Dating-what constitutes cheating?
Dating and cheating are two words that can’t be separated when it comes to relationship issues. ‘What constitutes cheating’ is an age-old question that can make or break a relationship. Where do we draw the line?
Would you consider sex with a prostitute as cheating? Some guys don’t simply because there are no emotions involved. Unbe-fucking-lievable :roll: . How about that fantasy about Beyonce or Taye Diggs for the case of women? For some people, cheating is a black-and-white issue but there exists a lot of that gray area for most of us. So where do we draw the line? Do we draw the line at that harmless flirt with an online buddy or workmate, a kiss, or the banging itself?
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All these may be grounds for breakup depending on who you are dealing with. And we all have those free passes at work, in our fantasy worlds and what may seem harmless to the relationship could get your freaking ass dumped.
When our relationships deviate from the fairy tale plot we have for them, it’s rather human to entertain the sweet-nothings from some other guy or chic. And these harmless things could create trust issues which may further ruin the relationship. Plus question is how far will you take these sweet nothings? And your spouse ever found out, how would they react?
I think the best thing to do is to discuss the cheating boundaries… the rules of distraction, coz no matter how you define it, it’s disrespectful and no matter how someone else justifies it, if in your view an action is cheating, then it’s unjustifiable. So set boundaries in your relationship based on how both of you define it and work with that.
Am not much of an advice giver but I guess that should do it. Good luck ;)
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