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Massage Therapist looking 4 a connection.
Nickname:  certmassther
Location:  United States, New York, Chelsea
Age:  32
I am a:  Man
Looking for a:  Woman, aged 18 - 35
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship, Short Term Relationship, Friends
Eye color:  Green
Hair color:  Light Brown
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Athletic
My ethnicity is:  White / European descent
Religion:  Christian - Catholic
Education:  Some college
Smoking behavior:  Do not smoke, but ok if you do
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  Yes, not living at home
Want children:  Find Out Later
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Health
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate anywhere in the world
Starsign:  Taurus
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs, Property in the country, Cabin in the mountains, Beach house, Stilt house in the jungle, Tent in the woods, An adobe home in the desert
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion, Love designer wear, Sporty, jogging shoes and trackies
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Napping, Lunch with a friend, Catching up on household chores, Spending time with the family, Pursuing a hobby, Playing with my pet, Volunteering, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Find Out Later
When it comes to work: 
I keep a standard 40-hour work week
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
PUT THIS WARNING ON YOUR PROFILE PEOPLE. GO GOGGLE YOUR PROFILE NAME AND SEE WHY. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

First and foremost, I am a father. Single father of 2 to be exact (girl & a boy). My son was born with Spina Bifida but from playing with him and just seeing him grow you wouldn't think nothing of it. Point blank I love my kids, they are my world and my heart. I am not looking for someone to be a mother to them, they have 2, yes I said 2 mothers who are great in there own rights. Besides being a father I am a Certified Massage Therapist and run my own business, a HS track coach, personal trainer (side job). Interest include, football, basketball, Track & Field, poetry, music is a big part of my life, movies, I like to dance, bowling, read a book ect... Lol. As for the physical, I am 5'10, athletic build. Green eyes that turn hazel and a yellowish green. Curly long light brown hair. I like being different and follow the beat of my own drum. Anything else feel free to hit me up.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
BEFORE I GET TO THAT, I JUST WANT TO SAY. I AM SURE LIKE MANY OF YOU WONDERFUL WOMEN ON HERE I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THE GAMES, BULLISHH, DRAMA AND HEAD CASES. SO NOW ALL I HONESTLY WANT IS HAPPINESS. SOONER THEN LATER I HOPE MY CAREER WILL START TO GROW EVEN MORE AS MY CLIENTELE AND OPPORTUNITIES DO. AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE, I JUST WANT SOMEONE I CAN LAY DOWN WITH AT THE END OF THE NIGHT AND KNOW THEY ARE ABOUT ME. NOT THEIR EX, NOT THEIR BABY DAD OR KIDS FATHER WHICH EVER YOU PREFER. BUT SOMEONE WHO CAN TELL ME ANYTHING AND KNOW THAT I WILL DO THE SAME BECAUSE WE WONT ONLY BE BF/GF WE WILL BE BEST FRIENDS. I AND OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER HAVE RUSHED SO MANY OF MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS INTO BEING A RELATIONSHIP THAT I NEVER REALLY GOT TO KNOW THEM TOTALLY. SO THIS TIME AROUND, I WANT TO ACT AS A SPONGE AND SOAK UP AS MUCH OF HER AS I CAN SO I WILL BE ABLE TO SATISFY, SUPPORT AND BE THERE FOR HER IN EVERY WAY, SHAPE OR FORM AND VICE VERSA. SEX IS GREAT, BUT ITS OVERVALUED IN THE SENSE THAT PEOPLE ARE JUST HAVING IT TO HAVE IT TO PLEASE THE OTHER BECAUSE THEY THINK THAT'S WHAT THEY MAY WANT. FOR ME, SEX GAVE ME 2 BEAUTIFUL KIDS AND HOPEFULLY IN THE FUTURE GOD WILLING SOME MORE. BUT I WANT TO GET MORE OUT OF IT THEN JUST THE RAW OUTLINE OF WHAT SEX IS ABOUT. I WANT THE SEX THAT OVERPOWERS PEOPLE AND BRINGS THEM CLOSER IN THE RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH THERE MAYBE A LOT MORE FISH IN THE SEA, YOU FOUND THE GREATEST CATCH IN THE WORLD FOR YOU. I COULD GO ON AND ON ABOUT THIS SUBJECT AND WHAT I TRULY WANT FOR DAYS. BUT THAT'S WHAT CONVERSATIONS AND MESSAGES ARE ABOUT. WELL BACK TO THIS ON A LOWER LEVEL. LOL

Honestly people always ask what your dream girl or what are you looking for. Well obviously I haven't found her yet or I wouldn't be on here. So I don't know. I will when I find her. But I have caught some flack for not at least explaining a little bit. I have 2 bi-racial kids, doesn't mean I am not into white women I just seem to attract the black and spanish ladies a little more and the feelings mutual lol. As for looks, its hard to say I have dated from one extreme to the next. I will say I am sucker with women with curly hair. I love women with curves, yes I am a so called butt man, but hey if your not doesn't mean I wont fall in love with your smile. I am very athletic and into sports and would like someone who can understand that, dont have to be a super star just know I love to watch football on Sundays and basketball during the week in the winter-spring. Hey if you got something else for me to do, whatever it maybe I don't mind putting the remote down and spending time with ya, except during the Bears game, lol. Just like anyone else I would like honesty, good communication, sense of humor, a know how to have fun, just goof around when the situation ask for it. I know when to be serious and when not to and I would expect you to as well. But I am a big kid with 2 kids of my own, so I love kids and what they have to offer. If you have kids, that's great, I wont try to be there father, but a mentor in helping them in whatever comes there way. I honestly want more kids, so that may play a part in it as well. In my past relationships I have ran into women who felt they had to stay guarded or play the tough guy role and not open up. In doing so without knowing it at the time, they pushed me away. So being able to communicate and hold a conversation with me is a must.
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