Ladies... DO NOT commit these 7 offenses this Valentine's day...
Yes. Its almost here. The most awaited day of love… Valentine’s day!!! The gifts... Men carrying red roses to take to their women… Women eagerly expecting those red roses… Women in red… And if you are making your reservations now, you probably are used to the phrase “Sorry, but we are fully booked!”
The thing with Valentine’s day is that some people overdo things making the day of love a complete disaster. And we women have been know to make too much of a fuss and yes, some of us are guilty of turning this day into a disaster.
To save us from ourselves, Patrick Bradley decided to write an article to make sure we don’t make the most common Valentines mistakes that have always screwed up valentines day… a day that should end up with you and your beau sc**wing.
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1. DO NOT compare your dude to any other man…
… especially not your ex! When your man does something for you on Valentine’s day, no matter how minute it is, acknowledge it because when men do things for us on Valentine’s, they really are going out of their way. So if your ex outsmarted him in any way, don’t mention it… Be glad he made the effort.
Do not ruin the day by making your boyfriend feel less of a man.
2. Do not torture your man with lingerie shopping…
… because men do not want to go lingerie shopping. As Bradley puts it: "We don’t need to bump into half-naked mannequins and it’s uncomfortable seeing 13-year-old girls and 65-year-old women shopping there, all of whom are either leering at us like we’re creeps or giggling at us under their breath."
So please… do not torture the poor man. Let the super sexy lingerie be your surprise gift for him… on you or off ;-).
3. DO NOT give him a card…
...??? Really? Well, apparently men do not care for cards as much as we women do. And even if he accepts the card with gladness, he probably wont keep it. So if you don’t see the card you gave him plastered somewhere in house, don’t take it to mean that he doesn’t care for you… he just doesn’t care for the card.
Don’t make it a thing. It will ruin the day.
4. DO NOT buy him flowers…
… he wants nothing to do with them. Word of advice from Bradley: “We’re going to forget to put them in water and sunlight and we’ll kill them and get in trouble.” Just like the card thing...
5. DO NOT mention the hot movie stars on your dream “to bang” list
… just this one day in a year, tell him he is the most attractive man on earth - 6 packed or not. Apparently, when you tell him how hot and sexy he is, it goes right to his head… (or heads ;-)) All men like knowing the women in their lives are attracted to them. “Plus, a little confidence boost heading into the bedroom never hurt anyone’s performance,” says Bradley.
So this year, spare the man’s ego and feelings by NOT mentioning Ryan Gosling, Channing Tatum or suggesting the two of you watch any movie where they go topless.
6. DO NOT leave your man plan-less...
… and spend the day with your girls. Do not use comforting and being there for your single girlfriends as an excuse for not making Valentines plans with your dude. “If your girlfriends are really going to be mad at you for going out with your sweetie on Valentine’s Day, they aren’t very good friends to begin with and your life would be so much less dramatic without them,” Bradley mentions. “So don’t leave us hanging last minute because Laura needs a new gallon of Cherry Garcia Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream and someone to eat it with.... If you have a significant other, celebrate it!”
7. DO NOT get mad when a man asks what he should get you…
… because he wants to give you his best on this day you hold so dear. All it means is, he cares enough to ask because he wants the day to be perfect… he doesn’t want to guess and maybe screw things up because he didn’t get what you were hoping for. Bradley says: “… if we’re asking you to choose, it’s not because we’re slacking, it’s because we know how much Valentine’s Day means to you and we want it to be as good as it can possibly be, so your insight is important."
Happy Valentines Day!!! Wishing you and your special other nothing but a day of MAGNIFICENCE filled with LOVE…
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