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Interracial infidelity

Posted by Ria, 02 Jun

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Are you in a same-race relationship and are cheating on your spouse interracially? Let not the above happen to you!!!

Enough marriages have broken up because of such scenarios. The husband is very happy the wife is expecting their third child and then nine months later... there pops a mixed-race baby. I know of a woman whom this happened to her and funny enough, even after her popping her interracial love child, the husband didn't send her packing. In fact they went ahead and had the forth and fifth black child.

Up to date, I usually wonder what her story was. And wasn't it awkward for the child growing up in a purely black family? And what excuse did she give her friends and parents? If you found yourself in such a situation, would you forgive?

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  1.   Member says:
    Posted: 18 Mar 10

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  2.   WHURR says:
    Posted: 19 Jul 09

    First it was Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer ( we all know his momma cheatin') and now its dayum zebra-donks. This world is a trip! "WHURR...YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER!" "THANK YOU MAURY........"

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  3.   G&B says:
    Posted: 18 Jul 09

    We are a long term couple that have played with swinging and interacial cuckolding. When we were younger we seriously considered having a child fathered by someone else, maybe even a black man. There is a couple in our small community that have a child obviously fathered by one of their friends. They were likely drinking and having fun and she got pregnant by the friend! We are past the point of having more kids but we love reading about it.

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  4.   www.ru4real.com says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 09

    Im just here to tell about what has happened to me.I am a 39 yr. old white male devorced 9 yrs. ago from 1st wife of 8 yrs w/3 smart,attractive,respectful children. 5 months later I met my current wife trust me I wus'nt looking!5'5,115,redhead,green eyes,olive complected & 11 yrs.my jr.! We dated on and off for 3 or so yrs. before I took an unexpected unpaid vacation, 2yrs flat! She straitened up, found a church home,true friends and pressed forward to achieve all the good possible.I got out,went to our house,got in our shower,ect.We then were married that afternoon including family at my parents farm. I had a gut feeling that something was diffrent shortly after she started working outside the home again. She works w/a girl that is pregnate by a black guy. Both her and I would'nt approve of it for our children,but if others do we have nothing against it. May 25,2009 we had a falling out so she packed up and moved to one of her parents properties closer to her work. She began to be cold and distent over the phone, so on her Bday I made her a card,picked and arranged wild flowers(she loves when I do)and went to suprise her. She was'nt there so I left them w/a note asking her to call.She did about 10:00 pm saying her and her co-worker had gone to play bingo about 15 miles away.We said our goodnights,but I thought I would supprise her (and get some). When I got there I parked my truck in the back.She answered the door, but was acting realy odd and "just wanted me to hold her". You have to understand I'm the one who can do with out!She is allways begging!She laid in bed as I sat trying to figure out the situation,when headlights hit the windows!We both got up to look out of the open window. This black dude approached,not aware of me(yet!)and she says"hey dude you got the wrong house" his responce is"keri,its me you said to come on". OH MY GOD !!! I FREAKED its 12:00am and as im barroling out the door he is running to his car and she non shalontly says "its not what you think" I just kept walking to my truck in complete shock and went back home. Stick around to see what happened when I met up w/her later the next day !

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  5.   homesteader says:
    Posted: 16 Jan 09

    To each , his own / our lives are Marvelous Together

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  6.   bill says:
    Posted: 16 Jan 09

    This happened to me. My wife and I have been married for 12 years and we are both white. A little over 2 years ago, she began an affair with a black man at her job and she got pregnant and had his baby. We are still together but it is tough because we have an 8 year old daughter that asks questions about why our son does not look like us.

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  7.   lala2qz says:
    Posted: 20 Oct 08

    hmmmmmm..... in reference to lenny: to each his own, to each his own,I'll leave it at that...... uh huh

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  8.   lenny says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 08

    I would love to be married to a white lady and have some beautiful black babies. I would love them forever.

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  9.   lenny says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 08

    I would not be upset. I would welcome a black child if my wife was white. She would be free to share her body with a black man if she wanted. If a pregnancy occurred I would love and raise the baby as my own. Love is a commitment no matter what.

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  10.   lenny says:
    Posted: 21 Sep 08

    I would not be upset. I would welcome a black child if my wife was white. She would be free to share her body with a black man if she wanted. If a pregnancy occirred I would love and raise the baby as my own. Love is a commitment no matter what.

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  11.   blue1 says:
    Posted: 24 Jul 08

    Raynedelay's point was most interesting to me. Too many people walk out of marriages because they are not happy and forget the committment. this case is extreme, but her point is veerrrry important

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  12.   sweetb43 says:
    Posted: 02 Jul 07

    Not going to judge but it seem when women behave like this .most come from disfunction homes . too bad he or she does'nt have much shelf-worth in himor shelf because clear women who behave in this manner need a physical mental check . people i sorry for the kids in this case . they will have to live with there diffrence fathers. also i can forgive a person one time but not for the same problem over and over.

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  13.   Slingblade says:
    Posted: 26 Jun 07

    i was in a marriage like that once,,she had 8 kids before we married and has10 now by 7 different men,,one by me and one by the lawyer that did the divorce between us,,,the sex was sooooo good,,even better after we divorced,,funny thing was it looked like a childcare center on fathers day with all the dads coming there to get their kids,,

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  14.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 22 Jun 07

    Tuna fish and cigarettes? Is that any better?

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  15.   Cocokisses says:
    Posted: 18 Jun 07

    Now that is a NASTY combo Moss!

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  16.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 14 Jun 07

    Fala, we go together like Chinese food and chocolate pudding!

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  17.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 07

    Fala, Next thing you know, you'll be firing me, and please do something about that hair!!!

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  18.   RW says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 07

    I find this to be a situation where the cheating spouse should have herself moved on. It was clear there was a definite preference there. Personally went through similar situation but not not involving so many children. My wife simply decided to "experiment" one time and found the experiemt to be such she ended up deeply into a situation she found enjoyable yet befuddling. I stood by her and eventually she did return and we raised our own 4 children with no problems in that area again.

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  19.   fala says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 07

    LOL@Coco I always wanted an apprentice. Now I feel like The Donald. LOL Not that Mossimo needs much help. ;-)

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  20.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 08 Jun 07

    Coco, I am just Fala's apprentice carefully learning from her wiley ways. ;) Love ya Fala!!!

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  21.   Cocokisses says:
    Posted: 07 Jun 07

    I think she meant VOWS...see? Ah is edumakated! All those years taking my remedial classes paid off :) Fala you and Moss just can't resist being bad, and we love ya for it!

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  22.   laugh_sailor says:
    Posted: 07 Jun 07

    Scary monsters! Run away! Run away!

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  23.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 06 Jun 07

    All in good fun Fala!!! Big ups to you

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  24.   fala says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 07

    LMAO@Mossimo! And you call me a flame thrower!

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  25.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 07

    What's a marriage vowel? I was married once...is that when you yell ohhhhhhhhh??? ;)

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  26.   Cocokisses says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 07

    Fala, if I knew, I'd bottle the stuff and sell it on E-Bay!

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  27.   RayneDelay says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 07

    Well I would have to say that if anyone is confused over why the guy stayed maybe you should read the same marriage vowels that he did. Simple as that he is loyal to his marriage and family. OR, maybe he has a woman on the side.

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  28.   fala says:
    Posted: 05 Jun 07

    LOL@vodoo stuff. Any idea where I can find that Cocokiss?

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  29.   Cocokisses says:
    Posted: 04 Jun 07

    I hear that T-Shirt! There is a fine line between being forgiving, and being a doormat! That woman must have some good voo-doo stuff going on down there to make a man that forgiving!

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  30.   Waylon says:
    Posted: 04 Jun 07

    She would be gone. No more consolation prizes. I have had enough hurt over a woman cheating on me that I treated like a queen. As far as I would be concerned, she can go live with her lover and the child they bore and I would move on with my life and the two children that were mine. Although I would still have a bloodtest done on them also. I would continue to love and raise them, but I would need to know for sure.

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  31.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 07

    A good looking donk-zebra though

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  32.   mossimo says:
    Posted: 03 Jun 07

    That was an unexpected story. I am not sure if I could be as forgiving as the husband in this story. Talk about a lot to ask. God Bless him!

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