My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Bumblebea, Woman, 61 |
Location | Lancaster, Pennsylvania, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 35 - 50, Black/Pacific Islander/Latino... (Exclusive) |
My ethnicity is | White |
Height | 5'3" (160 cm) |
Status | Single |
Seeking | Friends/Long-term |
Body type | Large build |
Have children | Children not at home |
Smoking | Smoke occasionally |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
Like to have fun, love to read... I don't have a lot of friends, but I have several very good ones... Which is much more important! I like to cook and bake, like to walk, talk, and just take things as they come. I may be a bit resistant to change, but I'm not stubborn about it. Change is good, new experiences and challenges are what help us grow as people.
I am looking for
Honest, sincere, but fun-loving guy. Someone who likes to go out, but also enjoys staying home and cuddling once in a while. Likes to give as well as receive...
Someone who knows that material things may be nice, but they are not everything... It's much more important to go to bed at night with someone you love and respect than it is to lie beside someone who can fill your life with what are essentially meaningless objects.
I value someone who knows the benefit of good conversation and open communication, but who can also embrace a companionable silence.
Yes, there is more for you to learn about me, but that can be done through emails and telephone calls. Do you really want to get to know someone like me? Talk to me. Give me some time to talk to you, to find out what is important to you. Listen. Share. Be yourself. See some things you like and some you don't? Realize that I am a human being with flaws and faults like everyone, but I can recognize them in myself and work to change them. Maybe I already am. Maybe you can help me.
One last thing. YES, I am on an interracial dating site. I am on this site because I have always been attracted to men of color. I'm not "into" black men. I'm not trying to see what it's like. I am not trying for shock value (yes, I still think that happens, unfortunately, even in 2014). I have never picked a man because of his color. A man may catch my eye because of how he looks, but if he doesn't have anything else going on, then I won't bother. I date people who interest me, who teach me, who help me grow. I would like to share my time with a man, but I don't need to.