Bar comfort zone
It’s another Friday… and there he does it again… visiting his comfort zone.
“My boyfriend goes to his local pub every Friday night. Well that isn’t really true… He goes on Mondays, Wednesdays, Friday nights and Sunday afternoons. And I almost forgot… whenever there is a football game!" Does this sound familiar?
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When you start going out a guy, you naturally want to spend every waking moment with him, plus … which means spending lots of time in his favorite watering hole. And before you know it, you have sentenced yourself into a connoisseur of bar behavior. But suddenly, he stops tagging you along. And then you end up spending almost every evening on your own. And the only time you get to spend with him, he is thoroughly hangovered. :roll:
As much as you may not moan or nag him about this incomprehensible behavior, just like an inbox, there comes a point when you reach your limit. The boys’ nights suddenly get to you. What fascinates me is that there seems to be a magnetic pull to such places; which if you ask me, is ok for 22 year old who doesn’t give a hoot and is not in a meaningful relationship. But for those in relationships, when do they get to spend time with their women?
Being a woman that loves ice cream, I finally understood the “comfort zone᾿ attraction. But once in a while, I do coffee. Life without variance is like a sentence without punctuation… its flat. Is an occasional comma too much to ask? Do men risk being labeled “whipped᾿ when they take a pause from the brawling bar behavior or have you tag along like you used to? Doesn’t the monotony of going to the same place, hanging out with the same people, looking at the same waitresses bore the sh** out of men?
Sometimes women also want to be “one of the boys᾿. Coz then I’d know that he really values my company. So if a man only gives you 2 days a week (when he has a hangover), what will stop a woman from having a girls night out and hang out with men who shower her with attention… men on a boys night out? ;-)
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