Your first weekend away together: Tips to plan an awesome getaway
Going on your first getaway as a new couple is an exciting and important milestone in a relationship. By planning ahead, you hope to squeeze in plenty of play and romance. Consider these tips to ensure your weekend getaway is flirty and fun:
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Decide on a Destination
One of you might be the natural planner in your relationship, but have a discussion with your lady love or new beau about places you might like to visit. Do you prefer outdoor adventure with hiking and water activities or are you looking for a relaxing time in your hotel with room service? Compose a list of places you want to go and then brainstorm the locations you both would enjoy together. If it is too hard to choose, agree to flip a coin!
Do Online Research
Once you decide on a destination, do research on the Internet for possible hotels, sites to visit and traveling within your locale. When you look at the hotel's website, pay attention to specific details you find appealing, like a pool, spa services and exercise facilities. Have a conversation with your other half about what he or she wants in an accommodation. Research restaurants to visit and determine if reservations are required. If you are road-tripping it to your locale, check up on the traffic laws to avoid an unwelcome surprise in the form of a ticket. Some destinations prohibit talking on the cell phone while driving, so know your info before you go.
Discuss a Budget
Talking finances is sometimes a difficult subject to breach between new couples, but a conversation about who is paying for what will eliminate guesswork and hurt feelings. Be honest and decide what is affordable for your individual budgets. Then stick to a game plan on traveling, hotel and restaurant costs. Charging up your credit card to avoid a discussion on finances will only lead to relationship resentment in the future. Make a travel budget with your boyfriend or girlfriend prior to booking hotels and other miscellaneous expenses.
Remember you are on a vacation so ditch your schedule and choose to go with the flow. Scope out activities around the locale you are visiting and indulge in some champagne in your bedroom, a late-night stroll around a scenic route or enjoy breakfast in bed. Use the getaway to try something new, like zip-lining, wine tasting or a movie marathon in your room. Keep an open mind and don't let the stress of planning every minute take over your getaway time.
You run the risk of ruining the romantic vibe if you spend the whole time talking on your phone or texting. If you need to make an important call for work, ask your girlfriend or boyfriend if it is acceptable to step away for a few minutes to have your conversation. This will demonstrate your willingness to put your girlfriend or boyfriend first. The point of the getaway is to connect with one another and avoid staring at your screen.
Putting in some thought into your first getaway is the best way to start your vacation on the right foot. Just relax, have fun and enjoy your milestone moment in your relationship!
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