Everything was "perfect". How did I lose her?
Just when things seem perfect, when she seems like she is sooo into you, most men in long-term relationships find themselves single… having no clue of what might have gone wrong. Let’s face it: The dating world has become so competitive to the extent that a minor fault on your part lands the next guy on the waiting list your spot. And in some cases, the woman gets married less than six months down the line.
So what really went wrong?
Maybe you took too long to move to the next level. Much as you may be comfortable in the dating zone, if you don’t seal the deal, she will find a man who is willing to make that lifetime commitment. A man needs to be there for his woman, make her feel like she is No. 1 and most of all, declare to her openly that she wants to be with her for life. If you drag the dating phase for too long and she starts feeling like the relationship is going nowhere, she will shop around, meet better men who are more willing to take that leap, find fault in you and before long, out you go and in comes the next guy who walks her down the aisle like yesterday!
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Other times, it may just be some falling out over some fixable issue. You have no idea how many issue-free men there are out there… who are always wondering what she is doing with such a drama-filled man. So every time you two have a fight, most modern women of today will always have this guy who offers her a shoulder to cry on … making her see how you aint treating her right… how she deserves better. And no matter how much she loves you, sooner or later, she will get fed up and leave. Whatever issues you’ve been having, FIX THEM! And if you ever cheated on her and she gave you the second chance, treat it as your LAST CHANCE! One slip and she is gone!
Yeah, your four-year girlfriend is not like that. Yeah your girlfriend loves you too much ever leave… her life is centered around you. You think? Well those many men who got dumped after years of long-term dating disagree. Your woman will only continue to be yours if you play your cards right. The moment she starts feeling short-changed, YOU ARE SOOO OUT!
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