Is bedroom etiquette necessary?
Ever woken up next to someone and all you could let out was an “oops᾿? Well I am sure most of us have heard lots of jaw-dropping bad bedroom behavior tales over the years. Imagine waking up to someone telling you they have herpes after you have slept with them. :roll:
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Much as we are in the 21st century, there are some people who are pretty uncivilized when it comes to sex hence the need to slap some sex etiquette into them. But do we really need this?
Some may argue that the bedroom is one place where you shouldn’t mind your Ps and Qs. However sex requires principles of conduct too… just like having tea with some high and mighty Queen. You may argue that principles may spoil the enjoyment; but no one says that rules in chess spoil the enjoyment – they simply help you play well with others.
In the same way, sex etiquette is there to ensure both parties get screwed without necessarily getting screwed over.
One lady could never get her boyfriend to react to her insults until she sang “It’s a small world in your pants᾿!!!!! Now how does one get herself out of this one? Such comments about the size of you know what or shrinking boobies make the other person feel like they are incapacitated in some way. No one likes being criticized about sex. So if a move he or she is pulling on you doesn’t rock your boat, choose your words carefully.
However, much there is need for etiquette in the bedroom, a little Neanderthal behavior is often welcome. Like they say, rules are made to be broken. If a gentleman was gentle at all times and a lady a lady, then we would never hear of oral sex, now would we? Kinky stuff like light bondage or some dirty talk requires one to loosen up a little to the rude and naughty side.
The idea that monogamy = end of throw-me-against-the-wall sex, or some quickie in the pub restroom is an old and tired myth. Much as we want to employ good manners in the bedroom, let’s not be too uptight and stifle a supposed-to-be vigorous sex life.
What are your views on sex etiquette? Does it make or break one’s sex life?
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