My ethnicity is | Other |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
Nickname | Ch55555, Woman, 50 |
Location | New Haven, Connecticut, USA |
Looking for a | Man, aged 30 - 50, Black |
My ethnicity is | Other |
Height | 5'2"-5'6" |
Status | Divorced |
Seeking | Long-term |
Body type | Athletic build |
Have children | No children |
Smoking | Smoke daily |
Drinking | Drink socially |
How would you describe yourself?
My personality cannot be reduced to banal definitions. I am an ever lasting quest of an endless refusal to conform to social patterns.. Including this one. Well, this is how I started originally, realizing that there are still men that are "afraid of Virginia Woolf". It is just that I am not the kind of woman, a somewhat "wallpaper", that will start babbling about her "free spirit" and "good heart", looking for a man who she can be comfortable wearing high heels and karrimor (well, that is my version for proper shows). I am a woman. No need for resumes. I prefer narratives. Nevertheless, since it is the main medium for outlining who I am, not who you want me to be, I will just say: I am from Israel (Now you probably understand the bad grammar...), where I've been working as a social-rights attorney-activist for the underprivileged and poor lacking the basic privilege to dream. I came to the US to pursue advanced studies at The Yale Law School. Passion and compassion are my substitute for "good heart" and "free spirit". Passion for life and compassion for others well being. Passion to give back the relative privilege I was blessed with and challenge (by any means necessary..) any oppressive social constructions. At this point I am sure you are probably either crying, falling a sleep, or deadly scared. Again, this is who I am. I was fortunate to work with amazing people that have taught me one or two things about humility and solidarity-how it feels to be invisible, living just around the corner. I was blessed with AMAZING family and friends whose perception of family and friendship is more than having Shabbat dinners or having a drink - they embrace and shelter. I LOVE music. And by music I don't mean only that you can buy in fancy shops in the west, but also music, not folklore, you can find in tapes in beautiful and rich markets of Marrakech.
I am looking for
I am looking for a man that will not be intimidated by a strong "hard headed woman" (even Cat Stevens said she "will make [him] do [his] best"), unless he has problems with his manhood in which case I can recommend on a good therapist; and a man that is looking for more than a "good hearted woman", in which case you need to visit the local cardiologist and apply for a suitable heart donor. Smart well read and intelligent men don't impress me. I am surrounded by so many. It is sensitivity and compassion that I am after, not because I am a woman - because that's what's important. You should be a man that will embrace a woman who is talking, longing, feeling, existing, thinking, wanting, special, unique, interesting, interested in, feminine but not submissive, clashing, complex, deep, happy, funny, witty, loving and ambitious, justice oriented, peace motivated, romantic, passionate, curious, feisty, diverse, humane and empowering. A man that will not be intimidated by contradictions of complexity and simplicity, depth and "down to earth", loud and quite, independent and needing, strength and weakness, missionary and also on top... To those having the urge to write something rude, please respect your self and don't even bother to interrupt with my private sphere. It does not intimidate me. I told you, I'm into compassion... So, if you are here (if you haven't fallen a sleep that is), move your fingers, as I say in Hebrew, and write to me. I swear I won't bite...