| My ethnicity is | White |
| Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
| Body type | Few extra pounds |
| Have children | Children at home |
| Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
| Nickname | Heather1073, Woman, 52 |
| Location | Galesburg, Illinois, USA |
| Looking for a | Man, aged 22 - 99, Black/Latino/Mixed |
| My ethnicity is | White |
| Height | 5'7"-5'11" |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term/Friends |
| Body type | Few extra pounds |
| Have children | Children at home |
| Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
"Looking for happiness... Like everyone else!"
I am a very outgoing, self-confident, independent woman. I'm a single mom of one son. I am very sarcastic and love, love, love to laugh. However, I am a great listener and a very loyal person to those close to me. I don't have many close friends but the ones I do have I will more than likely have for the rest of my life and would do anything for them. I am very close to my family and can't imagine not being close to them. I am fiercely independent which turns many men off, but I'm not SO independent that I don't want a good man by my side to take care of, love and share the good and bad times with. I'm not desperate and will not just 'settle'. I have too much pride in myself and self respect to be with just anyone just to say I have someone. I don't have time or patience for drama; I have eliminated as much of that from my own life as possible and really just don't want to deal with it in other's lives. I work 2 sometimes 3 jobs so am very busy but can and do make time for anyone or anything I find worthwhile.
I am looking for
I am looking for a good, honest, loving man. I have been with the selfish, lazy, dishonest, cheating, blah, blah, blah men in the past. I don't hold that against anyone who may be part of my future. What those men taught me was what I will tolerate and won't, what a good man should be like, and how I know I can feel when I'm with the right one... Happy and content. I've been lonely with the wrong men... And like the saying goes, 'I'd rather be lonely by myself than lonely with you'. I'm not one of those anti-men women who should probably go ahead and be with a woman. I LOVE men, and quite frankly, a woman has the same parts as me... What am I supposed to do with that? I do not hold my past against my future. I just want a man who will make me laugh, let me cry on his shoulder when I need to, and love me for me.