Is a cocky and funny attitude necessary?
Being in the dating field has made people learn techniques that make them more attractive to the opposite sex just so they can play the field… stay in the game! So what do you do when you meet this person who was previously “out of your league᾿?
Sometimes most people feel like they need to portray a certain image to score. It’s a trend in not only men but women alike. But does a guy always have to be cocky and funny to score when he meets a woman he wants to make his girlfriend … a woman who is “out of his league᾿ so to speak?
Most men feel being themselves to mean being the type of guy that women don’t feel any attraction for hence resorting to the cocky and funny act. But once he gets the girl and start getting closer, the guy begins to put aside the things that “worked᾿ to get the girl attracted to him in the first place… which of course leads to the dumping
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So is it ok to just relax a bit? Yes it is. But one thing I read the other day is that “Being yourself is a privilege that you have to earn, not a right.᾿ I don’t know if it makes any sense to you. But as per the article, you earn it by learning what it takes to make women feel the attraction … learning not to drive them away then turn these things into being part of yourself. Coz if you are not ready and willing to learn these things and make the changes more or less permanent (as opposed to being cocky and funny just for show), then maintaining a relationship you have worked so hard to get into will be a problem.
People get attracted to others for a reason. So if the reason was being cocky and funny, dude, you gotta pull that act for the rest of your life coz if you stop that “reason᾿, then you are going to stop the “attraction.᾿
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