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Nickname:  safkanova
Location:  United Kingdom, England, Brighton
Age:  37
I am a:  Woman
Looking for a:  Man, aged 28 - 50
Relationship seeking:  Long Term Relationship
Eye color:  Hazel
Hair color:  Auburn/Red
Height:  5'2"-5'6" (157cm-169cm)
Body Type:  A few extra pounds
My ethnicity is:  Asian, White / European descent, Indian, Mixed / Multi, Other
Religion:  Atheist
Education:  Some college
Smoking behavior:  Smoke occasionally
Drinking behavior:  Drink Socially
Relationship Status:  Divorced
Have children:  Yes, living at home
Want children:  No
Languages:  English
Occupation:  Student
When it comes to relocation:  I would relocate within my city
Starsign:  Capricorn
My Personality
Ideally I'd live in a: 
In the city, House in the suburbs, Property in the country, Beach house
My fashion sense is: 
Dress according to the occasion
My sense of humor is: 
Goofy - I'm Dumb and Dumber in one, Witty - I have a razor-sharp tongue, Sarcastic - Dennis Miller is a cream puff compared to me, Obscure, Light-hearted - I like cheerful, gentle fun
When I go to parties: 
I'm in the background but enjoying myself, I go with the flow
On a day off, I enjoy: 
A cultural outing such as museum or gallery, Curling up with a good book, Lunch with a friend, Spending time with the family, Doing absolutely nothing, Pursuing a hobby, Playing with my pet, Shopping, Watching TV or a movie
I attend religious services: 
Doesn't Apply
When it comes to work: 
I work part-time
Who Am I?
How would you describe yourself?: 
I am a down to earth person who feels you need to be able to laugh at whatever life throws at you, I am a single Mum to a 15 year old (mixed race)child who is my priority and as such my life is centred around her and my commitment to her.

I am currently studying a psychology degree as well as working with a view to hopefully become a psychologist in a few years time...
I enjoy music of most genres but have a soft spot for hip-hop, rap, reggae, rock music and alternative and some dance music, I like movies and cinema, walking on the beach, parks, pub lunches, comedy nights, hanging out with friends. Family oriented stuff and plenty more... I believe that good communication, honesty, trust, passion and a desire to please ones' partner is as important as pleasing ones' self.
What Am I Looking For?
I am looking for: 
I am looking for a man, ideally for a long term relationship who has common goals with me. Compatibility is important! You can't put a square peg in a round hole (but you might have fun trying). Good sense of humour, easy going, able to communicate how you are feeling and not keeping things to yourself is a must-as is trust, open mindedness, fidelity and being flexible at times when required to be so-this is sounding like a job application isn't it?!

Seriously though, these are the qualities you need to have for it to work with me :)

PS I'm not the religious type so please don't try to 'recruit' me!
Looking for ethnicity: 
Asian, Black / African descent, Black / Non-African descent, White / European descent, Indian, Islander, Latino / Hispanic, Mixed / Multi, Native American, Other, All ethnicities