am not buying it, though. I am turned off by small size. If the size is small, my psych turns everything off in me. Maybe I am wrong, but sorry…
I have not been with many men, but if I have seen that you don’t have what it takes, I won’t take what you have–unless I love you.
I have not been with many men at all, but I guess I have been spoiled.
They say it is not the size of the ship, but how it rocks in the ocean. Hmmm….
I hate fingers and the tongue cannot do it for me, so…I need what it takes for ME. smile
Comment by uganda28 on 29 December 2008:
Quite an interesting subject here. Over time, i always thought size mattered………….it doesnt at all……style matters more than size, i mean what would a woman have to do with a man who finnishes only thirty seconds into the game and falls down never to rise again even when his size is so big.
I think what matters is the ability of one to go the “distance” until your partner is able to achieve satisfaction or organism……whatever they call it.
I rest my case !
Comment by happy2wait on 29 December 2008:
I feel size may matter to some women. If you have been with a man that’s WAY above average you might appreciate, a smaller penis. A larger penis requires the man to have some “skills” to wield the huge thing around. If a man has a smaller package, there are limitless possibilities…
I like a “smedium”lol… Regardless of size, every woman deserves more than five minutes of funk-lol
Comment by Agamemnon_J on 29 December 2008:
Sounds like so much frog wash to me. I believe genetics speaks more to the issue than anything else. I have a difficult time believing in articles or other pontifications that reel off statements as fact without elaborating on who did the study, who funded it, how was it done, how long the study lasted, how many men were used as the control group. Question everything….
Agamemnon Jones
Comment by soosoogood on 29 December 2008:
The tris(tributyltin oxide was banned in the UK years ago because it was the cause of whelks changing their gender. So clearly dna is not the only issue here. There are people who appear to be female with male dna because of chemical triggers that malfunctioned in the womb. And the thought of this forum being appropriate for scientific peer reviewed articles is silly but it is a fine place to put topics on the table for anyone who wants to research a topic further for themselves (in my opinion).
Comment by lemmeholdya on 29 December 2008:
That is crazy… thank God my mom doesnt believe in all the shots babies get and all the medicine the docs try to load you up with.
p.s.. to all the women up here that say size DOESNT matter….you’re all liars… yeah, i said it.. what. Thats just what you tell men with small packages to make them feel better…
Have a safe and happy new years.. Jay
Comment by starthai on 29 December 2008:
Soosoogood and lemmeholdya make really good points.
Comment by homesteader on 30 December 2008:
I feel sadly for everything being blamed on chemicals , Alas proud to say that I was born before shrink-wrap . Hehe ,Love Les
Comment by homesteader on 30 December 2008:
P.S. if you got it , still feel for those that don’t lol
Comment by Sean01 on 30 December 2008:
Tbabie is hot!
Comment by homesteader on 30 December 2008:
Upon re-reading might be that a little dash of lubricant could stop corrosion , life has so many different values which each can take time to learn and make a choice . The real passion is in the mind , I think
Comment by homesteader on 30 December 2008:
I was told that it takes a man to make a boy , I am a craftsman as I have installed the plumbing on the inside in the dark as I have 4 daughters .
Comment by Caseus on 30 December 2008:
Now that we know of this threat we act and do something about it. Size only matters if you are 3 inches or smaller, most of the penis does not provide sensation to please a woman anyway, the clitoris is up front the G spot is about 3 inches in. Size only matters if your partners wants size, believe me their are other ways to please a woman.
Caseus
Comment by laugh_sailor on 30 December 2008:
Fascinating article, Ria - Thanks! Excellent comments, Soosoogood! Fish in the Colorado river are having an increasingly hard time maintaining their populations. In addition to silt, dams, chemicals and overfishing, caffeine and estrogen from our pee have made most of the fish female and all of them a bit spastic, stressed and shorter-lived. Both caffeine and estrogen are difficult for waste-water treatment plants to remove.
Has anyone wandered around ancient dwellings? The people were so tiny! It’s not just the small doors and low ceilings but beds and work spaces, as well that are small - Matching skeleton size. We’re generally larger, stronger and much longer-lived from better quality of life and I think we’ve still got a long way to go. If nothing else, we’re aware of so much we do that’s harmful and that’s the first step in rectifying problems.
Comment by stlrapper on 30 December 2008:
i think size matters more to those who engage in casual sex because at that point their encounters are primarily physical…but if you have developed a caring relationship prior to being intimate, size wont matter as much so honestly its not that big of a deal to me
Comment by rae56 on 30 December 2008:
Uganda28 & stlrapper, I agree with the both of you!
lemmeholdya, You can only speak for yourself. not everyone is consumed with size as opposed to substance.
Comment by Anacandela on 30 December 2008:
It depends on what a person is seeking in a relationship.
Comment by homesteader on 31 December 2008:
in my case ; I was looking for a lifelong companion , and we got Lucky here . All it took was time . Sometimes you win sometimes you lose alas you always got to play either way
Comment by girlsixdiva on 31 December 2008:
Hey I just wanted to point out that the comment made up there by “diva” was not me!!! I am the original! LOL
Comment by jos28 on 31 December 2008:
I think the majority of women will agree with me, even those who say size doesn’t matter: When you’re fantasizing about how your ideal man would look, he’s reasonably well endowed. I think most of us would prefer that, but in reality, it is just more important to some women than others.
In my opinion, an average size man that knows what he is doing is much preferred over a well endowed man who is clueless.
Comment by Olmec123 on 31 December 2008:
Well we live in a world where it matters to some.People have to learn to be comfortable with what they have.Man/Woman.Im sure there are alot of meaningful relations lost because of that issue,where it leaves women on a quest to find the big one,and in doing so they will have many more unmeaningful relations on this quest,because you will always find someone who has this but doesnt have that vice/versa.All you can do is try to get a good fit. Flip side is men become like the women since size matters to woman, now men can be like you what “your overweight” of your underweight i dont like it or your breast are just a little too small and i dont like implants, or your butt is too small, or too big,or your not that pretty you know. It just leaves both parties man/woman who can always have an objective. Some woman have easier orgasims,to some woman it doesnt matter like some men dont need an hour glass figure on their wife, some men do.
Comment by starthai on 31 December 2008:
I agree jos28.
Comment by flexcavana on 1 January 2009:
All I’m saying is size is everything. I mean I’m not huge (7.3 x 5.9) but every woman, all things else being equal, would be with the better equipped man. Just like all things considered, every man would be with the woman with wider hips and bigger breasts….it’s a genetic predisposition connected with our desire to have healthy babies. Big penises or certain features of a woman subconsciously say they would be good for fathering/mothering our babies.
Comment by thick_lover on 1 January 2009:
Just as an aside, I notice that women’s “size”, or tightness, is almost never discussed.
Comment by homesteader on 1 January 2009:
if you Large enough / they tight enough
Comment by thick_lover on 1 January 2009:
haha…or is it the other way round?
Comment by lemmeholdya on 1 January 2009:
Are you serious? People are up here posting their penis sizes?…. lol what is this site coming to?
…to thick_lover … you know men are visual.. we can recycle bad booty and make it good if the visual affects are there
Comment by vt33 on 2 January 2009:
“Can’t work the middle cause his thing to little”
(thank you Kim Jones for that quote of the day)
Reality is, women always hollering about size girth width, “if its to small I can’t feel it”, “girl it was so big I could feel it in my stomach” etc. I think you all can recall a comment or two on a men’s doinkage.
I read somewhere creatvity is key with a small doink, I guess it would have to be. Bottomline, if you are a little doink, a medium doink, or draggin the floor needing a radio flyer to carry your doink, it all comes down to the essence of knowing how to use your tool.
Here is a interesting thought on the subject matter, as a carpenter you build things, so you pull out your tools to create beauty. Experience and handling of the tools are key to building great things. I guess, if you know how to use your tools, no matter what the size is, you can lay a mean piece of wood, and your client will be completely satisfied.
Get the point!
Comment by TheAmazon84 on 2 January 2009:
It’s true, look at the journal of urology, recently they had a paper come out that tells of the condition of “hypo-spadeus” which is a decreased anogenital length in baby boys, which means a smaller penis side.
These endocrine disrupters are known also xenoestrogens. Two main chemicals that are from the plastic and petrochemical industries are big players, bisphenol A and phalates, these are in everything from cd’s shampoo, conditioner, and carpt, literrally everywhere.
The even funnier thing is that in the 1930’s this class of chemicals were being looked at to be used for ESTROGEN REPLACEMENT.
what do you think happens if you dump loads of estrogen essentially into a developing baby..not good.
Canada has recently banned plastic bottles in that country because these chemicals will leech out of the plastic and into the contents of the bottle.
A CBC documentary the disappearing male..explains it alot better than I.
and link(s):http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/06/opinion/06sat4.html?_r=2&oref=slogin
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article5209244.ece
http://earthhopenetwork.net/forum/showthread.php?tid=1252
actual link to the documentary:http://www.archive.org/details/TheDisappearingMale-CBC
here is a small snippet from it, a descrpition:
The Disappearing Male
“We are conducting a vast toxicological experiment in which our children and our children’s children are the experimental subjects.” Dr. Herbert Needleman
The Disappearing Male is about one of the most important, and least publicized, issues facing the human species: the toxic threat to the male reproductive system.
The last few decades have seen steady and dramatic increases in the incidence of boys and young men suffering from genital deformities, low sperm count, sperm abnormalities and testicular cancer.
At the same time, boys are now far more at risk of suffering from ADHD, autism, Tourette’s syndrome, cerebral palsy, and dyslexia.
The Disappearing Male takes a close and disturbing look at what many doctors and researchers now suspect are responsible for many of these problems: a class of common chemicals that are ubiquitous in our world.
Found in everything from shampoo, sunglasses, meat and dairy products, carpet, cosmetics and baby bottles, they are called “hormone mimicking” or “endocrine disrupting” chemicals and they may be starting to damage the most basic building blocks of human development.
more links:
Comment by hawkercat on 2 January 2009:
I can attest to size does not matter as long as the guy knows what he is doing and is willing to please. Some one told me - a guy- that the average penis in the United States is 4 inches. Based on what I know first hand, I would say 6 would be more average. But what makes good sex is knowing your partner, having some level of chemical attraction to one another, and openly appreciating them. This intimacy and your actions bring each other a more satisfied experience.
Comment by TheAmazon84 on 2 January 2009:
sorry this is the actual link to the documentary
http://www.archive.org/details/TheDisappearingMale-CBC
Comment by TheAmazon84 on 2 January 2009:
and another, one of the actual studies…sorry, my original post didn’t publish the way it was supposed to.
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/111082.php
Comment by frey on 2 January 2009:
@flexcavana
So according to your theory, woman’s hips and male penises should grow with the evolution?
Comment by Shimska on 2 January 2009:
This is the stupidest argument I’ve ever read about the male genitalia. While I do believe injested chemicals affect our bodies I DON’T agree that’s a blanket explanation for a small penis.
It’s genetics. Sorry!
Comment by homesteader on 2 January 2009:
hi ho hi ho it’s off to town we go , size is only measure ment . the true quality in the thought of the combination of the way we play the game of Love . Love Les yes my wife enjoys my size
Comment by Glock on 3 January 2009:
It’s global warming I tell ya, it’s global warming.
Comment by vikingguy on 3 January 2009:
I have the equipment. Yes I do.
Comment by InSide_Out on 3 January 2009:
I agree with vt33 and shimska…stlrapper, gr8 point. Hormones, chemicals, etc definetely affect the development and health of living organisms but I would look to genetics as the explanation (or at least greatest determining factor) of penis size.
Lemmholdya..penis size DOES matter but what that ideal size is varies woman to woman. That is why women (like myself) just simply say it doesnt matter…I prefer a “smedium” as one member put it…but if I were to say that size matters, a man will just assume I want a big d*ck.
Comment by pesta on 3 January 2009:
stlrapper,olmec& anacandela.I agree absolutely with you fellas.When we shunt aside useful issues in a relationship and get engrossed in peripheral matters like “size” we end up losing our perspective.You should love your man regardless of his “size”. After all there is a lot more at stake here than just size.I don’t mean to play down the importance or imperativeness of ’satisfaction’ in a game.What i am saying here is simply that there is a lot more here than size.After all is said and done the quality of a choir’s music has very little to do with the length of the conductor’s rod.
On a related issue i think stlrapper is a ‘bomb’.I wouldn’t mind a one on one with her.
Comment by alexian on 3 January 2009:
This is all quite ridiculous,obsessive,and funny.Anybody up for my measurement resume?
Comment by alexian on 3 January 2009:
The next thing we’ll be obsessing about will be why some women are born with “ugly” or “smelly” vaginas and how the Schuman Cavity is to blame…lol
Comment by alexian on 3 January 2009:
I read somewhere once that the Nazis had a torturous looking contraption called a “schlangenlonger”(sp)…lol…and that the Aryan length was to be achieved with the aid of this trusty “device”.I forget the Nazi ideal metric.Maybe it was measured by Hitler’s rectal measurements?
Comment by Maridoe on 3 January 2009:
Oh my goodness, are we all going to give pause to the guy with the very small penis? What to do when you are eye to eye with it? Tell him it’s his Mom’s fault? I am not so silly as to equate the size with actual manhood, but common girls! Tell me it doesn’t matter after a few months trying to figure out how you are going to settle for “nothing” for the rest of your life??? Just have to ask the question.
Comment by seekinone on 3 January 2009:
Food for thought .. every woman reaches orgasm from the length of her own finger so finger length with the right touch should suffice as long as you love that person like how u love ur own finger lol
Comment by TRUDYLOVE2 on 4 January 2009:
YES SIZE DO MATTER IT MATTER TO ME I DON’T LIKE SMALL MEN AND 2 SOME IT DON’T..BUT TO ME I DON’T THINK THIS CHEMICALS HAVE SOMETHING 2 DO WITH IT THEY EVER SAY SOMETHING ABOUT IT BE 4 UNSTILL NOW CMON AAAAA NO….ALSO IT HOW U USE IT IF U DO THEN MAYBE…IT COME DOWN 2 IF U HAVE AN ORGASM OR NOT… ME I WANT IT ALL A MAN CAN EAT GOOD PUSSY USE THEY HANDS 2 I WILL LIKE IT ALL… THE HITTING ON THE BUTT.. THE TIE UP 2 THE BED I KNOW I LIKE 2 DO IT… I USE MY FINGERS… IF I LOVE HIM THEN NO AM NOT GOING 2 HOLD IT ON HIM..SOME WOMEN GO SOMEWHERE ELSE SOME MEN HAVE BIG OR NICE SIZE DICKS…WOMEN USE WHAT U GOT TOYS AND ALL..LOL.. I HAVE A MOUTH I TELL MY MAN U HAVE A SMALL PENIS AND IF HE MAKE ME HAVE AN ORGASM THEN I DON’T HAVE 2 SAY NOTHING..IF IT GOOD HE WILL NOT HAVE NO SLEEP…WELL MEN SORRY WE HAVE 2 TALK ABOUT YOUR PENIS BUT THAT IS THE WAY LIFE IS US WOMEN MATTER YES ABOUT TIME…WOMEN ASK YOUR MEN R U DOWN WITH TOYS AND ETC. IF SO USE IT THEN U MAY NOT BE LOOKING AT THE MAN PENIS…CHEMICALS CMON….
Comment by homesteader on 4 January 2009:
next time it will be okay , my wife got no complaints , girls tighten up . I asked many got refused all the little ones are still available
Comment by homesteader on 4 January 2009:
you snooze you lose / be pickie if you please , at the bottom of the bag the potato is rotten , I was teased 4 years and packen Quality n ‘ Quanity . Some reaped what they sowed . 009 Bomb Les Bombed
Comment by www.afroromance.com amish01 on 4 January 2009:
hi guys let us not shift from the real issues here.i totally agree with stlrapper and ye gud guys. whether the size is affected by the chemicals or dna is not the point.we should be more practical and sensitive in that we should not judge and condemn all those gud men with small dicks coz sincerely its neither their fault nor is it fair.we should not give ourselves headaches for things we dont have power over.let me ask u women ; how would you feel if a man u love forsakes u for the simple reason that u ve a funny looking vag or u are too big or small?so guys think twice before u jump to conclusions coz these are things that make most of people both sexes have low self-esteem and feel alienated. love is what matters and not size.
Comment by frey on 4 January 2009:
Though some of the information in the doku “the disappearing male” might be true, the doku
lacks of facts. looks more like another example, of the male exorcism going on in the western
societies today, claiming us responsible for low sperm counts, rapist, porn addiction, violence, and prostitution
In my part of the world, the stats shows, that it is still woman who counts for the majority of the fertility problems, (although sperm counts has also been declining due to some studies).
Comment by JUICYLU on 4 January 2009:
SIZE MATTERS - When you see a man naked his size adds to the overall beauty of his physique, otherwise you might as well be looking at a woman (unless you’re a lesbian - and no disrespect meant to lesbians)!
I had a relationship with a guy with no more than 3″, and although we made it in other ways, the important thing,the anticipation of penetration, was missing! And don’t say use fingers - its not the same! The act of penetration brings you close together, and this cannot be achieved if the size is small.
When you fall for a guy his size doesn’t matter, but us girls would definitely prefer larger than, or if not at least the average. Did someone say 6″?
As for vaginal size, the vagina is only 2″, but it baloons to accept a more than average size. What causes the problem of being too big is childbirth. So women out there stop having children! (lol)
Comment by ugotomega on 4 January 2009:
i made the mistake of asking this one guy Brian i was interested in, his size, he replied enough, when i pushed the matter he said i was coming off low-class, that woman just shouldn’t ask those questions because if a man has an in adequate size where does he go from there, he says he doesn’t go around asking woman how tight or loose is their “coucie”.
It hurt that he implied i was low-class, just because he was insecure with his junk( my opinion)and needless to say it did not work out with B (aka Brian) because of a lack of communication and trust. i for one believe you should be able to ask a potential partner anything, i am a avid believer in truthful communication and compatibility, and some times that includes junk size. lol
Comment by angela33 on 4 January 2009:
You best believe the research is true, but those are not the only factors. Soy, soy is not as good for you as you think. Soy is very harmful soy can stunt the male penis growth and cause other problems. You know those infant formulas that are given when the babies have an intolerance to milk. Many contain soy. Read the book “The whole soy story” You will be really surprised. And Many women who have delivered male babies and were instructed to feed them soy based formulas are reporting that their male child has grown up with some or all of the side affects mentioned in this book. Now personally I am not on the size hype because if you have a penis as long as a telephone poll and don’t know what the hell to do with it then its useless. Skill over size anyday. The best sex I ever had was with a man with a small penis. So there you have it from the Veteran diva of AR herself.
Comment by Jimbo_4269 on 4 January 2009:
It would not surprise me if this really has merit. I feel we are to well fed on chemicals in our daily diet as well. Just look on any food wrapper!
As far as size being important, let’s be truthful…Size is important, the size of a man’s heart, his wallet and in 3rd place, his penis!!!
Comment by TRUDYLOVE2 on 4 January 2009:
CMON PEOPLE U KNOW DAMN WELL WOMEN DON’T WANT A SMALL DICK MEN…THEY KNOW THEY WANT 2 FEEL SOMETHING NOT THE TOP OF THE DICK WE WANT 2 FEEL THE HOLD THING U AND I KNOW IT…IF THEIR A WOMEN OUT THEIR AND SAY SIZE DON’T MATTER THEY R A LIER…2 ME IF A MAN TALK ABOUT HOW BIG THEIR DICKS R THAT MEAN THEY HAVE SMALL DICK…SOME…LOL..I HAVE SMALL BIG AND BIG IS IN…IF U KNOW HOW 2 USE IT WHEN MORE POWER 2 U..A MAN WHO WAS READY SMALL I LOOK AND SAY IS THAT IT…LOL..HE SAY YEAH I SAY OOO MY GOD..I GOT DRESS AND LEAVE I CAN’T BECAUSE MY TIME IS IMPORTANT 2 ME…DON’T GET ME WRONG I DON’T WANT A MAN 2 KILL ME BUT U HAVE 2 HAVE SOMETHING THERE…DON’T NEED A MAN WHO HAVE A DICK THAT LOOK LIKE A PUSSY…LOL
Comment by babygirl668 on 4 January 2009:
Trudy, lower your voice & brush up on your grammar girlfriend! (LOL)
Ugotomega.. It could possibly be how the size conversation/question was visited. I think size matters because women need at least something to work with. However, I would place size after kindness, loyalty, respect, motivation, and a cute face…
Take care.. Babygirl668
Comment by uganda28 on 5 January 2009:
Trudy, i atleast understand why you need size…lol, offcourse i have it myself but i dont think it matters.
Comment by homesteader on 5 January 2009:
don’t make a difference unless we ain’t got it , hehe
Comment by mosg on 5 January 2009:
i say size does’nt count the only thing that counts is the way you are using your equipment and the position you are taking.
chaw chaw
Comment by TRUDYLOVE2 on 5 January 2009:
FINE UGANDA I CAN SEE WHY U DON’T HAVE IT….LOL..AND BABYGIRL668 (GIRLFRIEND) MY GRAMMAR IS ALL GOOD IT NOT ON ME THAT U DON’T GET IT…LOL…AND THANKS 4 SAYING SIZE DO MATTER BECAUSE U AND I KNOW WE NEED SOMETHING 2 WORK WITH…TO ALL MEN OUT HERE WHO HAVE SMALL DICKS TRY 2 WORK WITH IT WELL THAT IS WHAT U WAS BORN WITH….WELL WELL THE MAN WHO HAVE BIG OR NICE SIZE DICKS GOOD 4 U…WOMEN IF WE JUST GET A DICK THAT WE R HAPPY WITH THEN… WE GOOD…2 PUT IT OUT THERE WE JUST WANT 2 HAVE A GOOD FUCK THAT ALL…
Comment by HedPEHead on 5 January 2009:
DAMNIT MA!! Why’d you have to go and sniff baby powder while I was in your womb!! LOOK WHAT YOU’VE DONE TO ME!!! hahahaha
Comment by Shimska on 6 January 2009:
I agree with InSide_Out about the reason WHY we tell men size doesn’t matter - it’s an individual choice and yes, if we tell them it does matter they assume that means big. I happen to have a friend that prefers a smaller size.
I dated a smaller man who made up for it with fantastic tongue action! You ladies need to learn how to work what your man offers and you men need to learn how to work what you’ve got.
Glock, I think the shrivel comes from global freezing (LOL).
Comment by rae56 on 6 January 2009:
I have a headache…
Comment by homesteader on 6 January 2009:
small , medium , large Huge and OMG , IT IS NOT THE SIZE BUT THE THOUGHTS THAT COUNT . 009 Bombed Les Bombed
Comment by homesteader on 6 January 2009:
Sweet Dreams Baby
Comment by pfhnphily on 7 January 2009:
Does ANYONE know or understand what the heck ‘Diva’ is talking about???? Her words don’t really make any sense. Maybe she’s drunk or maybe it’s me . . .
Comment by furious on 8 January 2009:
I will say this…I dont think women really understand what it does to a man when you say he is too small…I can promise you that if the hype were true and size did matter and women were only attracted to men with big cocks then the suicide rate for men would go WAY UP…that is no j/k…men suicide rate is already way higher then women…
Comment by furious on 8 January 2009:
you would have to be pretty small..the frikkin g spot is like 2 inches in…surely a guy has that
Comment by Blaqwhole on 8 January 2009:
I don’t think the male suicide rate would increase due to the sole reason that women preferred men with larger penises furious. I mean life will deal you a lot worse than a small penis and if you couldn’t deal with that then survival of the fittest would dictate that the species is better off without you anyway…second, the male suicide rate is usually approx 4x higher than the female rate because males are more often successful due to the more violent ways (gun shots, hanging, etc…) that males commit suicide…females however make twice as many attempts as males to commit suicide but they are by far less successful due to their less violent nature (poisoning, etc…). Third, although it is a severe insult for a male to hear that his penis is small (mainly because it hurts our pride), even males with this “small penis” attribute are often times more confident and happy with their bodies than females who are very attractive and well shaped…Fourth, look at it this way, by the time she tells you that you have a small penis you probably already slept with her anyway. And fifth, of course every woman would PREFER a well endowed tall man with a large penis, a 6 figure salary, and a mansion on a hill but we have our preferences too. And that is all it is, a preference…not really something to commit suicide over…
Comment by cometdog on 23 January 2009:
I worry about the chemicals that we say are safe now. Just thinking back on Freon (used in refrigration). It was said to be safe and great for a multitude of task. Now found to be environmentaly damaging. Or DDT sprayed every where. So what current chemical that is currently the great thing going to be found to be deadly.
Comment by canadiangc on 9 February 2009:
I guess the author of the article should do more research instead of trying to pass of some nonesense about the size of men’s penises.
A simple search would have provided her with information from condom manufacturers who seel mainly in the 6-6.5inch range (57% of sales).
For the ladies who prefer the 8″+, good luck with finding one of the 1.6% of men who buy condoms that size or larger.
Whenever I’m asked about the size of my package, I’m honest, I say average and have never measured. Don’t know why anyone would measure, unless they are making sure they buy the right size if condom.
Comment by BrownB09 on 3 April 2009:
Quite interesting!
Comment by homesteader on 4 April 2009:
Very Very interesting - Fun also , Emergency Water supplies come in Plastic jugs , as do Gallons of Milk . Hurricanes only hit this part of Texas when they desire , alas more people died Evacuating then did those Being prepared for the storm . We did have fun with no electric power for many days , gotta learn to live with what you got and be Happy . Get married and throw them condoms away . They break .
Comment by wooddragon13 on 24 April 2009:
At the end of the day, it’s what you’re able to do with it that counts. If you helping your partner get multiple orgasm with it, you’re in good. If you’re a one directional in and out guy, it doesn’t matter how big you are, your not going to hold on to anyone. On that note though, I’m glad I’m not 3″.
Comment by jucyfruit on 26 April 2009:
ok size to me dont matter as long as he knows how to workk it well.. thats all tha matters a guyy can have a big dick but not know how to work it an the sex will still turn out to be a waste of time.. i mean if a guyy has a baby dick and he is wayy past puberty then yaa thats going to be a problem.. but then again some guys know how to make a women have an orgasm without the use of his dick..all they do is whisper things in her ear.. but if its sayy like 3 or 4 inches then it doesnt matter aslong as the guy knows wat he is doing an he knows how to please a women..
Comment by shreksdonkey on 27 April 2009:
I fail to see what size has to do with true love.
If you’re in love you will find a way for good sex,…or not.
Many relations don’t even have sex on aregular basis.
By the way I have never heard of a couple separating because of a small size.
I have heard about about a woman being small and the man hurting her every time they had sex.
Well i’d rather have a small one than hurting my lady.
Comment by Leavitobeavr on 29 April 2009:
Most women would say that size doesn’t matter until reality hits.I know a guy got devorce for having a small container.Com’on women keep it real size is all you think about.You like to be stuffed and filled up right?I know another guy was trying to be model.He had the looks and syle but not the package. This other beat up in the face guy had nothing going on in his life.Took another mans wife and did whatever he wanted to do to her because he have the thing that swings.Viceverse i wouldn’t want a woman putting anything and everything inside her and i’m not just talking about dildoes.Fellows if you found woman thats bigger then your fist.Kiss your ego goodbye. Most women would say they can’t find the right guy.Well what are searching for the man or the meat.
Comment by blackstorm69 on 15 May 2009:
To me size does matter, but
I try to be openmineded enough if I like the person and he is stronger in other areas of lovemaking then yes I will give him a chance but the chemistry has to be really really great.
Comment by HoneyKissed6 on 16 May 2009:
Size matters to me. I can not do too small. I can’t feel it and if I’m not satisfied that way, I do fall out of love with that aspect of the relationship and since sex is important to me….
And yes, most women’s g-spots are 3 inches in…mine isn’t. It further up. Medical anomaly for sure but I’m honest about needing size.
I do no like too big though I’ve had my fair share. Some do not know what do with it and some get so turned on by themselves , they end up hurting you.
Average size works well for me. If I had to choose between small or large, I’d go with large. If I had to choose between a great guy with a small package and an asshole with a large package, I wouldn’t choose either one. I wouldn’t have sex with the smaller guy because I wouldn’t be turned on (believe me I tried to get past this on many occasions) and I wouldn’t have sex with the asshole because I wouldn’t be turned on.
Comment by crunja on 3 June 2009:
Do women prefer quotes in metric or in the English system for lengths?
Comment by rarestgold on 15 June 2009:
Size only matters if all you want is sex.
Comment by homesteader on 16 June 2009:
Thunder only happens when it’s Raining . Sorry , I heard that in a song one time .
Comment by WHURR on 18 July 2009:
To the size queens…maybe its the fact your vagina is too big.
Did an overactive sex life stretch you out so having sex with you is like tossing a hotdog down a hallway?
You have to give some time between booty calls to tighten that muscle back up. Pushing a kid out every 10 months when the doctor says to wait 6 weeks after birthing ( do the math) is not good either.
Always blaming it on the dyck…. dang….just cuz ur stuff looks like one of Dolly Partons breastfed kids’s mouth…not our problem!!!
Now the ones with the snappy comebacks to this…they the ones!!!
Comment by sweetroses on 25 July 2009:
Hi, this comment goes to WHURR, how dare you be so rude, what were you thinking? I guess no one was women or man enough to respond to your nasty little comment. I am truely offended, not every female have booty calls, not because I am answering to your mindless comment do not mean that I am wide or open like Dolly Partons breast fed child mouth(LOL), since you dont have nothing better to do you must or have to be very small like a 1/2 inch wow, I never have a problem with a mans dick size as long as the man know what to do with his penis, it’s all about the motion in the ocean, so dont be a jerk if you cant back up your big mouth it’s all good. I think females know what they like and what they dont want is a loser trying to pretend to be all that, I like a smart intelligent good man who is self confident, respectful and not worried about his package because God created everyone in his own unique way. Thanks and good luck.
Comment by sweetroses on 25 July 2009:
Hi why should size matter, lets get a life and forget it.
Comment by WHURR on 26 July 2009:
She must be one of thos ‘hot dog down the hallway’ women!
I knew they would come out of the woodwork. She’s looking in the mirror she holding under her crotch as we speak.
ECHOOO ECHOOOO ECHOOO…
Comment by Shotgun007 on 3 August 2009:
Well providing an answer to the blog question.. Does size matter? or Why is he small.. In my opinion and from experience, absolutely NOT!
It depends, are you looking for a quickie or wambam as opposed to real intimacy? My guess is, most are looking for real intimacy.
For me size doesn’t matter, just give me a beige one and I’m happy (just kidding LOL).
Shotgun007
Comment by Nandi on 3 August 2009:
Shotgun007
He He He
Personally, I never understood why a woman would want a “big one”. The average size for a women is 4 inches deep and a male average is 7 inches, something smaller definitely would not be a problem…Besides, bigger ones cause tearing and scar tissue, which cannot be fixed..So you are stuck with painful spells throughout your life…I say, if it does fit, do not force and I certainly do not want to hurt something I might need for a long while. I am still a growing girl LOL
Comment by Shotgun007 on 18 August 2009:
Exactly….., Nandi.
I have always said the same thing, we hear talks of some men who choose to brag about their penis sizes & even wear their egos on their sleeves claiming 9 or 10” penis sizes etc etc….(Sad)… I’m looking for longevity and a life with my mate and intimacy is all but 1 aspect of it.
I think women in general should focus less on the male anatomy as a whole.
Comment by Luna.Bean. on 31 October 2009:
It’s funny how this forum gets so many hits and the rest, i.e. interesting and important ones get less appreciation.
It’s good topic, but kids, the debate is over.
Comment by oldschool56 on 4 November 2009:
@luna.bean…..AMEN!!
Comment by BrownB09 on 5 November 2009:
Okay, I thought long and hard before i decided to post this, but what the hey we are all adults!!
First thing is in all honesty size does matter to me somewhat!! And ladies I guess itd all come down to width or girth?…….ROFL!!!!
Lets keep on keepin on, and keep it real!!!
All my sensitive guys out there, if it dont apply, let it fly!!
Take care all!!!!
Comment by homesteader on 5 November 2009:
Still to frame a house with a tack hammer is almost impossible .Hehe
Comment by paganinifan on 17 November 2009:
I know this topic thread is old but since I found it and I was recently really put off by a female’s profile that mentioned the penis size thing I wanted to put forth something for WOMEN to think about:
If women are going to measure the quality of a man by the size of his penis, or how he ‘works it’ in the bedroom, just imagine that you come down with breast cancer and need your breasts removed, should YOU then be measured by the lack of something for us men to suck on and play with?
Big breasts, little breasts, that doesn’t matter. But NO breasts. Yeah. I find it very outdated high schoolish of any grown woman to be making an issue over a man’s size. It goes to show you’re only looking for love with conditions.
Comment by Bellara on 21 November 2009:
The research is obviously one of those research findings that are VALID but not RELIABLE. So in other words? It’s incorrect! Mother’s exposure to chemical has a lot to do with child development but genital development? That is yet to happen.
Comment by Catch me if you can! on 3 December 2009:
Woman’s who says that size matters are CHEATERS!!!!
That is a FACT!
Comment by Truth on 19 December 2009:
It’s all down to women!!! They are to blame! Genetics yes! Women are the ones who making son’s with small penis! Stop it stop it now, ABORT!! The child will live a life of misery just so you can bring life and carry a baby for 9 months so you can have people fuss around you and experience pregnancy how selfish are the female race!!Dragging children into the world knowing full well what will happen to them! All women want a guy who has a big penis! They say size doesn’t matter not to make the guy feel better about them self but to take the blame away from them!! Because they as Women are to blame!! And they know it! Nobody talks about what if a guy wants a big penis JUST BECAUSE HE WANTS ONE! Nothing to do with satisfying a women but just because he is entitled to have one! Imagine if people was to look closely at why boys have small penises the attention would then turn to women and eventually the decision would be only certain women could give birth or be allowed to make children women would not accept that! Imagine going up to a pregnant women and screening her, and then say to her your son is going to be short and that he wall have small penis and the decision from the government was you will forced into having an abortion! What do you think would happen! Women would then lose there power to have children any time they wanted! I have to great friends who I miss dearly that have committed suicide over their size penis! One of them killed himself in front of his mother stabbed himself in the neck he was 14! My other friend slit his mother’s throat and shot himself in the head in front of her! So she was just about alive enough to see him die he was 20! So you women take responsibility and stop hiding take the blame and change the way son’s brothers and fathers are brought into this world! Stop blaming God! You did this nobody else! It’s taking to people to make a child but it only takes one (women) to decide whether that child lives or dies! Choose the right men to have children with! Look at your genetics and ask yourself if you have the right blood the ingredient to bring a child into this world. You are bringing people into this world to live a life of misery just so that you know what pregnancy is like! Screen our children before they are born for heaven sake!!!! Oh if you are wandering I am a female!
Comment by Truth on 19 December 2009:
Yes you are very right!!!!
Comment by elegantbc on 14 January 2010:
I think that it totally depends. First size does not matter as much when you are in love with someone. Some of my best lovers were slightly below average. But they knew this and therefore worked it…really work it. The men who have been more endowed tended to not try as hard at times. This was unacceptable and therefore we had to have a discussion. I frankly do not always enjoy huge penises, I don’t like not being able to sit for days.