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Letmelead.
Nickname:  letmelead
Location:  United States, Minnesota, Minneapolis
Age:  40
I am a:  Man
Looking for a:  Woman, aged 27 - 40
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Hazel
Hair color:  Black
Height:  5'7"-5'11" (170cm-180cm)
Body Type:  Athletic
My ethnicity is:  Black / Non-African descent
Religion:  Find Out Later
Education:  Bachelors degree
Smoking behavior:  Hate smoking
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Single
Have children:  Find Out Later
Want children:  Find Out Later
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Computer related
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my country
Starsign:  Gemini
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs
My fashion sense is: 
Wear the latest trends
My sense of humor is: 
Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm the Life of the party, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
Something athletic or energetic, Lunch with a friend, Doing absolutely nothing, Pursuing a hobby, Shopping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Find Out Later
When it comes to work: 
Find Out Later
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I am a man who knows what he wants out of life. I just haven't found the right friend and partner to share it with. I would say I am Intelligent, caring, honest, supportive, funny. Not trying to be cocky but I think my mom and dad raised me right. I love a night out as well as the cozy nights on the couch watching a movie. I want someone who after everymorning I wake up I thank God he brought them into my life. Hopefully if you are reading this it is you.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I feel like I am writing a short story... Lol. However, how can you understand the thoughtfulness, intelligence, and humor of a person thru a picture. I am not the guy that bought you a drink at the bar and followed you around all night thinking you were his next girlfriend... Lol. I am also not interested in games, dishonesty or people who are truly not interested in finding a partner. If that is what you are looking for then you may want to consider someone else. I would love to be that man that makes you smile every day that one person you consider your confidante and best friend.

My question to you? Why are you on the site? Looking for that special someone? Better yet. Your girl signed you up and the two of you like to laugh and look at the pictures? Ladies... People or US magazine is more entertaining... Lol. Don't you remember those days when you could talk to someone for 3 hours and it was like the clock never moved. When is the last time you kissed a man and you could feel the butterflies before he even touched you. Thru time I finally learned what I truly want in a woman and this is my advice ladies on your search. Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, one who calls you back when you hang up on him, one who will stay awake just to watch you sleep... Wait for the boy who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweat pants, who holds your hand in front of his friends. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... If you don't have that then he is not the one.

A pretty face is important to me however a woman's ability to make me laugh and challenge my mind is what will keep me. A good looking girl who can make you laugh and make fun of you all at the same time. That's a winner... Lol. I am looking for a woman who is one of a kind. A woman that enjoys nice things and doesn't mind being spoiled and can pack a suitcase and can meet me in another city when I want to get away. The big house, cars, I can give you all of that but would you still be there if it all went away and we had to start all over just YOU and ME.

Any way(What are thinking right now? All I want is ten minutes. Send me a message... Let me take over.)
Looking for ethnicity: 
White / European descent, Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other