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So your just getting into online dating, or maybe online
dating didn't work out for you the first time you tried it.
Don't give up...it might have just been that your profile
wasn't up to par. By following a few simple suggestions you
can drastically improve your profile and increase your
chances of meeting that special person online!
Post a picture. This is by far the most important thing you
can do to increase your chances of meeting someone you click
with. While we all like to say 'looks don't really matter',
the truth is we are initially attracted to someone based on
their looks. Not having a picture online not only reduces
the number of people who will browse your profile, it also
tells other people online that you aren't serious about
meeting someone online.
Now some will argue that they don't want their picture on
the Internet. If this is how you feel then put a line in
your profile telling people that if they want a picture to
send you an email and then you can decide who gets to see
your picture. Most importantly you need to have a picture
to present to other people.
Post an appropriate picture. While posting a picture is
crucially important, posting an inappropriate picture can
have a worse effect than not posting one at all.
First, don't post the picture of you with the ex girlfriend
/ boyfriend. Not only will it drive people away from your
profile but also you will end up answering the question 'who
is that in the picture with you' a million times. On the
same note don't post a picture with you and your 10 friends.
Once again you will get the 'which one is you' question over
and over.
Next, don't post a professional picture. We all know that
you look great in that glamour shot or the Christmas
pictures you had taken for your mom, but posting a
professionally shot picture online makes you look like your
trying too hard.
My suggestion is to ask your friend to take a picture of you
right before your ready to go out on the town, or when
you're having the friends over for a barbecue. Make sure
you look presentable in the picture but don't make it look
like the picture was taken just for the dating web site.
Fill out your questionnaire completely. Most online dating
web sites have free form section or a question and answer
section where you can describe yourself in your own words.
Make sure you fill out these sections. I know that it can
be time consuming to answer all the questions but try to
think of it as an investment in your dating future. After
you have answered the questions, double check what you have
written to make sure it makes sense to the reader.
A few tweaks to your online dating profile can make huge
differences in finding the right person online.
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