30-day sex fast

Posted by Ria, 30 Jun 08

Want to have better sex? Try a 30-day fast.

According to Sex therapist Ian Kerner, more satisfaction in the bedroom may sometimes entail stepping outside of it. This is in his new book ‘Sex Detox’. And the remedy he suggests to help rejuvenate your relationship is a 30-day sex fast.

The whole point is that sometimes we get in too deep it becomes toxic … you just cant start over. Come to think of it, when we want to lose weight, we go on diets; when you want to get out of credit card debt, you consider consolidation plans. So what better way to consolidating your love life than going on a sex fast?

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It’s all in the thrill of the chaste. However according to the book, this doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t end up having sex in the days that ensue – we all know the thrill of the forbidden – but then again, why should you condone some joyless, soulless sex? If you feel you deserve better, then its time to bid farewell to the sex that is bereft of the passion, intimacy, and sense of loving connection that you crave and deserve.

This shouldn’t apply to sex only. If you find yourself in the toxic kind of relationships over and over again, then you could also benefit from this program. Go on a dating detox. This could reset the relationship-results you seek. We only have one love life to live so it doesn’t matter whether you’re single, coupled, or in between relationships. Its time to live it to the fullest.

It all boils down to the two of you (if you are a couple) becoming achingly aware of NOT touching each other, of not making love, to the point that one more second of not being engrossed in wild sex makes you feel like you are reaching your elastic limit. Its all about rebuilding your libido, curiosity – that physical longing you had with one another before your first touch … your first kiss … your first Oh! Oh!

This will definitely make a man see his woman as that a mysterious, forbidden temptress, capable of igniting his deepest desires. But can you get with the program and stick with it? What if your partner doesn’t want to? Do you think sex detox is the key to a blissful love and sexual relationship?

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  1.   homesteader says:
    Posted: 02 Jan 09

    30 days is like a whole month lol

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  2. Posted: 14 Aug 08

    A guy wtih common courtesy will hold the door open for anybody (male or female) and offer to help anyone (not just women).

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  3. Posted: 10 Aug 08

    I tend to agree with RIVERFLOWING. If it's something the couple decides to do TOGETHER, it's a great thing. It's not something one person decides for the couple. But if I may modify an old addage: "Abstinance makes the heart grow fonder."

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  4. Posted: 02 Aug 08

    Im telling you what Ive always done this. So when you do engage with thats special person it's sexual bliss. I always hold out as long as possible, because one thing is that you know the other person is really into you if they stick around. The second thing the wait is the best part, because when it happens you both have been waiting so long then it does WOW!! FIREWORKS UP IN THE BEDROOM CALL 911 BED IS ON FIRE!!!! lol. good topic. Peace!

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  5.   Takeila says:
    Posted: 01 Aug 08

    When I am sexually attracted to someone and I am into deep I can't keep myself from that person. I can honestly say that I become an addict. But ONLY for the right person. It is what keeps me into the relationship

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  6.   Takeila says:
    Posted: 01 Aug 08

    When I am sexually attracted to someone and I am into deep I can't keep myself from that person. I can honestly say that I become an addict. But ONLY for the right person. So it would probably last about a week for me if that

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  7.   kenyanito says:
    Posted: 29 Jul 08

    mmmm...its enticing and i know that it can be great...For couples i think it may lead to breakage of many families concidering that sexual urge is different in sexes

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  8.   mikeuk says:
    Posted: 10 Jul 08

    l ned a women to love and hope u can sand me ur tel:number?

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  9.   EMBRACE_ME says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 08

    I read this and was shocked any one would want to go that long without sex.. I believe that if you are going without sex that long something is going to happen to your relationship. and I dont think it is healthy .. unless you just want to make your man run to another woman or if your a man you want your woman to run to another man. Lets be real about it. why do most marriages end. Because one of the 2 of went outside the marriage to have sex, why? because one of 2 things. You either aint throwin like he wants it, or 2 you aint doing what he wants you to do. Women and men need to make a pack in a relationship that you will be down for what ever your mate needs of u. That is part of givin one self to the other. Hell if i had a man , It be like a trip around the world lol... none stop .. lol.. no coffee breaks no bath room breaks ,, lol.. ok im going to be serious.. women and men just love one another with all that you are and the sex thing will come natural you dont need no dayum book to tell you to take a break from sex.. sex is something 2 people share to bond them closer.. Its just a matter how close your ass wants to get lol..

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  10. Posted: 03 Jul 08

    Easier said than done - guess a knitting class may help pass the time.

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  11.   jamiesmama says:
    Posted: 03 Jul 08

    Interesting points - would probably last 5 days.

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  12.   Member says:
    Posted: 03 Jul 08

    I think this could be kinda hot. I am tingling with anticipation and I am not even a part of a couple. :)

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