A Man! Literally!.. Someone age appropriate. Compfortable with himself and who he is. A good sense of humor all ego problems worked out... Not sensitive to everything one says. If u are a liar don't write to me.. I find liars Boring... If you are a DOG please be a reformed DOG. Lol because I find active dogs tiring and boring. If u still love your ex wife or ex girlfriend.. Keep moving... If you live in the moment or for the moment.. U would not be for me.. In other words I am not into fatalists.. If you are a guardy dresser.. And like lots of bling... U not for me.. If you obsessed with the gym ie a bodybuilder music man door stander bar tender DJ play in a band sing in a band not for me. And if u drive truck for a living that's nice. Congrats but not for me.. U cant be tracked.. And that than falls into the boring liar box. And if u were abused as a child abandoned had a bad mother.. And have possible resulting attachment issues.. U not for me.. If you overly religious.. And I hear all day how much u love the lord.. I cant do it sorry... I ama non believer in god or gods.. I want a smart man kind man and a man that has no temper issues... Like a nice disposition.. More Labrador retriever than pitt bull.. With all that said.. The pickings are slim... And I don't have any illusions.. But who knows.. It aint over till its over...