Approaching a woman ‘s body is very tricky. And whenever approaching a woman, you gotta work your tongue to the fullest potential… I mean conversationally… haha gotcha!!! 
You gotta caress her sensitive spots without appearing like an opportunist. Well lemme spell out the spots for you.
A woman’s hair is one of these spots. Keep it general though. Comment on its shine. Ladies, you know we love that a lot. However stay away from giving her hairstyle tips coz if it backfires then you’ll be in deep sh**.
When you go a little lower… her breasts that is, avoid potentially offensive phrases like “Damn you got udders�… or terms like hooters, knockers etc. We women fall in love with what we hear so create your own flattery vocabulary.
When tonguing the lips, talk of the size, shape and color. And be specific to features that are unique… and add a lil reference to some celeb who has sexy lips. We love that don’t we?
And when working my booty please don’t call it a backside or rear. It sounds too old fashioned. Call it something like tush. Its sexier hon. Convince her you love it… adore it… claim it and most important, that you pay attention to it.
As for the stomach, even if she looks like a sumo wrestler, tell her you love her softer angles and curves… and watch it so you don’t sound sarcastic. 
Women are too sensitive when it comes to their pots and love handles. So if you work your tongue right, then you make her an active participant in seduction and not just a passive recipient of flattery.
And for those legs reaching the neck, say they are in good shape. You will lose lots of credibility of tell her you love ‘em and she doesn’t.
And with all that said, good luck dudes. And ladies, enjoy the flattery. Don’t make the dude dig much deeper with the tongue. Have one flattery day peeps.
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Comment by Kevin on 30 August 2007:
I just knew this was going to be steamy and then comes the shot of cold water. Tongue and body instantly drew my attention and then……nothing. We as men are not totally dumb. We know we should communicate with our lady. It’s just that some of us choose not to. I enjoy communication, but not everyone does.
Comment by Cocokisses on 31 August 2007:
kev, trust me, there are some that need direction
Some of us wish we could give men who are bad in bed a training manual. I hear it all the time…great guy…bad in bed. Then you get the rotten guys…good in bed. Give me the ones who are good guys/bad in bed…at least you can try to teach them how to make love to you.
Comment by Cocokisses on 31 August 2007:
Oh yeah…that baby licking a PIG’S SNOUT…TOTALLY GROSS!
Comment by STARTHAI on 31 August 2007:
That is gross who would let there kid do that.
Comment by naptrlbti on 2 September 2007:
Besides the pic being gross, this was a very good article.
Comment by fala on 2 September 2007:
Yeah Ria, you got me with that title.
You tease!!!!
Comment by John M.Voss on 3 September 2007:
With all previous experience, it was clear that I may NOT get some new piece of sex instruction here. As a general note there is on this site a tendency to stay painfully clear of even remotely erotic subjects. Why is that? I know you will all get angry, but I met plenty of non-whites in my life and I noticed this wish to appear CORRECT at all times, which in this instance is somewhat of an impediment…
Comment by fala on 3 September 2007:
C’est what John M. Voss?????
Comment by Damtew on 5 September 2007:
Work is nothing but kissing is plesent
Comment by fala on 5 September 2007:
Don’t think I’d let my child kiss a pig like that.
Comment by love tha tongue on 24 September 2007:
I know one thing in my 43 years of living and having sex, I have never had an orgasm while I was penetrated, so going down town is a must. I would like to experience the penetration orgasm, but if I never do, my man has got to know how to work his tongue on my body. Ya feel me.
Comment by salsera77 on 11 January 2009:
I second that emotion, LoveTha,
Ria, wrong pic for a subject relating to women and their pleasure that I feel is too ignored.
Comment by girlsixdiva on 4 May 2009:
Heyyy that pic with the pig and the baby has been circulating around the net in a joke email “how to avoid swine flu”! I wonder where that pic originated from?