Cheating and a pickup truck..

Posted by Ria, 22 Dec 06

Carrie Underwood - Before he cheats.

Why oh why this song haven’t been out a couple of years ago? My then ex would have ended up with a pickup truck less. But again I was always not very imaginative with these things hehehe.

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

Cheating generally means that you are not fully satisfied with your current partner or you feel that something is missing in the relationship. If you were completely in love and happy within your relationship, then why would you jeopardize all that you have for a five-minute fling with the girl next door?

When men cheat, it basically means that they are looking for something their girlfriend or wife is not providing. Often times, it comes down to sex. As DeNiro said in analyze this “I᾿ , “Are you &@7#! kidding me? I couldn’t do that with my wife she’s kissing my kids with that mouth᾿ ;)

But of course women cheat as well..

Perhaps it is due to the fact that they miss something as well, something that is often calling them so strong that they cant ignore and so they cross the line. But bottom line is..

That cheating is disrespectful towards the person you've cheated on, but at the very least, it has two beneficial aspects to it.

First, that you'll realize your mistake and appreciate your lover a lot more after the horrible deed. The second is that cheating can help you realize your misery within your current relationship, and will likely give you that necessary shove to move on and stop wasting both your lover's and your own time.

What you think y’all, have you been burned? Would you forgive?

~Ria

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  1.   Frank54 says:
    Posted: 16 Jul 10

    Ria, You bring out good points about infidelity. I am guilty, so I understand both the pros and cons. Why do men cheat? The textbook answer is that we're hunters and are not totally satisfied when out of the hunt, for long. In my particular case, I think that it was a combination of physical and emotional needs that aren't satisfied - probably more emotional. As for unconditional forgiveness. If you receive it, you must give it in return. The fact of the matter is that in cases of infidelity, both partners share at least some of the blame. This will sound corney, but I believe that the root cause is usually poor communication between them. When your partner tells you something, you need to be listening and responding.

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  2.   homesteader says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 09

    How many members here will die with Only One sexual partner / Their Whole Life ? Pure as fallen snow before Acid rain and Polution . My father would say " You don't eat the yellow snow " Hehe , Just pull my finger - Fart LOL . HE WAS A GOOD MAN and taught me many jokes about the wood pile out behind the barn .

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  3.   homesteader says:
    Posted: 13 Nov 09

    Foreplay ; As scene by a Truckdriver . Get in the Truck .

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  4.   knina says:
    Posted: 27 Dec 06

    Ria, nice of you to remind me of Analyse this. Anyway back to the matters at hand; I agree with you on the benefits of cheating. Most of my pals have donethat and trust me that is so true. However as much as there are those benefits, I dont think I have it in me to forgive a man for cheating on me. Even if I had a stroke and couldnt perform my marital duties - sex that is - I still dont expect him to cheat. That reminds me of my cousin who ran away from her husband coz he cheated on him. My uncle forced her to go back to her husband and make her mariage work. Should it be like this really?

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  5.   numanumaeh says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 06

    Would I forgive??? I never can never will. If I aint good enough for you then why cheat. Its easier if someone just dumps you other than cheating. A good relationship is one where you take people with their flaws and work on your differences so eventually you get to be in sync. So if you cant live with who I am SHOOT. Benefits or no benefit I catch you cheating You FORGET ME!!!!

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  6.   keeweeblck says:
    Posted: 26 Dec 06

    Ria I totally agree with you on the beneficial aspects of cheating especially when it comes to women. However when it comes to men is a totally different story. Some men just do it because they like to... Some look for the 10% that is missing in their women? Question is, is it really worth it... risking a whole 90% for just some 10%? Well we all look for that 10% in when cheating. Been there... done that. It aint worth it. I realized afterwords that the 10% was just it ... 10%. And I lost the 90% just like that when I could have worked on getting the 90% to 95 or someething.

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