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Men don't cheat. Staying after being cheated on doesn't make you loyal.

Posted by James, 20 Mar

"… a man knows if he cheats, he would be not only cheating on a good woman, he would be cheating himself out of allowing a loyal woman to help mold him into a king." - Kevin Hart.

"Can you tell me why all men cheat on loyal Women?"

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This was the question a young lady posed to Kevin Hart during a Public Speaking event. And his response was mind blowing:

"Males cheat on loyal women to boost their ego. A woman can be perfect for him. Beautiful, career minded, own money, cooks, does whatever he wants her to do in bed, loyal, intelligent, educated, faithful and yet, he will still cheat on her with an ugly, kangaroo looking girl every time."

What saddens me most is that every time a male cheats on his woman, it makes the woman question herself, wonder whether she is good enough for him, wonder whether there is something she aint doing, wonder whether she needs to do more. But according to Hart, the truth that most women don’t know is:

"How a male treats a woman is NOT a reflection of HER worth. Nor is it a reflection on anything she LACKS or is not doing. An overly macho, mentally weak, sensitive-minded male knows he does not DESERVE a strong minded woman. In his mind, he thinks one day she will mentally awaken to the realization she deserves better than him & leave him. This is why males cheat on a woman, to have POWER over her. He cheats on her to boost his ego."

The thing is, MEN don’t cheat on their women. Most MALES do. And Hart made this distinction clearly during his public speak where he addressed 300 women. See, most MALES are more insecure in their relationships than their women; they have low self esteem. So they cheat on good women so that they can feel that they have power over them… make them feel they are more worthy… crush a great woman's ego thinking this will make her care more about him.

MEN on the other hand want a strong minded woman, a woman who will speak her mind. So when a loyal woman meets an insecure MALE who cheats on her, and makes the decision to stay just to prove to him that she is better than his other women, that doesn't prove that she is a "LOYAL" woman. It only proves that she is a "WEAK" woman... as weak as the MALE intended to make her when he cheated. All she is doing is submitting to the MALE'S immature mindset. At this point, the MALE has succeeded in tricking a once loyal woman into settling for his crap.

These games never work on loyal women because they know their worth. Cheat on a loyal woman who knows her worth and you are out of her life for good because she knows she DESERVES a MAN, not some immature, game playing manipulative MALE who brings her down to his immature level every chance he gets.

MEN DON'T CHEAT!!

Hart's argument:

"Many people argue men cheat, because his woman will not do what his women on the side will, but he would never even consider the option of having women on the side if he deserved her in the first place. Some men are genuinely not ready for a relationship. To force one with him is only creating a relationship death wish. The idea that men are incapable of being monogamous is false."

LOYAL WOMEN DON'T STAY!!

Here is what Hart CANDIDLY had to say about the loyal woman:

"A Loyal Woman will be loyal to your MANHOOD, not loyal to your EGO. A Loyal Woman will tell us the TRUTH, even if that means she might LOSE us. A Loyal Woman will tell us when our sh**stinks, even if it makes us mad. A mentally mature man does not want a YES woman. Trust me. We don’t want a girl who will LET us hurt you and abuse you over & over & still accept us back, simply because you keep being told through Instagram Memes that real love must be suffered through and fought for. If she still stays with us after we prove to her time and time again that we genuinely aren’t strong enough as a man to keep her consistently happy in a relationship, it means she doesn’t really care about us as a man. She only cares about how we make her feel sexually. She is di**dizzy."

So to all cheating MALES out there playing mind games to bring women down, all you are doing is cheating yourselves out of being molded by a loyal woman into being KING. When you get a good strong woman, just give her attention and stop running around getting underneath the skirts of other women. Hart's sister said no man deserves her attention if he doesn't give her "consistent attention". And to this he concludes: "You may think that is a lot to ask but remember, in order to posses a treasure, one must in return give up what the treasure is WORTH. Loyalty."

Are you a MAN or just some MALE? Are you a LOYAL woman or just a WEAK one? Do you agree with Hart. I must say this article made me look back at my life and honestly, I aint half the man I am supposed to be.

Read "Why All Men Cheat on Loyal Women" and get more of Kevin Hart on the topic.

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18 responses to "Men don't cheat. Staying after being cheated on doesn't make you loyal."

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  1.   Rockstar24-7 says:
    Posted: 14 Jul 14

    I love this article

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  2.   bassman1970 says:
    Posted: 24 Jun 14

    women do the exact same thing, not just only the men , m always loyal when im in a relationsship but in the end i somehow always end up being cheated on .so it works both ways , not just a 1 way

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  3.   evedelyn says:
    Posted: 17 Jun 14

    awesome

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  4.   nicolle1975 says:
    Posted: 15 Jun 14

    I can't say if there's any truth to the article. I do know however first hand that you can do any and everything for a person, be there through it all and the other person will still cheat. You can't force them to be faithful. You either choose to put up with it or not. But I think when a person blames their cheating on lack of what they feel they're missing is a cop out. Instead of looking for it elsewhere, discuss your needs with that person.

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  5.   jewels01 says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 14

    Man..everyone is buggin, see the article for what it trying to say before flipping it and becoming defensive. No is denying times have changed and women step off to the side just as quickly as men do, but I think the perpetuation of accepting the norm of men cheating and girls being wifey, ride or die is accepting this behavior thus the cycle of worth becomes questionable...to both involved...

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  6.   TonyNY67 says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 14

    This entire rationale by Kevin Hart is WRONG. Men cheat because they like to experience different women. They like diversity. They are attracted to different women and they want to have them. It has nothing to do with weak minds, egos, or any of the other psychological babble in Hart's diatribe. It also has nothing to do with the woman they are with, so she should not feel she is inadequate at all.

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  7.   MrRight4u2 says:
    Posted: 30 May 14

    its common sense that women would and could cheat more then men simply because of the availability. in other words females could simply walk outside their door and get sex from the next male that passes....can males do that?...hhmm

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  8.   1comfortzone says:
    Posted: 27 May 14

    Garbage, everyone is entitled to their opinion however let's not take a comedian as the Supreme authority. Like many people have suggested here women are big and probably bigger cheaters then men they are just 10 times smarter than men at concealing their misdeeds.

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  9.   NikkiRox says:
    Posted: 20 May 14

    Why all the negative comments? There is a lot of truth in this article whether you choose to believe it or not. Not all men Cheat. I truly believe boys cheat and men confront the problem. Some men think women are commodities and they know there are more women on the planet regardless of race than men so they take full advantage of it. But not all men do that. I think a self respecting man would think twice about cheating. I do agree sometimes people cheat because their needs are not being met. But like I said a child doesn't communicate that and a mature person will.

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  10.   cakelady1 says:
    Posted: 03 May 14

    I am so sick and tired of these crazy articles that puts labels on men or women. Let's just face it a man or woman who is not committed or feels their needs aren't be met will cheat. These articles aren't informing us of anything positive. I wish they would have articles that are thought provoking because most are feeding into the stereotype. "Do Black men hate Black women? Do Black women hate Black men"? These kind of articles just perpetuate what a few many think. Interracial couples are far more intelligent than these articles give us credit for.

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  11.   APhotoGuy says:
    Posted: 23 Apr 14

    Ya this is BS... Latest survey stats show women cheat more often then men, but men come clean about it more often, while women tend to hold it a secret.

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    • Mesweetpea1 says:
      Posted: 11 May 14

      I would like to know the origin of the latest survey stats who mentioned.

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  12.   cacacoco says:
    Posted: 22 Apr 14

    This article is a joke. Women cheat just as much as men, if not more. Women are just a bit more clever at disguising it.

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  13.   xXmen1 says:
    Posted: 13 Apr 14

    Hi Jane you seem to think all men cheat loyal woman.what an extreme view.It a wrong thing to do.loyalty is a good thing.

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  14.   DulceLuv says:
    Posted: 29 Mar 14

    This wasnt a quote from Kevin Hart, it is from a blogger by the name of Ebrahim Aseem. If you click on the link in the article it will take you to the full blog. Im not sure how Kevin Hart's name got attached to this...

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    • Bachelor.007 says:
      Posted: 17 Apr 14

      surprise, surprise. thanks to DulceLuv. That's why bloggers are not journalists, yet those with an agenda freely quote from such. So, since this article implies that most men cheat, and that most women do not cheat, what's the message? I find this article condescending towards men, and portrays woman as eternal victim. Come on!

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      • Ngab says:
        Posted: 26 May 14

        I am surprise with you comments Bachelor.007.I would like to believe that you are one of the most loyal men in the world.Lucky is the woman who owns your heart and rarely we can meet and find a man like you.

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