Is it O.K. to be intrigued by interracial couples?

Posted by Ria, 08 Jul 13

Most of us in interracial relationships HATE the stares. I guess it’s because half the time they are stares of disgust; I guess it’s because sometimes the stares scream “traitor to your race.” But what if the stares are for a different reason?

What if I stare because I am happy for you? What if I stare at you because 40 years ago, interracial couples couldn’t be as free as you can be now? What if I stare because I am mixed race and I am happy that you will multiply and I will get to see “more of me” in the future? What if I stare because I admire and acknowledge your choice and decision to date who you want despite what society might think?

Your perfect partner could be online right now...

What are you looking for?

As Durrow puts it: "It’s O.K. to be intrigued" I guess and I am sorry if my stares may have offended some interracial couples. Being colorblind doesn’t mean that you pretend not to see interracial couples for fear of them getting offended. Sometimes, I think acknowledging them means acknowledging the fact that there are more such unions coming up. I think its O.K. to stare, extend a smile if you may.

It’s O.K. to be intrigued. And before you get offended that someone stared at you and your interracial love, think about it: They could be staring because they’re rooting for your colorful love. For me, that’s my reason for the stares.

Your thoughts?

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  1.   dave_74 says:
    Posted: 08 Jul 13

    I think it is OK to be intrigued, extend a smile, even start up a conversation with me to show your good intentions of your intrigue. That is no problem. But to stare? Hmm, glancing and staring are different things. Staring, I find that very rude. (Plus it could be dangerous, I've seen people walk into signs and tripping into potholes due to their staring.....LOL)

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