Id rather be a type of awesome communicator and writer if you prefer... To take your notice and attention and win a place in your heart... My words to you.. The way I speak and write them would be more appetizing and appealing than to say cook up an awesome meal and win my way to your heart through your appetite/stomach... Personally I have a hunger for thoughful words and sweet kisses... You wont win your way to my heart through your awesome cooking skills... Only average is necessary!! (I like food... I dont love it... Nor want to induldge in it and gain unnecessary weight... And look around the greater world and see starving children/people... Eating too much food can cause serious health issues and packs on the pounds when you get older... If your arms are significantly bigger than mine... We wont be a good match!!)... Above average is much more necessary when it comes to spoken and unspoken words!!!... Anyways... TAKE YOUR PLACE IN MY HEART AND PAY NO RENT... OR PAY VERY HIGH RENT IF THEY DONT PASS THIS DEBT CEILING TIHNG!!!?!!.. Four more years.. And still on the fence of which party I should be aligned to!!?!!... Id rather vote for the first attractive Black woman(for the top office!!) that I see holding a large cup of COFFEE---symbolizing working smarter/not just harder... And of course her love for coffee and cream... I imagine heads would turn and roll..!! (nobody is going to read this far anyways!!) ON THE LIGHTER SIDE OF THINGS... Omg... If you want to see updated up to the minute pics or yesterday than let me know... I used to be a piece of high grade stainless steel years ago...

Now I'm just holding on to what steel I have and not doing something that would cause unnecesary athletic injuries... Everything in moderation---I have the "colorado beattiudes deep in my heart"---"live and let live" and am easy going to a degree---just dont get me talking about all our "lip-service" do nothing politicians and the like!!... Here goes a small update... I take this site seriously.. But dont get too overboard on it... I will soon be 56 and feel great for my age but at the same time I'm just trying to hold onto what I have... I'm no longer a piece of stainless steel like I was 15 years ago... If we get to talk a bit and you want a super recent pic... I can take it from my cell phone and send it---thats like one minute recent... As I know many members have years old pics up on their site(which is ok if you still look similar to it I guess)... Every day I watch the price of gold/world news.. Every day I do some type of beneficial gymn/aerobic exercise for GP... Every day I wonder why the real problems here in the states never ever ever get solved(let alone in the world)... Anyways... Almost very Athletic, easy-going, thoughtful and considerate as well as being romantic are a few of my plus -size characteristics. I am dependable, timely, and loyal too---as you should be able to tell in the "truth of my kiss!"... I can be very playful, dont have any kids, yet I like them very much. I'mprior military--and worked hard when I was in it--now I know to take things one week at time--and live life and enjoy it--and see and touch and explore all of natures beauty---my typical work week is 40 hours a week, so I usually have time stay in shape by working out---cardio and weights, yet I am an avid tennis player and golfer and frisbee finder!!--lol--- I value my good friends, my parents, good health, sound mind, and this wonderful yet sometimes "crazy" country of ours that we live in... My gentle and laid back nature will quickly give way to action if home base, home plate, or home security is put in danger---just dont like rudeness and the like... I like boardgames---I know them all--from chess to cribbage, and the ones when we were kids...

I collect some chess sets, old bibles(awesome pictures) and sometimes antique chinaware sets... I like hiking, biking, antiquing, holding your hand and feeling how close and connected we are to each other... I better stop right there---I will have to go to the store as I'm out of chocolate candy bars--with caramel---a real weakness of mine!!

---I should mention that I'm from the west coast(colorado)---and perhaps thats why I'm easy going, somewhat talkative at times(lived in the south for 7 years), communicative, not shy, etc--growing up--I was almost always the first to try something new--as long as it was really worthwhile!!---Im way past all those "growing and acceptance" stages... And I am so ready to connect, grow, and nurture a special relaionship... Still reading!!!??... Well if you drop me a line, or more likely return mine,--then you may just see how good of a romantic writer I really am---I'd rather live it instead of dreaming or writing about it---I enjoy good music and good inspirational writing and seek your good company, I will try to convince your thoughts to look and see my way--as well as yours!! Affectionately yours,,,