He was once obese. Now leaner, he doesn’t want to date “fat”
After being married for 30 blissful years, widowed at 51 and shedding 135 pounds in the process, this once obese 54 year old man is now ready to try his hand into online dating and dating in general. But there is a hitch…
Majority of the women who seem to be interested in him are women the size he used to be! And he is not feeling them one bit. He says,“My profile is very specific about my eating and exercise habits. I always answer any response I get, and I am always polite and try and let these women know that I am not interested in dating a large woman. I have lived that lifestyle and do not want to go back to it. I get back a lot of hateful and abusive responses! I know that we should each look to the person inside, but if there is no initial attraction there is no initial attraction."
See, 33 years ago, there was a woman who accepted this man for who he was – obese and all. But now that he’s literally got his a** in gear, he doesn’t want to date large women? Does he feel he is better than them... above them or something? I may sound petty right now but I think he deserves every hateful response coming his way.
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How come, most people who lose weight, suddenly feel "fat" aint good enough for them - forgetting they were once there? Does his change in lifestyle necessarily have to mean a change in his dating preference too?
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