Wife dating online: Reason for divorce?
They have been married for 6 years and a year after their second one was born, Jared stumbled across his wife’s profile on a dating site, which she had accidentally left open on the laptop. And his loving, 'faithful' wife was in contact with men who only want a quick and intimate fling.
The thing is: The sex had been great until after the kids… especially the second one. Jared being the gentleman figured maybe it was something hormonal coz she was the one who was never interested. Things between them have been great… perfect if you may; great friends who hang out together, blah blah – except for the lack of interest in sex on her part.
The two have always shared some great level of trust to the extent that Jared really feels violated. He never in a million years would have suspected her wife to be that kind of woman. So when he decided to confront her, she didn't deny it. In fact she admitted that she had been doing it for the past four months but it was something harmless – that she never intended to actually sleep with the men she had been having erotic conversations with.
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There is betrayal of trust and to be honest, Jared doesn’t know whether to believe her story or not. She is a good mother, wife and his long-term friend. And she has promised not to do it again but the trust is lost. See, Jared feels bad because her lack of interest in sex and online dating clearly shows she has a problem with him and not other men… there is something she is looking for in those other men. Jared is now contemplating leaving her wife but he doesn’t want the kids to be raised in a broken home… and remarrying has been something he has never wanted to do because he thought she was IT!
Do you think this is a deal breaker? Should he stick it out and try and re-build the trust or just divorce her? Remember, besides the broken trust, there is still the issue of their sex life. Can they really work it out if he was to try?
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