| My ethnicity is | Black |
| Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
| Body type | Average build |
| Have children | Children not at home |
| Smoking | Hate smoking |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
| Nickname | Cocoa722, Woman, 36 |
| Location | Oceanside, California, USA |
| Looking for a | Man, aged 33 - 50, White (Exclusive) |
| My ethnicity is | Black |
| Height | 5'5" (165 cm) |
| Status | Single |
| Seeking | Long-term/Dating |
| Body type | Average build |
| Have children | Children not at home |
| Smoking | Hate smoking |
| Drinking | Drink socially |
"Talk To Me Nice Or Don't Talk To Me Twice!"
We aren't getting any younger. I am looking for a culturally diverse and open-minded, funny, tall ruggedly handsome man that can handle a woman that is sweet, caringly aggressive, well traveled and all over pretty amazing. Simple ask right??
End Game = Boyfriend then Husband. Period.
If we don't share the same end goal then WTF is the point?
After some recent self assessment it would appear that I am whimsical, adventurous and spontaneous when it comes to matters of the heart. It's far and between when I actually feel a connection so when I do, the above mentioned kicks in. Subconsciously I want my potential partner not to be scared off by this and can go with what "feels" right, whether that be politely declining offer or being all in. What I DON'T want is someone living in the past of their failed relationships which ends up blocking future/present connections.
Quotes that make you go hmmm:
"A woman can be your best friend, most passionate satisfying lover, your wife, your worst enemy and/or nightmare. It just depends on how you treat her."
"Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness."
"A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."
"Sometimes what you seek isn't always delivered in the little pretty package you expect it to come in"
"They say I'm in my own little world, that's ok... They love me here!"
"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for."
Although I'm not an ageist let's be honest...if you might have a heart attack trying to keep up with my vibrant nature then it's best we don't chat.
I am looking for
::Let me get this out of the way:;
The next person I date seriously shouldn't be scared of marriage, this is something I want sooner than later. Long term only, not looking for friends (I have enough already).
Oh and NO TRUMP SUPPORTERS!
::Now on to the lighter stuff lol::
Has anyone seen that show Cat Fish?! If not Google it, this is the reason why I prefer someone local, pretending to be something you're not is pitiful.
I seek a free spirit, that loves to go out and enjoy life, I want a travel partner, a best friend, someone that doesn't take themselves so seriously(out side of work). A kindhearted soul, I seek someone that loves kids as my daughter IS the key to my heart.
I want to be worshiped, I'm very pro-feminism and believe every female is a Goddess in her own right with that being said, I'm looking for the type of man that is ok with that because when he sees me happy he is happy! What's that saying? Happy wife happy life? Yeah that's it.
I seek someone who is reflective and understands their own values and needs, one whom is willing to work at a relationship rather than HOPE one happens. A strong character when necessary, but more someone who is able to express themselves without childish theatrics, needs to be emotionally stable.
I seek a man that isn't looking for a clone of himself, diversity is a major turn on for me... If you think we have nothing in common but still feel an urge to get to know me AND be open to doing things outside of YOUR box?! Double points (Yes I use a point system, every girl does but they aren't man enough to admit it... Wait.. Huh?)
Also if you actually took the time out to read my profile, you already get extra points because lets face it, the $hit is pretty long winded!!! But i'd rather give you all the info instead of not enough.