According to Hallmark Research, 192 million Valentine’s Day cards are exchanged every year, making it the second-most greeting card giving occasion (behind Christmas). Not to knock tradition, but, if you are still ONLY doing cards and flowers, you should know that “we’ve come a long way baby”. Here are some sure fire ways to get the attention of that potential love interest.
It’s the month of love and don’t let the fact that “you’re still single”, keep you from enjoying every SINGLE day! It may take two to tangle, but, there are a lot of other dances out there that you can do.
The following is a couple of lists that I’ve created from things done and things on my “to-do” list. Feel free to incorporate your own take on all or a few of them. The biggest misconception out there is that guys don’t like to be pampered. Who doesn’t enjoy feeling special? Leticia is challenging all my ladies out there to be creative and ultra romantic with that someone special…even if it’s just you right now! Who better to reap the rewards of your love and affection? And what better way to practice treating someone else to a special day, night, month, year or lifetime.
Couples list…
- Take the day off & spend it in bed
- Hand pick and arrange a bouquet of flowers &/or roses.
- Have a scavenger hunt in the house with the big prize in the tub or on the bed.
- Make a card yourself by hand or…
- Create a book of how you met with your own happy ending or keep adding to it each year.
- Buy a matching set of lingerie/briefs
- Write them a love letter (five pages or more).
- Decorate the house especially for your sweetie on Valentine’s Day.
- Prepare their favorite foods & FEED each other by hand.
- KEY 2 my heart to also be used as a get out of the dog house free key…
- Head to toe pampering wash hair, give sensuous massage, give manicure & pedicure
- Read out romantic/erotic poetry to your Valentine
- tart a new savings account earmarked for “that romantic getaway to…”
- Have video game competition naked with homemade “fun” prizes
Singles list…
- Take the day off and spend it in bed with your favorite book, movie or toy?
- Buy yourself a card & flowers ‘cause who loves you more than you right?
- Treat yourself to day at the spa (massage, manicure & pedicure).
- Buy yourself something sexy and wear it
- Write down your ideal of a perfect mate and put it in a frame to replace with a picture when you find them
- Make a list of all the people that you love (platonic or not), then call and tell them.
- Call other single friends and do something as a group
Personally, I have to tell you that I don’t wait for or need one “designated” day to give or receive love. I prefer lots of random days throughout the year. However, I think of Valentine’s Day like eating dinner. You got to cook every day…but, some days you just gotta “put your foot in it”!!
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Everyday should be Valentines day just like those of us who attend church once a week and raise hell the other six days. We ought to express our love always.
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AHHH THE DAY OF LOVE.
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i hope everybody has a great valentines day.
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That’s why folks are on this site…to find someone who makes them feel like every day is Valentine’s Day! The best of luck to you all in your search!
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I hope one day to find my true valentine.
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Happy Valentine s Day to everyone who celebrates it and to those who dont.
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Interesting article!! Thank you
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well another valentines has came and gone.
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We had over a foot of snow and everything was closed. The nice thing is that the day after they still had Valentine’s things in the store that were discounted, and I still got to enjoy a GREAT belated Valentines Day!
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this was a great article
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Cocokisses thanks to the snow they still had half price valentines candy when I went to the grocery store Saturday. You cant beat chocolate.
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Valentines day is great if you you love chocolate.
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Valentine day is ok but Hallmark..lol. I wouldnt buy that.
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WHO’S THE GIRL HOLDING THE BALLOON ?.
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I want a balloon!!!
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Fala, the bad news is that I am diabetic and can’t eat all the sweets so much. The good news is that even at half price, I don’t need the calories! I was tempted, but didn’t do it
Gotta look good this spring so I can put new pictures on the site 
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Chocolate is the best Valentine\’s treat!
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yup–chocolate is great…valentines has come and past…and chocolate is great!!!!>….maybe next year my box wont be mostly full come the following morning…!!!
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If the theme in Valentines day is to show someone you love her/him then every day is a Valentine’s day!
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chocoalte the way to my heart and thighs.
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I want it to be valentines day everyday.
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If I was alone, I’d buy myself roses, some sugar free chocolate or candy, a nice bottle of wine, and be thankful for all the guys I have loved and lost, and look forward to finding the one I’ll spend my days and nights with in the future. Even when you are alone, you can still pamper yourself! After all, don’t you deserve it?
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You re better than me Cocokisses.
I can t say no to chocolate!
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ill watch your thighs for you sweetnes.lol
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Sure u deserve it and more cocokisses…love is never lost it just keeps on going and finds another to share with.What is learned from love is never forgotten and it’s taste is ever sweet as the wine from your cocolips.
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very well put dwight.
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thanks unme, i will keep that in mind…lol
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i must say, these comments are so funny, i love to read them.
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you got it sweetnes, u sweet thing.
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i totaly agree with you nicefella. i get a kick out of them to.
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YOU GUYS ARE TO FUNNY.
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Yeah, sometimes the comments are more entertaining and informative than the articles.
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funny is sweet…grumpy is bitter…when Fala sees chocolate…her eyes do glitter.
Coco…chocolate will surely put you to a test… concerned with your diet try sugerless.
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i didnt know you were a poet pleasure
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I have been accused of many things UNME23 but a poet I have yet to be.
God save poetry!
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i think every couple should apply this to spice up in their relationship. for me , i develop more feelings to a guy who makes more effort
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good idea syrks.
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see pleasure, your a poet and you didnt even know it.
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I guess I need to spend the day with myself
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