Good guys not interested?
“Could be you’re a Frog Farmer. You turn princes into frogs.” - Relationship expert Chris Hart
In a recent post - "Before you ask him to propose…" - a happy marriage starts with choosing the right guy. But what if the good guys never seem interested?
So many single, educated women usually find themselves in this predicament. They are ready to get married; they are looking for the right guy but for some reason, the men who seem right just don’t take you seriously. They start out as the best thing that ever walked the earth then for some unknown reason, turn into frogs – unromantic, neglectful, unfaithful SoBs. Could it be you are oozing the wrong vibe? Are you a Frog Farmer?
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Chris Hart says this about ladies who are Frog farmers:
"Frog farmers like keeping men off balance. But good men don’t play games.
No control over your emotions? Nothing more scary to a good man.
You dress like a stripper? To a prince, you are what you wear.
You’re way too needy? When a man’s looking for a wife, he wants to know HIS needs matter to you too. You don’t really care? He’ll soon turn into a frog.
You’re his worst critic? Good men know all their failings and don’t need reminding. You get the best out of a good man by praising his virtues. Endlessly banging on about his vices will turn him right off. Same if you’re judgmental. If he feels you’re analysing everything he says, you’ll never really be close.
You know the club scene better than politics, religion or money? Only frogs go clubbing. Real men want a wife who can manage a home, help with his business and raise the kids.
You’re still seething over an ex? Your new guy doesn’t want to hear about it. Women who can’t say a kind word about men lose them, fast. Ditto if you’ve been in a divorce battle or get violent with a spouse. Or you’re all about yourself, ‘don’t need him,’ or expect your views to always win out over his. Or you constantly let him know what your ‘girl friends’ think he should be doing for you.
Maybe you get intimate too easily? When men date there are only two possibilities on their minds. Sex or marriage. One or the other. It’s obvious really. Men don’t want a wife who’s an easy lay.
Your Facebook page is a cry for male attention? That doesn’t exactly say ‘Your Mum will love me!’ Princes also lose interest if you have lots of male ‘friends.’ Just like women distrust men with too many female friends, men feel the same way about all those guys.
Beautiful hair, beautiful nails, but no money? You’re a ‘model, ‘singer’ or ‘beautician?’ Not unless you’re earning steady money you’re not. It all screams gold-digger. You never buy your own drinks? Sure, a good man will always pick up the tab. But buy him something from time to time, just so he knows you don’t only see him as a source of income."
In order to keep a good guy good, all you need to do is understand his needs. Apparently, good men have simple needs. But if you are selfish and make the relationship about your needs... "Croak Croak"
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