Vanishing men - Keepers or Losers?
"Dude just disappeared on me… He never even texts. Is he not interested in me? Was it all about the sex?"
Mysterious men! One minute he is killing you with the endless, freaky text messages… Blip! And it all disappears. Many women have fallen for these grand opening theatrics that lure them and get them sucked into those drugging conversations… that kiss… that… And before you know it, you have become a junky for him.
So why the disappearing act?
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Men fear such overwhelming relationships because they are afraid of rejection just like women. Problem is they beat women to the pushing-you-away games almost all the time. Here are some explanations:
Some men are just cowards. The moment they smell a conflict brewing, they either pull away by restricting communication to emails and text messages or just disappear. Others just have the grass-is-greener mentality. He just has a hard time making up his mind… constantly trying to see if he can do better than you. Then there are those who – much as they have a dream of having a perfect marriage and all – just slack. A dude who never finished his college degree, never finished ... He just never gets to the finish line. Yes he was engaging and all but in his life, he has never seen anything to the end.
These are just but some of the reasons men disappear. The thing is, some usually come back after a while. So what should one do? Give him time and hope he grows up someday or dump his a** as soon as he pulls a disappearing act?